Your orgasm is your human right.
Yes, you read that correctly. I TRULY BELIEVE YOUR ORGASM IS YOUR HUMAN RIGHT.
But for so many women orgasm does not come easily, or at all. For so many women, sex feels like yet another item on their endless to-do list.
Because orgasm is about so much more than just feeling good.
As a sex therapist who has spent the past 15 years teaching thousands of women how to have reliable and consistent orgasms, I’ve seen what happens when women take control of their sex lives — and orgasm.
It opens the door to an entirely new world for them.
I’ve heard countless women say, “Maybe I’m just one of the 10%* of women who can’t orgasm”... “I feel like I have to fake orgasms”… “I feel completely disconnected from my body during sex.”
Then the resentment starts creeping in...
Many women try to convince themselves that they don’t really need a great sex life to be happy, but they can’t shake the feeling that there has got to be something better for them and their relationship.
It’s about the confidence that comes with knowing what you want and how to make it happen.
*fake stat alert!
Does this feel all too familiar to you?
Nothing seems to be working and you’re left feeling frustrated, undesirable, and broken.
Sex feels one-sided. It seems so unfair when only your partner is enjoying themselves!
You’ve Googled, researched, and read all the articles but all the advice online is so vague. Or totally out of your comfort zone.
Sex is so unenjoyable you’re starting to find every excuse to avoid it.
Sex feels like just another task to check off once a week or once a month to satisfy your partner.
Here’s the thing…We women have been lied to.
We’ve been lied to about how sex and orgasm works for us.
We’ve been cheated out of basic information about our own bodies.
I mean, tell me...
What were you taught about your body, orgasm and sex in general?
Whatever it was, I’m willing to bet it was either a) nothing or b) wrong.
Women don’t know what they need to have orgasms on their own or with their partner because we’ve never been taught (and it’s certainly not being talked about)!
The fact you don’t know how to have control over your own orgasm is not your fault.
Well, I’m calling bullshit on all of this.
That orgasm should be easy, effortless and quick
If you love each other enough it will work itself out
Sex is your “wifely duty”
You should be able to orgasm from penetration
To put your partner’s needs before your own for the sake of your relationship
That orgasm will “just happen” if you relax and stop being such a control freak
If you are like the thousands of women I’ve worked with, you’ve internalized all of this BS that society teaches you:
Even with the best, most-loving partner, orgasm may still be hard to reach (trust me, I know! Hello, I struggled with my own orgasm for 10 years!). And just like any skill, it takes technique, time and practice to master.
But trust me, anyone can learn!
Orgasm is not something you just let happen to you.
Orgasm is not a passive process. It’s a learnable skill that YOU can be in control of.
I truly believe as a woman you deserve to:
Trust me when I say, it is possible to orgasm on your own and with a partner — even if you’ve struggled with this for a very long time.
It’s time to call out the BS and take back your power.
- Know that you are beautiful and sexy
- Have pleasure, fulfillment and joy — both inside and outside of the bedroom
- To have sex that is for you and to decide what you want from sex (whether that includes an orgasm or not)
- Feel vulnerable and truly comfortable with your partner
- Have the confidence to say what you really want
- Understand what gives your body pleasure with a partner, or on your own
It’s time to call out the BS and take back your power.
I believe it’s every woman's right to know how to orgasm.
I am a woman on a mission
Imagine how you would feel if this was a typical day for you...
You wake up early next to your partner. You both need to get up to get ready for work, but you can’t resist cuddling and kissing and flirting just a little bit longer.
You make it very clear to your partner exactly what you want.
Your partner responds very eagerly and excitedly.
No obsessing over how you look naked — you’re completely present and feeling desirable. You’re even a bit adventurous! (Reverse cowgirl? Why not?)
You’re both giggling and being playful. 6am has never been so fun!
But it’s not just about the wild, fun sex you’re having.
You feel connected to your own body. And to your partner’s. You’ve never felt so close.
You definitely aren’t looking for excuses to get out of sex these days!
You make it very clear to your partner exactly what you want.
Your partner responds very eagerly and excitedly.
No obsessing over how you look naked — you’re completely present and feeling desirable. You’re even a bit adventurous! (Reverse cowgirl? Why not?)
You’re both giggling and being playful. 6am has never been so fun!
But it’s not just about the wild, fun sex you’re having.
You feel connected to your own body. And to your partner’s. You’ve never felt so close.
You definitely aren’t looking for excuses to get out of sex these days!
So what’s the to actually learning how to orgasm, once and for all?
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Everything you will learn in Finishing School™ is based on proven techniques and skills (yes, having an orgasm is a skill!). I’ll guide you through each exercise in detail and will never leave you wondering “am I doing this right?”.
