Finishing School Live

Enrollment is open June 5 - 9

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Have Orgasms Whenever You Want Them With Finishing School Live

(and discover yourself in the process)
ENROLL NOW!

What comes to mind when you hear the word orgasm?

Does it make you feel uncomfortable or ashamed? Does the whole process feel baffling to you? Are you still waiting to have your first orgasm, or do you struggle to orgasm consistently on your own or with your partner?

If orgasm is a challenge for you, you might feel pretty alone. You might feel like you’re the only woman going through this, and that orgasm must be so much easier for everyone else. But the truth is that millions of women have never had an orgasm, or aren’t able to have them consistently.

After close to two decades of study, research, and teaching, I’ve come to understand the dirty little secret about why the vast majority of women struggle with their orgasm…

Orgasm is such a challenge for so many women because we have been set up for failure.

We don’t talk about female orgasm openly and honestly, and we don’t give women the accurate, detailed information they need to know to be able to orgasm. We only talk about female orgasm in terms of it being “complicated”, “mysterious”, and “difficult”, and make women feel badly about our bodies and our needs. If you’re lucky to find any advice about orgasm, it’s always vague and unhelpful, like, “just relax” or “stop thinking about it.”

We women have been denied the opportunity to learn basic information about our bodies and have a fun, joyful, relaxed relationship with our bodies, pleasure, and orgasm.

That ends RIGHT NOW. Because Finishing School Live is open for enrollment!

Course Overview

Finishing School Live leads you through, step-by-step, having your first and better orgasms on your own and with your partner. It’s a comprehensive online course paired with live group coaching with an incredible community of supportive women. You’ll get to experience all of the pleasure your body is capable of, while also being part of a revolution that’s redefining how we approach female orgasm!

The Finishing School system will teach you:

  • The truth about how orgasm actually works, and why everything you’ve been taught about it is wrong.
  • How to identify and dismantle your blockages to orgasm, including self-consciousness about your body and distracting thoughts in the moment.
  • How to skyrocket your confidence and embrace your body.
  • Exactly how to masturbate to get the job done!
  • How to have powerful orgasms on your own and with your partner, from a variety of different types of stimulation.
  • How to create an entirely different atmosphere around sex, so you feel more excited about exploring on your own and with your partner.
  • How your orgasm can create a ripple effect in your life, transforming who you are inside – and outside – of the bedroom!
  • Live coaching and support

    You’ll be invited to live group coaching sessions every other week to get answers to your questions, plus heaps of motivation, support, and accountability!

  • A life-changing experience

    Yes, you’re going to learn how to orgasm. But the best things you’ll get out of Finishing School don’t even involve orgasm. You're going to learn a completely new way of relating to your body, pleasure, and sex.

  • Tested and proven

    Finishing School has been developed and tested for well over a decade. You will learn how to have an orgasm, just like the thousands of women who have already taken Finishing School!

  • Have fun!

    Most importantly, in Finishing School you’ll have fun learning how to orgasm on your own and with your partner. Because seriously, orgasm should be fun!

ENROLL NOW!

How It Works

The second you sign up for Finishing School, you’ll get access to the first week of video workshops and exercises to try, including guided practices.

Every other week, you’ll be invited to join live group coaching calls. These calls will be your chance to ask questions and get tons of personalized feedback, support, and accountability. The calls will be anonymous, so no one will know your name or see your face, but you’ll still get to feel the support and encouragement of a revolutionary community of women.

If you can’t make it to a live session, no problem! You can send in your questions before the session, and I’ll answer them during the call. You’ll get a recording of each of the live sessions, so you won’t miss anything.

You’ll get lifetime access to Finishing School, but the live calls will keep you motivated and accountable to work through the course and practice regularly.

I know you’re busy, so Finishing School is designed to be as streamlined and efficient as possible. You’ll get only the most powerful exercises in each week’s content.

If you want more, you can find additional tips and strategies in the Orgasm Vault – your top secret hideaway for bonus techniques!

Since Finishing School is fully online, it’s available for you to watch or listen to in your own home, on your own schedule, with complete privacy.

What Women Are Saying

Melanie P.

Signing up for Finishing School was a leap, but I am so glad I did. Just three weeks in and already I feel miles ahead of where I started. At first I was hesitant and uncertain of success.  What if I put in the time and effort … and failed? After years of health issues, I felt disconnected from my body and unsure of what I could feel anymore.

