Picture this…

There’s a beautiful woman in your bed (maybe she’s your wife, your girlfriend, or some cutie you just met). She’s got that look in her eye. She’s telling you she’s ready. She starts moving towards you. The anticipation is almost too much to bear. You can feel every cell in your body screaming, “Yes! Yes! Yes!”

And then it happens…

The anxiety hits you like a tidal wave.

You know that the sex you so badly want to have in that moment is just not going to happen for you.

You’re not going to be able to get it up. Or you’ll lose it half-way through. You’ll come too fast. Or not at all.

It’s an awful feeling. It’s enough to make you not even want to attempt sex in the first place.

This doesn’t have to be your fate…

The Modern Man’s Guide To Conquering Performance Pressure

The Modern Man’s Guide is a comprehensive and innovative approach to resolving performance anxiety, erectile difficulties, early ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation.

This online program is designed to help you identify the potential causes of your performance anxiety, create strategies for managing stress in the moment, develop better control over your body, and eliminate performance problems once and for all.

You’ll be led through a series of guided exercises that you can work on from the privacy and comfort of your own home. You’ll learn:

The Five Foundations model of sexual performance

The truth about what women are really looking for in a sexual partner

How to decrease your overall anxiety levels

How to strengthen your erection and gain back your confidence in it

How to control when you have an orgasm, and how to get more enjoyment out of your orgasms

How to feel like you and your body are on the same team, instead of opponents

How to communicate with confidence

How to please your partner


Hi there! I’m Vanessa Marin!

I’m a sex therapist, coach, and writer.

I have a Bachelor’s degree in Human Sexuality from Brown University, and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’ve been featured by The New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, CNN, Rolling Stone, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Buzzfeed, Jezebel, Lifehacker, and many more.

I’ve coached hundreds of men through their performance anxiety, and have tested and honed my techniques through 15 years of experience.

I created The Modern Man’s Guide To Conquering Performance Pressure because my sex therapy practice is filled with generous, successful, kind, all around great guys who are struggling with overwhelming performance anxiety.

If you’ve landed on this page, you’re probably one of those men.

You consider yourself a more evolved type of man. You don’t want to pop prescription pills or sketchy supplements for the rest of your life. You don’t want to try those asinine pick-up artist alpha-male techniques. You’re done with the same old tired advice in men’s magazines.

But you also don’t want to keep feeling emasculated by problems with your erection and orgasm.

Get ready to leave performance anxiety in the dust, and start approaching sex with confidence and ease.

“I’ve been having performance issues for years, but never wanted to acknowledge how bad things were. I met an incredible woman who seemed like my ideal match, but struggled to get it up from the very first night we slept together. What followed was a horrifically awkward and emasculating couple of months trying to convince her that it had nothing to do with her. My sex drive deteriorate into nothing. When she finally left me, I realized I couldn’t afford to keep ignoring the problem. 

I’ll be honest – this program took a lot of thought and effort. It’s not for guys looking for a ‘quick fix’. But after working my way through the program, I’ve found that my confidence has increased exponentially. I understand why I was having erectile difficulties. I feel more in tune with and in control of my body. I have tricks to fall back on. And to top it all off – I’m having the best sex of my life. I don’t know what I would have done if I hadn’t found this guide.” 

- Tim C.

What you get with the Modern Man’s Guide:

Part 1 – Introduction

You’ll start with the essential information you need to know about what’s going on with your body, plus some simple strategies to help you optimize the time you spend on the program.

Part 2 – Get To The Root Of The Problem

You’ll start uncovering the potential causes of or factors in your situation. Trust me – there are going to be a few surprises!

Part 3 – Conquer Anxiety For Good

Exercises designed to help you decrease your overall level of anxiety, both inside and out of the bedroom.

Part 4 – Get Hard

Here you’ll hone in on specific exercises and techniques for getting and staying hard.

Part 5 – Last Longer

Strategies for helping you control your orgasm, including specific positions to use, sex toys to try, and changes to make to your masturbation habits.

Part 6 – Reach Orgasm

Techniques for helping you reach orgasm more quickly and satisfyingly.

Part 7 – Give This To Your Partner

Having a hard time talking about sex with your partner? I’ve got your back! I wrote this section of the program directly to her.

Part 8 – What To Do Next

Even more ideas for how to continue improving your sex life.

You get lifetime access to the course, so there are no deadlines or timelines. You can return to the course for a confidence boost whenever you need one.

You also get free access to all future updates and upgrades.

“This program was exactly what I needed. I’ll admit to having done some initial research into supplements and numbing sprays for helping me last longer, but I also knew in the back of my head that these ‘solutions’ were scams. Guess it goes to show you how desperate we men can get for a solution to our performance issues. After diligently working my way through this guide, I now have much greater control over my timing. I also have a much better understanding of what my wife needs from me. It wasn’t just about lasting longer. We couldn’t be happier.”

- Graham W.

You need this program

… because you’ve stopped enjoying sex as much as you used to

… because you’re tired of not knowing how to stop your snowball of anxiety

… because you’re worried that things are getting even worse

… because you’re sick of feeling anxious every time you’re about to have sex

… because you’re ready to take charge of the situation once and for all, and get real, lasting results

Stand-Alone Guide

$249One-time payment
  • Confidential online program.
  • 50+ tried and tested exercises
  • Lifetime access to program updates

VIP Package

$569One-time payment
  • Confidential online program.
  • 50+ tried and tested exercises
  • Lifetime access to program updates
  • 2 private email coaching sessions (valued at $350)

What happens next

Your transaction is securely processed by Stripe, PayPal or Apple Pay (depending on your choice of payment method), and your transaction will appear as “One Oh Inc” on your statement for your privacy.

You’ll get a welcome email with payment confirmation, the link to the course, and your password.

You can get started with eliminating anxiety and improving your performance immediately!