We’ll cover everything from the emotional and body hang-ups that block many women from orgasm, how female orgasm actually works (and what it really feels like!), how to get past embarrassment or shame around sex and masturbation, how to communicate what you want with your partner and, of course, ALL the ways to orgasm.
We’ll cover everything from the emotional and body hang-ups that block many women from orgasm, how female orgasm actually works (and what it really feels like!), how to get past embarrassment or shame around sex and masturbation, how to communicate what you want with your partner and, of course, ALL the ways to orgasm.
Finishing School gives you everything you need to discover yourself, your confidence, your pleasure… and your orgasm!
A step-by-step roadmap to pleasure that’s worked for thousands of women.
Here’s what you can expect inside Finishing School™...
Immediately after signing up, you get access to the unique Finishing School™ mindsets and methods. I’ll go over the techniques, activities and guides that set you up for success so you can get the most out of the program.
Feel empowered with a priceless foundation of orgasm knowledge! This myth-busting module is a client favorite.
Discover the different types of orgasm. Vaginal? Clitoral? G-Spot? Cervical? Blended? How many are there exactly? You’ll finally get a straightforward answer.
We’ll also talk all about how an orgasm really works and uncover the orgasmic blocks that have been getting in your way for so long.
Discover the different types of orgasm. Vaginal? Clitoral? G-Spot? Cervical? Blended? How many are there exactly? You’ll finally get a straightforward answer.
We’ll also talk all about how an orgasm really works and uncover the orgasmic blocks that have been getting in your way for so long.
We all have negative beliefs about sex — even me! I show you how to move past your sexual baggage and get your head in the pleasure game.
One way we’ll focus on feeling good? With the ultimate get out of your head and into your body exercise I call the Mistaken Bodyguard technique.
It’ll help you banish self-conscious and distracting thoughts (goodbye orgasm sabotagers) that can come up when you’re intimate so you can fully enjoy yourself and your partner.
One way we’ll focus on feeling good? With the ultimate get out of your head and into your body exercise I call the Mistaken Bodyguard technique.
It’ll help you banish self-conscious and distracting thoughts (goodbye orgasm sabotagers) that can come up when you’re intimate so you can fully enjoy yourself and your partner.
I’ve often been told that this module could be a whole course on its own!
Here you will learn how to truly be comfortable in your own skin (yes, exactly as it is in this moment). I’ll show you a simple but remarkably powerful way to reconnect with your own body in just a few seconds, plus, how to get comfortable with your pussy (if reading that word made you flinch, this will be life-changing for you!).
Here you will learn how to truly be comfortable in your own skin (yes, exactly as it is in this moment). I’ll show you a simple but remarkably powerful way to reconnect with your own body in just a few seconds, plus, how to get comfortable with your pussy (if reading that word made you flinch, this will be life-changing for you!).
Let me guess - you feel uncomfortable with masturbation, right? Most women do! I’ll bust all the BS you’ve been taught about masturbating (it’s dirty! it’s shameful! a real lady doesn’t do that!).
Even if you feel nervous or hesitant about masturbation, this module will help you bust down your masturbation blockages, convince you that it’s the right path forward, and will even get you excited to explore your own body!
You’ll learn an effective four-step masturbation method that shows you just how empowering it is to pleasure your own body.
I’ll also teach you the “Goldilocks Method” for getting the sensation juuuuust right.
Even if you feel nervous or hesitant about masturbation, this module will help you bust down your masturbation blockages, convince you that it’s the right path forward, and will even get you excited to explore your own body!
You’ll learn an effective four-step masturbation method that shows you just how empowering it is to pleasure your own body.
I’ll also teach you the “Goldilocks Method” for getting the sensation juuuuust right.
If you’ve ever felt embarrassed or discouraged because you can’t orgasm immediately, you’re not alone. Orgasming is a skill that takes practice!
I’ll show you how to take the pressure off with four key tricks to supercharge your motivation and five to stay present and focused in the moment.
You’ll also learn four powerful ways you can create more sensation, so you never feel numb or disconnected from your body ever again.
I’ll show you how to take the pressure off with four key tricks to supercharge your motivation and five to stay present and focused in the moment.
You’ll also learn four powerful ways you can create more sensation, so you never feel numb or disconnected from your body ever again.
Here’s where you get to play! You’ll explore all the techniques and activities you’ve learned so far and discover what your body likes best.
You’ll also discover the nine Most Valuable Techniques (MVTs) that have been most successful at helping the women in Finishing School™ have their first orgasms! You’ll be amazed at how simple and effective the MVTs are!