Vanessa Marin is so clear about the fact that all women can access sexual pleasure. I honestly didn’t know I needed to hear this. But that’s the thing about Finishing School. The approach is so positive that I feel like it is un-complicating my sex life. The course is constructed and paced to make sure I arrive at each stage equipped with reassuring information and even a set of custom tools for making the most of my journey.

It’s so worth the commitment. After a difficult break up, Finishing School is exactly what I needed to rebuild my sexual confidence and self-compassion. Already I feel a deeper bodily awareness and more alive to opportunities to nurture my own pleasure. I realize now that my sexual fulfillment isn’t going to happen out of nowhere; but it also isn’t an unsolvable mystery.

COURSE CURRICULUM

Is This For You?

As you’re reading through this page, you’re probably thinking of plenty of reasons why Finishing School won’t work for you.

But here’s the truth…

It doesn’t matter how old you are.
It doesn’t matter what your previous level of experience is.
It doesn’t matter what your sexual orientation or relationship status is.

There’s really only one factor that will determine whether Finishing School will work for you – your willingness to try.

Finishing School is only for women who are willing to put in effort.

It’s going to be a fun process, I promise! But you’re not going to have an instant orgasm the second you register. I’ll tell you exactly what to do, but you actually have to do it.

If you’re willing to give it a shot, you will orgasm.

“Less than a month later I have experienced a complete, 180 degree change! I can reach orgasm almost every time (but completely understand why and do not get discouraged when I don’t). I feel confident and empowered both by myself and with a partner. I am more intimately connected with my body and my sexuality; I enjoy exploring new techniques and new experiences on my way to orgasm.”

– ALANA H.

Course Packages

CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE!
GROUP COACHING

Live

  • The complete Finishing School system. ($649 value)
    Learn How To Orgasm plus Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • 7 group coaching calls. ($2,800 value)
    We’ll meet as a community every other week to cheer each other on! You’ll get answers to all of your questions, plus tons of motivation and accountability.
  • Bonus - A special group coaching call for you and your partner. ($500 value)
    I’ll be speaking directly to the partners of the ladies in Finishing School. Your partner will learn the truth about how female orgasm works, the common challenges that couples go through around female orgasm, and the information they need to be an amazingly supportive partner to you.
  • Bonus - Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Bonus - How To Initiate Sex With Your Partner, And Consider Your Partner’s Initiations. ($200 value)
    If you’ve ever struggled to initiate sex with your partner, or if your partner’s attempts to initiate put you on edge, this masterclass will be game-changing for you!
  • Bonus - The 30 Day Sex Challenge. ($129 value)
    You’ll get to start my popular 30 Day Sex Challenge after Finishing School is over, as a fun way to celebrate your success and keep things fresh and new in the bedroom!
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School. (Priceless)
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates. (Priceless)
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • LIMITED AVAILABILITY

    VIP

  • 3 private 50-minute coaching sessions. ($1,350 value)
    We’ll use these personal sessions to target specific techniques and create a personalized game plan for your Finishing School success. To jumpstart our work together, you’ll fill out a pre-session questionnaire, so I can dive right in and start giving you valuable feedback right away. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll get recordings of the calls, so you can refer back to them at anytime.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching. ($175 - $2,450 value)
    Includes my “With You Until The End” guarantee. I’ll be there to provide ongoing personal support and guidance until you’ve had your first orgasms on your own and with a partner. I’ve got your back!
  • The complete Finishing School system. ($649 value)
    Learn How To Orgasm plus Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • 7 group coaching calls. ($2,800 value)
    We’ll meet as a community every other week to cheer each other on! You’ll get answers to all of your questions, plus tons of motivation and accountability.
  • Bonus - A special group coaching call for you and your partner. ($500 value)
    I’ll be speaking directly to the partners of the ladies in Finishing School. Your partner will learn the truth about how female orgasm works, the common challenges that couples go through around female orgasm, and the information they need to be an amazingly supportive partner to you.
  • Bonus - Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Bonus - How To Initiate Sex With Your Partner, And Consider Your Partner’s Initiations. ($200 value)
    If you’ve ever struggled to initiate sex with your partner, or if your partner’s attempts to initiate put you on edge, this masterclass will be game-changing for you!
  • Bonus - The 30 Day Sex Challenge. ($129 value)
    You’ll get to start my popular 30 Day Sex Challenge after Finishing School is over, as a fun way to celebrate your success and keep things fresh and new in the bedroom!
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School. (Priceless)
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates. (Priceless)
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • What To Expect When You Purchase

