Looking for fast answers to your questions, or specific advice tailored to your situation? Take a look at this useful, convenient, and affordable option.

How it works

As soon as you sign up for a session, you’ll get an email confirmation from me with an intake form for you to fill out. It will help you organize your thoughts and questions, and help me learn a bit about your background.

You can make your responses as short or as long as you want – basically think of it as your opportunity to reflect on your situation and gather your thoughts. Almost as if you were writing in a journal, or to a friend.

Within 24-48 hours, you’ll get a personal response with my feedback, advice, and suggested exercises, written out in detail.

Who it’s for

Email coaching sex therapy is best for you if:

You’re looking for fast, personal, and affordable solutions

You’re good at organizing your thoughts through writing

You’re ready to have a much more exciting, fulfilling, and enlivening sex life!

“I was beyond nervous about reaching out to a sex therapist – plus I’m a student on a tight budget – so I was drawn to the convenience and affordability of Vanessa’s email coaching sessions. I was skeptical about how much help she could offer via email, but I was amazed by all of her insights. The email I received back from her was jam-packed with answers and ideas that I referred back to for months to come.”

- Alyson C.

What I can help you with

I’m happy to answer any sex or relationship questions you have, including:

How to experience more pleasure during sex

How to have your first orgasm, or how to orgasm with a partner

How to eliminate performance anxiety

How to make space in your busy lives for sex and intimacy, even when you’re exhausted

How to communicate with your partner about sex, without it leading nowhere (or worse, to a fight)

How to know if you and your partner are truly compatible

Discovering what works and doesn’t work for you, and how to ask for what you want

Coming up with ideas for ways to spice things back up in your bedroom, or bring the spark back into your relationship


When I coach via email, I spend the entire time focusing solely on coming up with advice and suggestions, so we end up covering a of ground!

What it costs

$150 per exchange. (One email from you, one response from me.)

Much less than my standard video chat sessions, which range from $349 to $449.

“My email coaching session with Vanessa exactly what I had hoped for. Her advice was incredibly helpful and comforting, not to mention useful. I’ve already started putting her advice into play, and it’s working. The whole experience was professional, thorough, and easy.”

- Evan O.

Ready to get started?

Head on over to my email coaching order form to sign up for your session.

Your order will be processed securely and confidentially, and your credit card will read “One Oh, Inc.” for your privacy.

In your confirmation email, you’ll find a short email coaching intake form. Fill it out, and email it back to me at your leisure.

I’ll confirm your payment, and will shoot you back a response within 48 hours. It’s that easy!

“I was excited to get your detailed reply with tons of suggestions. It was much more than I was expecting. I am confident that by trying these items, one of more of them will work for us. Thank you so much!”

- Elliott P.

Hi there! I'm Vanessa Marin.

I’ve been a featured expert for The New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, CNN, The Times of London, GQ, Rolling Stone, Elle, Allure, Esquire, Shape, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Glamour, Self, Buzzfeed, Jezebel, Lifehacker, The Huffington Post, XoJane, Bustle, and many more.

I have a Bachelor’s degree in Human Sexuality from Brown University, and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#78931).


Your information is kept strictly confidential and is never shared. 

Please note that email coaching is not psychotherapy.