You’ll also discover the nine Most Valuable Techniques (MVTs) that have been most successful at helping the women in Finishing School™ have their first orgasms! You’ll be amazed at how simple and effective the MVTs are!
It’s time to put all of the pieces together and start orgasming!
This is where I really see women in the course shine. Your self-confidence will be through the roof as you finally get unstuck and experience your first orgasm on demand!
In case you can’t quite get over the edge at this stage, I’ll give you techniques to deliver that final push to orgasm.
This is where I really see women in the course shine. Your self-confidence will be through the roof as you finally get unstuck and experience your first orgasm on demand!
In case you can’t quite get over the edge at this stage, I’ll give you techniques to deliver that final push to orgasm.
In this module we’ll transition to orgasming with a partner.
You’ll learn how orgasming with another person really works and specific practices that will optimize your orgasmic potential.
(Don’t have a partner? Don’t worry! Learning these practices now will mean you will be ready to dive right in when you next have a partner.)
You’ll learn how orgasming with another person really works and specific practices that will optimize your orgasmic potential.
(Don’t have a partner? Don’t worry! Learning these practices now will mean you will be ready to dive right in when you next have a partner.)
Say goodbye to boredom in the bedroom after this module! Here you will get specific tools and practices to play in the bedroom together.
You’ll get my best (and proven!) tips to talk to your partner about exploring the exercises with you — or how to apply them without sharing about Finishing School™.
Beyond being a ton of fun, you’ll also learn a specific way to share constructive feedback. That’s right: You’ll finally be able to confidently answer the question “What do you want?”
You’ll get my best (and proven!) tips to talk to your partner about exploring the exercises with you — or how to apply them without sharing about Finishing School™.
Beyond being a ton of fun, you’ll also learn a specific way to share constructive feedback. That’s right: You’ll finally be able to confidently answer the question “What do you want?”
This mysterious module is the first step in having orgasms with your partner.
Learn how to orgasm from your partner’s hands and how to pleasure your partner with your hands. Yep, this is why partners loooove helping you with your Finishing School™ homework.
Worried no one can touch you the way you touch yourself? You’ll learn how to ask for exactly what you need to get there with your partner!
Worried no one can touch you the way you touch yourself? You’ll learn how to ask for exactly what you need to get there with your partner!
If oral sex has felt uncomfortable or embarrassing for you in the past — that ends this week! Never feel self-conscious about your taste or smell again.
You’ll learn how to both receive and give amazing oral sex. We’re talking specific oral sex techniques that your partner can use on you PLUS mind-blowing techniques you can use on them (regardless of your partner’s gender).
I didn't have to include all these partner-pleasing bonus techniques, but it makes the course SO exciting for you and your partner. Get ready for some super fun sexy time!
You’ll learn how to both receive and give amazing oral sex. We’re talking specific oral sex techniques that your partner can use on you PLUS mind-blowing techniques you can use on them (regardless of your partner’s gender).
I didn't have to include all these partner-pleasing bonus techniques, but it makes the course SO exciting for you and your partner. Get ready for some super fun sexy time!
We couldn’t conclude Finishing School™ without covering the orgasm that is often the most elusive for so many women: orgasm during intercourse. What you learn here will ensure you have the best sex of your life!
Find out the 11 best positions for orgasm along with specific tips and techniques for each one.
PLUS you’ll learn about the 11 game-changing Pleasure Boosters that will help you get the stimulation you need to make sure you orgasm during intercourse.
Trust me when I say, this module will feel like a breeze after all of the powerful work you’ve done so far!
Find out the 11 best positions for orgasm along with specific tips and techniques for each one.
PLUS you’ll learn about the 11 game-changing Pleasure Boosters that will help you get the stimulation you need to make sure you orgasm during intercourse.
Trust me when I say, this module will feel like a breeze after all of the powerful work you’ve done so far!
I’m throwing in these bonuses too!
The Orgasm Vault
Chock-full of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School™. I’ve developed hundreds of orgasm techniques over the years and I needed somewhere else to put all the extra orgasm gold. Yours for free.
ORGASM WITH A PARTNER
Bring your partner into your Finishing School™ journey! I'll walk you through how to feel comfortable giving feedback, receiving with ease, how to set the mood and more! You'll have exactly what you need to ensure your orgasm and your relationship hit the next level.
And because I want to make sure I give you ALL the tools you need to really feel confident and in control of your orgasm…
I’ve been interviewed as a female orgasm expert by major publications like the New York Times, Goop, Elle, and ‘O’ The Oprah Magazine. BuzzFeed even called me the “Orgasm Whisperer!”
I’ve shown thousands of women how to have their first orgasm. And I’ve seen first-hand just how dramatically changing your relationship with your orgasm can change your entire life.