    • As soon as you click the “Enroll Now” button, you’ll be led through the checkout process. You can use your credit card, PayPal, Apple Pay or Google Pay.
    • Immediately after purchase, you’ll get a welcome email with payment confirmation and directions for accessing the Finishing School member site.
    • Your credit card statement will read “One Oh, Inc” for your privacy. (No mention of my name or “sex therapy” on your statement!)
    • Your information will be kept strictly confidential and will never be shared.

    Unlock Your Bonuses

    $500 value

    The Orgasm Vault

    As part of your purchase, you’ll also get absolutely free access to the Orgasm Vault, which is chock-full of valuable orgasm- and sex-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. The Orgasm Vault will help you learn valuable lessons, like:

    • How to feel totally confident in your own skin.
    • How to be more skillful at pleasuring your partner.
    • Where to find female-friendly, ethically-made erotica.
    • The best sex toys. (Don’t waste $200 on a toy that you’ll only use once! I’ll let you know which ones are the best.)
    • How to approach orgasm if you experience depression or anxiety, if you have pain during sex, or if you’ve been sexually abused. (Yes, there’s still hope.)

    You’ll have lifetime access to the Vault, so you can keep improving your sex life long after you’ve had your first orgasms!

     

    $500 value

    A Special Group Coaching Call For You And Your Partner

    I’ll be talking directly to the partners of the ladies in Finishing School. I’ll tell them the truth about how female orgasm works, and the information they need to know to be a supportive partner to you. I’ll talk about some of the common challenges that couples go through around female orgasm, and normalize the fact that orgasm is a challenge for so many women. And I’ll answer any questions you or your partner have!

    Your partner will walk away from this call fully equipped to be the most amazing, supportive partner in your orgasmic journey, and you’ll walk away feeling like the weight of the world has been lifted off of your shoulders!

    Even if you’re not currently in a relationship, this call can be really valuable, because you’ll get to see the kinds of questions that partners are asking, and will get the tools to have these kinds of conversations in the future. Plus, you’ll get a recording of the call that you can watch with any future partner!

     

    $200 value

    How To Initiate Sex With Your Partner, And Consider Your Partner’s Initiations

    In this bonus workshop, I’ll guide you through, step-by-step, exactly how to comfortably initiate sex with your partner, how to consider their requests, and how you can both work together as a team to create a positive environment for initiation in your relationship.

    You’ll learn:

    • How to feel more confident initiating with your partner.
    • Specific initiation ideas that are fun and playful.
    • How to decide when to say “yes” to your partner’s initiations, and when to say “no.” This might seem obvious, but there’s a lot more to it than you think!
    • A third option that most people don’t ever even consider.
    • How to turn down your partner gently, in a way that will bring the two of you closer together.
    • How to create more balance in your relationship.

     

    $129 value

    The 30 Day Sex Challenge

    Once you finish the course, you’ll get free access to the 30 Day Sex Challenge! This is an email based challenge, where every single day, you and your partner get an email with specific “challenges” to try in the bedroom together.

    One of my goals with Finishing School is to help sex feel fun for you again! Because I know from first hand experience that orgasmic struggles can suck all of the joy out of sex. The 30 Day Sex Challenge is a super playful way for you and your partner to reconnect inside of the bedroom. Think of it as an awesome way to celebrate your Finishing School success!

    I’M HERE TO HELP YOU

    Have Orgasms Whenever You Want Them

    I’m Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you take your sex life from ordinary to extraordinary! I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

    I’ve struggled with my own orgasm challenges too, for 10 YEARS! I dealt with so much shame, frustration, anxiety, and hopelessness. I eventually learned how to get there, and I turned my own journey into a step-by-step system to teach other women to have their first orgasms too!

    Since then, I’ve taught thousands of women just like you to orgasm. I am deeply honored, humbled, and awestruck by the work I get to do, and I would love for you to be the next Finishing School success story!

    For years, I only offered private orgasm coaching. Working together, one-on-one, for the same amount of time as it takes to complete Finishing School costs close to $6,000.

    I created Finishing School because I wanted to make learning how to orgasm more affordable and accessible.

