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7 days of fun and flirty activities and conversation starters for you to feel closer, connect deeper, and have your best week ever.

When you first met your partner, you probably couldn’t keep your hands off each other. Sex was passionate, intimate, maybe even a little wild.

But life happens. Priorities shift. Resentments build.

And in the bedroom, that stuff starts to get in the way — creating weird vibes, awkwardness, maybe even hurt feelings — and pleasure stops being the priority (and like, that defeats the entire purpose…)

Okay for a sec...

let's get real

Does this sound familiar?

I love my partner, but that ‘take off all your clothes’ vibe is gone

My partner doesn’t listen or seem to pay attention to what I want

It used to feel so much easier between us — so why is it so hard to get in the mood now?

We only talk about sex when one of us is complaining (“You never initiate” or “I feel lonely”)

I want to feel confident and sexy both with the giving and receiving, but it always feels kinda awkward or uncomfortable

I want to feel closer to my partner in all of the ways, but they feel closed off which makes me scared to be vulnerable

I feel so emotionally disconnected from my partner that it’s really hard to be interested in sex

If I’m being honest, we feel more like roommates than romantic partners (and that feels scary)

Sex sometimes feels like something that just needs to get done (which sucks)

It seems like everyone else is having hot, passionate sex — is something wrong with us?

you're not alone

We’ve polled over half a million people and guess what — 95% of couples feel JUST LIKE YOU — awkward, frustrated and unfulfilled.

If this has you going… well sh*t that’s me

How the heck did we all get here?

Well, somewhere between rom-coms and p*rn, we’ve been told that if we’re truly soulmates, sex will just happen naturally and we won’t need to work on our relationships. We’re just supposed to have wild, toe-curling, soul-shaking sex like every day.

But if you’re here, reading these words, you already know that just isn’t happening.

So are you doomed to mediocre connection and less-than-incredible-sex for the rest of your life?

NOPE.

THE TRUTH IS… a great sex life doesn’t happen by accident.

A rock-solid relationship and a sizzling hot sex life don’t just fall into your lap; you have to create and nurture them.

is your cheat code to connecting more deeply, loving more fiercely, and starting to have the best sex of your life

That’s where we come in.

In 10 minutes a day, you and your partner will have your best week ever, emotionally, sexually, and intimately.

Over the next 7 days, we’ll guide you through these five secrets to everyday intimacy with fun but surprisingly enlightening activities.

Acknowledgement

(because if you want to have an extraordinary relationship, you gotta be able to talk about it)

01 Desire

(to help you understand what you actually need to get excited about sex)

03 Connection

(the key ingredient to feeling open to intimacy in the first place)

02 Pleasure

(because let’s be real, why would you crave something that isn’t enjoyable?)

04 Exploration

(aka, how to keep it spicy for life!)

05

After 20+ years, and working with tens of thousands of couples, we’ve developed a proven, five-step system to create aligned and lasting intimacy:

Here's how it works...

(Don’t worry – you won’t be doing any awkward eye-gazing or naked interpretive dancing! These are shockingly approachable activities you’re going to feel genuinely excited to do!)

Here's what you get with Your Best Week Ever:

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7 days of flirty, playful, totally approachable activities (delivered straight to your inbox)

Easy conversation starters to help you get back on the same page and feel closer than ever — all week long

Insights from a licensed therapist — for way less than what you'd spend on one single therapy session

A downloadable workbook with each day’s intimacy secret revealed, plus your daily activities

(well, when you put it that way…)

You’ll be blown away by how a couple of days can transform your sex life.

Join now for just $29!

Hi! We're Vanessa & Xander.

We’ve launched dozens of mega-popular guides, courses, and even a NYT bestselling book on sex and relationships — but we decided it was time to make something for couples who just don't have the time to go through an entire course or book yet.

So we made something designed to give you the maximum impact for minimum effort.

If you’re one of those “why is life always so hectic?!” type-of-people, this is perfect for you.

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20+ years of experience in the sex therapy field — and Xander’s a regular dude who left his job at Google so he could talk about sex all day with his wife.

Our mission is to bring more love and more orgasms into the world!

We know you want true and lasting intimacy, but the problem is that no one ever taught you how. No one ever sat you down and taught you the secrets to deep love and hot sex, right?!

We’re here to change that! Because you deserve it!

We’ve launched dozens of mega-popular guides, courses, and even a NYT bestselling book on sex and relationships — but we decided it was time to make something for couples who just don't have the time to go through an entire course or book yet.

So we made something designed to give you the maximum impact for minimum effort.

If you’re one of those “why is life always so hectic?!” type-of-people, this is perfect for you.

OKAY I'M IN

If bringing up the idea of intimacy to your partner makes you want to hide under the covers… GOOD NEWS.

It’s actually SO normal to feel uncomfortable bringing up sex and connection with your partner. That’s a HUGE part of what we show you in Your Best Week Ever — how to talk about sex without making it all awkward and embarrassing.

And the best part is, you don’t even need to show Your Best Week Ever to your partner. If you’re shy or nervous, you can use our prompts to initiate conversations and activities without them knowing.

So go on, sneak it into your everyday life. By the end of the week, we bet you won’t feel uncomfortable anymore.

but what if...

I'm nervous to share this with my partner

is the perfect dip-your-toe-in guide to connecting more intimately (and passionately) in your love & sex life.

(Did you know the average date night in the US costs $123?! At just a fraction of that, Your Best Week Ever is a serious no-brainer!)

Picture it...

You’re having sex that’s so fulfilling and exciting you can’t help but crave it

You understand each other so much better, and you feel more invested in each other’s needs than ever before

You feel so much more confident and truly deserving of all the pleasure and connection you’re receiving

You and your partner can’t stop grinning and winking at each other when you make eye contact

You’re feeling like an unstoppable team — inside and outside of the bedroom

There’s a lightheartedness and playfulness between the two of you that even your kids and friends are starting to notice

If you want intimacy to feel like a fun little secret between you two, Your Best Week Ever is perfect for you.

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(c’mon, don’t tell us you don’t have 10 minutes for your relationship)

What are you waiting for?

& forever.

Reconnect tonight, tomorrow,