I’ve shown thousands of women how to have their first orgasm. And I’ve seen first-hand just how dramatically changing your relationship with your orgasm can change your entire life.
extraordinary!
i'm Vanessa...
A sex therapist here to help you take your sex life from ordinary to
Here’s a little tidbit about me…
I struggled with my own orgasm for about 10 years!
I went through so many of the things that most women who struggle with orgasm go through: faking orgasm, feeling resentful of my partner, and feeling my sex drive plummet.
After a lot (we’re talkin’ years) of research and a lot of practice, I figured it out. And, yep, orgasms are pretty incredible. And they really do transform every area of your relationship and your life!
During my years of struggles, there weren’t any good resources out there to help.
That’s why I created this course. I want to provide women with the real, concrete tools and step-by-step instructions you need to have orgasms.I’ve now taught thousands of women how to orgasm using these techniques.
I would love to teach you how too!
After a lot (we’re talkin’ years) of research and a lot of practice, I figured it out. And, yep, orgasms are pretty incredible. And they really do transform every area of your relationship and your life!
During my years of struggles, there weren’t any good resources out there to help.
That’s why I created this course. I want to provide women with the real, concrete tools and step-by-step instructions you need to have orgasms.I’ve now taught thousands of women how to orgasm using these techniques.
I would love to teach you how too!
I went through so many of the things that most women who struggle with orgasm go through: faking orgasm, feeling resentful of my partner, and feeling my sex drive plummet.
After a lot (we’re talkin’ years) of research and a lot of practice, I figured it out. And, yep, orgasms are pretty incredible. And they really do transform every area of your relationship and your life!
During my years of struggles, there weren’t any good resources out there to help.
That’s why I created this course. I want to provide women with the real, concrete tools and step-by-step instructions you need to have orgasms.I’ve now taught thousands of women how to orgasm using these techniques.
I would love to teach you how too!
After a lot (we’re talkin’ years) of research and a lot of practice, I figured it out. And, yep, orgasms are pretty incredible. And they really do transform every area of your relationship and your life!
During my years of struggles, there weren’t any good resources out there to help.
That’s why I created this course. I want to provide women with the real, concrete tools and step-by-step instructions you need to have orgasms.I’ve now taught thousands of women how to orgasm using these techniques.
I would love to teach you how too!
14 in-depth modules including videos, downloads and audio exercises
Continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses
How to Orgasm with a Partner to level up your orgasm journey
The Orgasm Vault with tons of additional orgasm-related tips, techniques, and resources
When you join Finishing School™ you will get lifetime access to:
Join us inside Finishing School™ and discover the step-by-step techniques proven to get you to orgasm — with or without a partner.
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“Before joining Finishing School™, I felt like sex and intimacy with my partner was my wifely duty."
After completing Finishing School I made a big breakthrough of orgasm with my husband. It’s opened up a new and exciting chapter in our marriage!
success stories
There is no longer this thing that is just lingering there on the side, undiscussed. I no longer feel inhibited, embarrassed when talking to my husband. I can honestly say, Vanessa’s course is nothing like the other resources and guides out there that I tried (and I’ve tried a lot).
Finishing School™ covered so much more than I was expecting, especially helping me to get past my body hang-ups (now I just let my husband “see'' me and it’s been so freeing!) and how to communicate with your partner, even when you’ve never even said things like this before.
Our sex life is amazing (now our only issue is time!) and to top it off, I am so much more confident and having so much fun! I don’t know how I can put a dollar value on this kind of personal and relationship transformation, because what it’s done for my life and my relationship has been priceless.
- Noelle
Finishing School™ covered so much more than I was expecting, especially helping me to get past my body hang-ups (now I just let my husband “see'' me and it’s been so freeing!) and how to communicate with your partner, even when you’ve never even said things like this before.
Our sex life is amazing (now our only issue is time!) and to top it off, I am so much more confident and having so much fun! I don’t know how I can put a dollar value on this kind of personal and relationship transformation, because what it’s done for my life and my relationship has been priceless.
- Noelle
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“Before Finishing School™, I avoided sex like the plague.”
I truly believed that there was something fundamentally wrong with me because I couldn’t have an orgasm. Like I was missing a part.
Vanessa helped me to see that I am not broken.
I actually thought I was going to be the only woman to fail this course! But working through the modules helped me to have my first orgasm... and it was amazing! It’s changed my entire life because I know if I can do this, I can do so many other things that I haven’t even attempted.
If you are done with feeling broken and done with the bullshit we’ve all been fed — if you are ready to help yourself, then I cannot stress enough how much Vanessa will be able to help you.
I am so very grateful that Vanessa has made this her life’s work and is helping women like me. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
- Audrey P.