    There’s no denying that Finishing School is an investment. But making this commitment to yourself can be transformative. Simply by signing up, you are sending yourself the powerful message that your pleasure is important.

    You are important.

    YOU. ARE. WORTH. IT.

    Change Your Orgasm, Change The World

    When you invest in your pleasure with this round of Finishing School Live, you’re not only helping yourself, you’re also helping to empower other women!

    I’m taking a portion of the company’s profits from Finishing School, and using half to establish a scholarship fund for women who are unable to afford the full Finishing School tuition. The other half will go to charitable organizations that are helping promote sexual education and end sexual violence across the globe.

    Paige P.

    I HIGHLY recommend Finishing School for any woman that is struggling with her orgasm.

    I couldn’t believe that I was learning some of this information for the first time in my life! This course has helped me initiate so many conversations with my friends and sisters about orgasms and break the taboo of not discussing it. From that, I have learned that every woman is indeed so different. What works for one woman may not work for you and vice versa.

    Once I learned that orgasming is a skill and it may not just magically happen to you, it made me very determined to learn and gave me hope! Vanessa helped me understand my body better and feel more comfortable communicating with my partner. Now I can actually answer the question: “What would you like me to do?”

    You will not regret this investment in yourself. There is so much knowledge and comfort in this course!!

    The 30 Day, Risk-Free, Money-Back Guarantee

    If you commit yourself to the Finishing School system, you WILL orgasm.

    I know that orgasm is a sensitive topic, and that it can be easy to give up on yourself. But there has never been any research that shows that some women are just not capable of having an orgasm.

    Thousands of women – including many self-proclaimed “hopeless cases” – have used the Finishing School system to learn how to orgasm.

    This system works.

    At the same time, I know that it can be scary to take a leap of faith like this. So that’s why I’m offering a 30 day, risk-free, money-back guarantee. I can’t promise you that you’ll be wildly orgasmic in just 30 days. You’re too unique for me to put that kind of timeline on you! Truly commit yourself to Finishing School, and do all of the work. If you don’t feel any sort of change in your relationship with your body, pleasure, orgasm, or sex life, then I will refund you every single penny. All that I ask is that you show me that you’ve done the work. I don’t want you investing in a course that doesn’t feel like the right fit for you; I just don’t want you to give up on yourself. Because that’s my dream for this world; that every woman out there knows she’s capable of pleasure and orgasms, and that she deserves them.

    Finishing School been featured and reviewed in Refinery29, Glamour, Bustle, The Huffington Post, Lifehacker, Elle, Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, Prevention Magazine, and more.

    Most importantly, it’s gotten rave reviews from the thousands of women who have gone through the program.

    Finishing Was Just The Beginning

    REVIEWS AND SUCCESS STORIES
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    You’re Ready For This

    I know from personal experience that when you’re struggling with your orgasm, it’s very easy to get tunnel vision. It’s hard to imagine anything that could be more exciting than having consistent orgasms on your own and with your partner. But what you may not realize right now is that changing your relationship with your orgasm can actually open a door for you to change your entire life.

    What if you approached sex with a sense of ease and excitement, knowing you have the power to create whatever kind of experience you want? What if sex became something that energized you instead of depleted you, because you get something out of it instead of just giving all of yourself to it? What if you found yourself being more courageous and creative in the bedroom, doing things that you didn’t have the nerve to do before?

    And what if that courage and confidence extended outside of the bedroom too? How would it feel to open yourself up to your partner, showing more vulnerability, more sides of yourself, creating the kind of relationship you always dreamed of having? How would it feel to hold hands more often, even when you’re doing simple things like walking the dog or grocery shopping? To smile and laugh more, as if everything was an inside joke between the two of you.

    What if you had a life where you got to experience moments of pleasure on a daily basis. In the bedroom, yes, but outside of it too. What if you could take a few extra minutes in the morning to sit on your porch and quietly sip your coffee? What if you could linger over a goodbye hug with your partner, and kiss them like you really mean it? What if you could sit still and do nothing, and feel exquisitely at peace? What if you felt alive, and vibrant, and like the world exists to bring you pleasure and joy? Not because you’re pompous or arrogant, but because you have that quiet confidence of knowing that you deserve good things and good experiences, just like everyone else.

    I know that all of this is available to you, and MORE! And I can’t wait to show you in Finishing School!

    What Women Are Saying

    Jenny P.

    Finishing School was eye-opening, emotional and rewarding!

    I was on the fence about taking this course because I was unsure if it would work and it was a lot of money.

    But almost immediately I was blown away at how much it helped my relationship with my boyfriend. I was not expecting this! Not only are we learning to have better sex but it brought so much more emotional intimacy and understanding to our relationship. We have a much better relationship and it is a testament to this course. I can’t thank Vanessa enough. Sometimes you don’t realize how stale your relationship has been until things have improved.

    The live coaching calls were probably my favorite part. I loved that Vanessa took her time and gave lengthy answers to each question. I loved the community aspect of them. I can’t tell you how much it helped me to know, that there were other women out there like me. This is a topic that is hard to talk about so I felt very alone. This course changed that! It is totally worth the money.

    Course Packages

    CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE!
    GROUP COACHING

    Live

  • The complete Finishing School system. ($649 value)
    Learn How To Orgasm plus Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • 7 group coaching calls. ($2,800 value)
    We’ll meet as a community every other week to cheer each other on! You’ll get answers to all of your questions, plus tons of motivation and accountability.
  • Bonus - A special group coaching call for you and your partner. ($500 value)
    I’ll be speaking directly to the partners of the ladies in Finishing School. Your partner will learn the truth about how female orgasm works, the common challenges that couples go through around female orgasm, and the information they need to be an amazingly supportive partner to you.
  • Bonus - Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Bonus - How To Initiate Sex With Your Partner, And Consider Your Partner’s Initiations. ($200 value)
    If you’ve ever struggled to initiate sex with your partner, or if your partner’s attempts to initiate put you on edge, this masterclass will be game-changing for you!
  • Bonus - The 30 Day Sex Challenge. ($129 value)
    You’ll get to start my popular 30 Day Sex Challenge after Finishing School is over, as a fun way to celebrate your success and keep things fresh and new in the bedroom!
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School. (Priceless)
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates. (Priceless)
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • LIMITED AVAILABILITY

    VIP

  • 3 private 50-minute coaching sessions. ($1,350 value)
    We’ll use these personal sessions to target specific techniques and create a personalized game plan for your Finishing School success. To jumpstart our work together, you’ll fill out a pre-session questionnaire, so I can dive right in and start giving you valuable feedback right away. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll get recordings of the calls, so you can refer back to them at anytime.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching. ($175 - $2,450 value)
    Includes my “With You Until The End” guarantee. I’ll be there to provide ongoing personal support and guidance until you’ve had your first orgasms on your own and with a partner. I’ve got your back!
  • The complete Finishing School system. ($649 value)
    Learn How To Orgasm plus Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • 7 group coaching calls. ($2,800 value)
    We’ll meet as a community every other week to cheer each other on! You’ll get answers to all of your questions, plus tons of motivation and accountability.
  • Bonus - A special group coaching call for you and your partner. ($500 value)
    I’ll be speaking directly to the partners of the ladies in Finishing School. Your partner will learn the truth about how female orgasm works, the common challenges that couples go through around female orgasm, and the information they need to be an amazingly supportive partner to you.
  • Bonus - Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Bonus - How To Initiate Sex With Your Partner, And Consider Your Partner’s Initiations. ($200 value)
    If you’ve ever struggled to initiate sex with your partner, or if your partner’s attempts to initiate put you on edge, this masterclass will be game-changing for you!
  • Bonus - The 30 Day Sex Challenge. ($129 value)
    You’ll get to start my popular 30 Day Sex Challenge after Finishing School is over, as a fun way to celebrate your success and keep things fresh and new in the bedroom!
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School. (Priceless)
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates. (Priceless)
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • What To Expect When You Purchase

    • As soon as you click the “Enroll Now” button, you’ll be led through the checkout process. You can use your credit card, PayPal, Apple Pay or Google Pay.
    • Immediately after purchase, you’ll get a welcome email with payment confirmation and directions for accessing the Finishing School member site.
    • Your credit card statement will read “One Oh, Inc” for your privacy. (No mention of my name or “sex therapy” on your statement!)
    • Your information will be kept strictly confidential and will never be shared.

    Have A Question About Finishing School?

    I want you to feel supported in making a decision about joining any of my programs. If you have any questions, or if you just need to know that there’s an actual human behind this website (there is! It’s me!), don’t hesitate to use the contact form below to get in touch!