I actually thought I was going to be the only woman to fail this course! But working through the modules helped me to have my first orgasm... and it was amazing! It’s changed my entire life because I know if I can do this, I can do so many other things that I haven’t even attempted.
If you are done with feeling broken and done with the bullshit we’ve all been fed — if you are ready to help yourself, then I cannot stress enough how much Vanessa will be able to help you.
I am so very grateful that Vanessa has made this her life’s work and is helping women like me. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
- Audrey P.
CLOSE
It’s okay to want to have sex that’s FOR YOU instead of just done TO YOU. Sex should be about both partners’ pleasure. Trust me, your partner cares a lot about your pleasure. It’s usually a major turn on!
It’s selfish to want to orgasm.
Whether you have had multiple partners or one partner, it doesn’t have any bearing whatsoever on your ability to have an orgasm. What does matter is knowing your own body and having a repeatable, proven process to achieve orgasm.
You need to be super experienced to have an orgasm.
myths
This just simply IS NOT TRUE. There is ZERO scientific proof that some women are incapable of orgasm. You didn’t miss the orgasm boat and there’s nothing wrong with you!
If it hasn't happened already, it never will because I’m not capable of orgasming.
Orgasming is not a passive process. It is a learnable skill. You have to explore in the bedroom — on your own or with a partner — to figure out what feels good for you and then communicate with your partner.
If you are with the “right” partner and have good chemistry it’ll just happen.
yes!
(bring on your questions — I love ‘em!)
Questions smart women ask before saying to Finishing School
I’ve read those articles too!
And they’re actually one of the main reasons why I created Finishing School™ in the first place. You see, when I was struggling with my own orgasm challenges, I was so frustrated that I could never find any genuinely useful advice.
It was all the same crap over and over again…
“Just relax.”
“Don’t think about it.”
“Don’t be such a control freak.”
“Just don’t make it a big deal.”
That advice never helped me figure out my orgasm dilemmas, and I know it hasn’t helped you either. It only made me feel terrible about myself, and even more stuck.
That’s why I set out to make the first fully comprehensive, tried-and-tested, step-by-step orgasm SYSTEM. Finishing School™ isn’t 800 words of fluff written by an overworked (and frankly, clueless) freelancer on a deadline.
It’s an immersive experience, with accurate information, proven techniques, and a specific process.And since I remember all too well how crappy those articles made me feel…
… Finishing School™ is designed to make the process of learning to orgasm feel FUN and JOYFUL!
And they’re actually one of the main reasons why I created Finishing School™ in the first place. You see, when I was struggling with my own orgasm challenges, I was so frustrated that I could never find any genuinely useful advice.
It was all the same crap over and over again…
“Just relax.”
“Don’t think about it.”
“Don’t be such a control freak.”
“Just don’t make it a big deal.”
That advice never helped me figure out my orgasm dilemmas, and I know it hasn’t helped you either. It only made me feel terrible about myself, and even more stuck.
That’s why I set out to make the first fully comprehensive, tried-and-tested, step-by-step orgasm SYSTEM. Finishing School™ isn’t 800 words of fluff written by an overworked (and frankly, clueless) freelancer on a deadline.
It’s an immersive experience, with accurate information, proven techniques, and a specific process.And since I remember all too well how crappy those articles made me feel…
… Finishing School™ is designed to make the process of learning to orgasm feel FUN and JOYFUL!
“Are you SURE it’s not too late for me? If I haven’t learned how to orgasm by now, is there any hope I can have one?”
It’s never too late to feel pleasure in your body!
You can learn to orgasm at any age, at any point in your life.
When it comes to orgasm, age is truly nothing but a number. Women of all ages have taken Finishing School™ and learned how to orgasm for the very first time.
Here’s what one recent participant (in her 50s) had to say:
“You were so right in saying that it is never too late to learn about your body. It seems paradoxical, but I don't resent at all that I didn't experience such mind-blowing sensations in my younger years. I am convinced that now was the right time to learn how to orgasm and enjoy sex in a completely different way. This new sensuality has certainly revived our long relationship and put a definite spark back into it. We are both over the moon.”
Plus, I want to point out that most women feel like they’re “behind” when it comes to orgasm. I’ve had women as young as 18 tell me they were worried it was “too late”!
You can learn to orgasm at any age, at any point in your life.
When it comes to orgasm, age is truly nothing but a number. Women of all ages have taken Finishing School™ and learned how to orgasm for the very first time.
Here’s what one recent participant (in her 50s) had to say:
“You were so right in saying that it is never too late to learn about your body. It seems paradoxical, but I don't resent at all that I didn't experience such mind-blowing sensations in my younger years. I am convinced that now was the right time to learn how to orgasm and enjoy sex in a completely different way. This new sensuality has certainly revived our long relationship and put a definite spark back into it. We are both over the moon.”
Plus, I want to point out that most women feel like they’re “behind” when it comes to orgasm. I’ve had women as young as 18 tell me they were worried it was “too late”!
It’s entirely up to you whether you involve your partner or not.
When it comes to you orgasming with a partner, here’s the honest truth: I think you will be way more successful if you work on the exercises together.
I know it takes more courage and communication up front, but it becomes more of a team exploration. Something you’re doing together, rather than something you feel like you’re having to do alone, on the sly. It builds trust, connection, and intimacy.
Plus, these exercises are designed to be a lot of fun! I’ve gotten tons of feedback from the partners of Finishing School™ participants, and they love getting involved with these exercises.
I know how intimidating it can feel to talk about sex openly, but I’m with you every step of the way. There are lots of specific exercises for learning to get more comfortable talking about sex in general, and lots of strategies for introducing each of the exercises to your partner.
Even if you’ve been with your partner for decades, you’ll still learn how to have these conversations for the first time.
So the bottom line is it’s up to you whether or not to get your partner involved. I’ll give you my best tips either way!
When it comes to you orgasming with a partner, here’s the honest truth: I think you will be way more successful if you work on the exercises together.
I know it takes more courage and communication up front, but it becomes more of a team exploration. Something you’re doing together, rather than something you feel like you’re having to do alone, on the sly. It builds trust, connection, and intimacy.
Plus, these exercises are designed to be a lot of fun! I’ve gotten tons of feedback from the partners of Finishing School™ participants, and they love getting involved with these exercises.
I know how intimidating it can feel to talk about sex openly, but I’m with you every step of the way. There are lots of specific exercises for learning to get more comfortable talking about sex in general, and lots of strategies for introducing each of the exercises to your partner.
Even if you’ve been with your partner for decades, you’ll still learn how to have these conversations for the first time.
So the bottom line is it’s up to you whether or not to get your partner involved. I’ll give you my best tips either way!
I hear you!
I’m type-A at heart, so I know what it’s like to feel spread so incredibly thin you can’t even imagine taking on one additional thing.
So I’ve worked hard to make Finishing School™ as streamlined and efficient as possible. All of the information is presented in mini lessons lasting from 2-21 minutes (see, totally doable, right?!).
I recommend you spend about an hour a week on Finishing School™ (which you can divide into multiple sessions), but it just depends on how quickly you want to get results.
You’ll also get lifetime access to the material and any future course updates. If life throws you a curveball right after you sign up, you can come back to Finishing School™ whenever the timing is better.
Also… we’re not talking about doing your taxes or cleaning out the garage! It might help to remind yourself that you want to orgasm!
Trust me, once you start realizing how much fun Finishing School™ is, you’re going to want to find the time in your schedule!
I’m type-A at heart, so I know what it’s like to feel spread so incredibly thin you can’t even imagine taking on one additional thing.
So I’ve worked hard to make Finishing School™ as streamlined and efficient as possible. All of the information is presented in mini lessons lasting from 2-21 minutes (see, totally doable, right?!).
I recommend you spend about an hour a week on Finishing School™ (which you can divide into multiple sessions), but it just depends on how quickly you want to get results.
You’ll also get lifetime access to the material and any future course updates. If life throws you a curveball right after you sign up, you can come back to Finishing School™ whenever the timing is better.
Also… we’re not talking about doing your taxes or cleaning out the garage! It might help to remind yourself that you want to orgasm!
Trust me, once you start realizing how much fun Finishing School™ is, you’re going to want to find the time in your schedule!
Of course!
Here’s what you’ll get when you sign up for Finishing School™:
Here’s what you’ll get when you sign up for Finishing School™:
- The entire Finishing School™ system to guide you step-by-step through having powerful and reliable orgasms on your own and with your partner. ($999 value)
- Free access to the Orgasm Vault, a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School™. Think of Finishing School™ as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading. ($500 value)
- Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses ($200 value).
- A risk-free, 30-day guarantee. I can’t guarantee that you’ll be wildly orgasmic in just 30 days, because we’re all unique, and that’s a lot of pressure! But if you do the work and don’t feel any change whatsoever in your relationship with your body, pleasure, or sex, or if you don’t feel confident that Finishing School™ is giving you all the tools you need to get there, I’ll happily refund you.
- Lifetime access to Finishing School™, so you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
- Free access to all future program updates, so you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
Yes! I want you to really give Finishing School™ your all. I know that if you commit yourself to this process and do the work, you will experience massive changes in your life.
I can’t promise you that you will be wildly orgasmic in 30 days. You are just too unique for me to put that kind of timeline on you! But if 30 days go by and you don’t feel any sort of change in your relationship with your body, pleasure, orgasm, or sex life, then I will refund you every single penny. All I ask is that you show me that you’ve done the work by sharing your completed course workbook.
I know how easy it is for some women to think they’re “hopeless cases” and to give up before fully giving themselves a chance. If you can show me that you haven’t given up on yourself, I’ll give you a full refund.
I don’t want you investing in a course that doesn’t feel like the right fit for you... I just don’t want you to give up on yourself.
Because that’s my dream for this world - that every woman out there knows she’s capable of pleasure and orgasms, and that she deserves them.
I can’t promise you that you will be wildly orgasmic in 30 days. You are just too unique for me to put that kind of timeline on you! But if 30 days go by and you don’t feel any sort of change in your relationship with your body, pleasure, orgasm, or sex life, then I will refund you every single penny. All I ask is that you show me that you’ve done the work by sharing your completed course workbook.
I know how easy it is for some women to think they’re “hopeless cases” and to give up before fully giving themselves a chance. If you can show me that you haven’t given up on yourself, I’ll give you a full refund.
I don’t want you investing in a course that doesn’t feel like the right fit for you... I just don’t want you to give up on yourself.
Because that’s my dream for this world - that every woman out there knows she’s capable of pleasure and orgasms, and that she deserves them.
This is a common fear for a lot of women before they sign up.
They are afraid they aren’t experienced enough or adventurous enough for a course about orgasming.
Let me assure you that anyone, and I do mean anyone, can learn how to orgasm.
I’ve seen the proof in the thousands of women I have taught to do so with this exact set of techniques and exercises you are going to learn inside Finishing School™.
Learning to orgasm is a skill. A skill that can be learned. This isn’t about your level of past experience or willingness to try ‘adventurous’ things, but about your willingness to be open to new things and believe that you are deserving of pleasure.
They are afraid they aren’t experienced enough or adventurous enough for a course about orgasming.
Let me assure you that anyone, and I do mean anyone, can learn how to orgasm.
I’ve seen the proof in the thousands of women I have taught to do so with this exact set of techniques and exercises you are going to learn inside Finishing School™.
Learning to orgasm is a skill. A skill that can be learned. This isn’t about your level of past experience or willingness to try ‘adventurous’ things, but about your willingness to be open to new things and believe that you are deserving of pleasure.
First of all, Finishing School™ is for women of any sexual orientation. But I often hear this question from women, so I wanted to address it.
My answer? Hell yes!
I know this can be hard to believe. But I talk to men about female orgasm all the time, and they’re as desperate to please you as you are to experience pleasure!
I keep talking about all this BS that we women are taught to believe about female orgasm. Unfortunately, men hear the exact same BS too, and it gets in the way of them being able to pleasure you.
Most men just don’t know where to begin when it comes to female orgasm. And they’re too afraid to ask.
When was the last time you heard a man asking for directions or instructions? Men have been taught that they’re supposed to have all the answers, so admitting that they don’t can make them feel embarrassed and emasculated.
Realizing that you’ve both been fed some wild misinformation can actually be a great way to bond.
My answer? Hell yes!
I know this can be hard to believe. But I talk to men about female orgasm all the time, and they’re as desperate to please you as you are to experience pleasure!
I keep talking about all this BS that we women are taught to believe about female orgasm. Unfortunately, men hear the exact same BS too, and it gets in the way of them being able to pleasure you.
Most men just don’t know where to begin when it comes to female orgasm. And they’re too afraid to ask.
When was the last time you heard a man asking for directions or instructions? Men have been taught that they’re supposed to have all the answers, so admitting that they don’t can make them feel embarrassed and emasculated.
Realizing that you’ve both been fed some wild misinformation can actually be a great way to bond.
I hear this all the time. Women want their partner’s support, but feel embarrassed running the investment in this course by them if they share finances. I’ve got you covered!
Before we dive in, some assurance: Most women get incredibly positive and supportive responses from their partners.
We created an entire guide for how to bring up the course to your partner in different scenarios. Here are a few snippets:
Worried about your partner’s reaction to the registration fee?
“Vanessa said something really interesting that made me think… She said, ‘Why shouldn’t we invest in our sex lives? Are new clothes or fancy dinners out more satisfying than having a passionate, pleasurable, and fulfilling sex life with the person we love the most in this world?’
I know that this course is going to help us transform our sex life. I’m willing to take a good, hard look at our expenses so we can afford this.”
Have your orgasmic problems caused relationship tension?
“I know that my struggles with orgasm have been a source of tension for us in the past. I want you to know that my orgasm and our sex life is important to me. I’ve been researching options, and I found this online course taught by a sex therapist. It’s all about helping women learn how to orgasm with their partners, and it sounds perfect for me.
This course is going to have a lot of fun techniques and exercises that we can try together, and I think it would be so fun if we could do this together, as a team. Can you be on board with me?”
Ready to recruit support? You can get the full guide here. I’ll help you figure out how to talk to your partner and get them on board with you making this powerful decision for your sex life!
Before we dive in, some assurance: Most women get incredibly positive and supportive responses from their partners.
We created an entire guide for how to bring up the course to your partner in different scenarios. Here are a few snippets:
Worried about your partner’s reaction to the registration fee?
“Vanessa said something really interesting that made me think… She said, ‘Why shouldn’t we invest in our sex lives? Are new clothes or fancy dinners out more satisfying than having a passionate, pleasurable, and fulfilling sex life with the person we love the most in this world?’
I know that this course is going to help us transform our sex life. I’m willing to take a good, hard look at our expenses so we can afford this.”
Have your orgasmic problems caused relationship tension?
“I know that my struggles with orgasm have been a source of tension for us in the past. I want you to know that my orgasm and our sex life is important to me. I’ve been researching options, and I found this online course taught by a sex therapist. It’s all about helping women learn how to orgasm with their partners, and it sounds perfect for me.
This course is going to have a lot of fun techniques and exercises that we can try together, and I think it would be so fun if we could do this together, as a team. Can you be on board with me?”
Ready to recruit support? You can get the full guide here. I’ll help you figure out how to talk to your partner and get them on board with you making this powerful decision for your sex life!
This is a fear for many women. Some women even convince themselves they don’t like sex to explain why they can’t have orgasms.
I’m willing to bet that once you have been equipped with better knowledge and information about your body, intercourse and orgasm, you will in fact enjoy sex and revel in your newly adventurous adult playtime.
I’m here to teach you how to orgasm every time. During that process, you’ll also learn what feels best to you, how to relax your mind and body, and ways to have more fun when you’re getting frisky.
Combined, these lessons will leave you craving more sex. It’s just that good!
I’m willing to bet that once you have been equipped with better knowledge and information about your body, intercourse and orgasm, you will in fact enjoy sex and revel in your newly adventurous adult playtime.
I’m here to teach you how to orgasm every time. During that process, you’ll also learn what feels best to you, how to relax your mind and body, and ways to have more fun when you’re getting frisky.
Combined, these lessons will leave you craving more sex. It’s just that good!
Hold up. I’m over here getting fired up again about how messed up it is that we live in a world that would lead you to even consider that!
We women are either taught myths about how to reach orgasm (“penetration is the best way”, “just relax and let it happen”, and more!) OR taught nothing at all!
Without even meeting you, I can say with certainty you are NOT broken.
You just need some information on how your body works — and specific techniques to bring you to orgasm.
There is NO scientific proof of a condition that blocks orgasm. In fact, sometimes it’s a mental block or emotional hang-up getting in the way of your orgasm.
Let me just be clear: even having mental blocks doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. We all have them! (Even me!)
If you follow the proven step-by-step techniques I teach you on the course, I guarantee you will discover a better understanding of your body and what brings you pleasure. After that — it all gets reeeaally fun!
We women are either taught myths about how to reach orgasm (“penetration is the best way”, “just relax and let it happen”, and more!) OR taught nothing at all!
Without even meeting you, I can say with certainty you are NOT broken.
You just need some information on how your body works — and specific techniques to bring you to orgasm.
There is NO scientific proof of a condition that blocks orgasm. In fact, sometimes it’s a mental block or emotional hang-up getting in the way of your orgasm.
Let me just be clear: even having mental blocks doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. We all have them! (Even me!)
If you follow the proven step-by-step techniques I teach you on the course, I guarantee you will discover a better understanding of your body and what brings you pleasure. After that — it all gets reeeaally fun!
This program is
for you if:
This program is for you if:
absolutely
You are ready to claim your human right to your orgasm and pleasure as a woman!
You crave a deeper connection with your current partner or in future relationships. From feeling adventurous and in-sync during sex to better communication and more joy day to day.
You tried to find answers on your own and haven’t been successful. You’re ready to learn a step-by-step proven process for exploring and understanding what feels great to you and how to reach orgasm.
You are ready to let go of the belief that you are broken or are missing a piece. You are ready to prove to yourself that learning how to orgasm is possible for you!
You are pretty sure you’ve been fed a pack of lies by society about what it is to be a woman, your body, sex and orgasm. You are ready to challenge what you know and hear a new perspective.
You are ready to feel more confident being intimate with and speaking to your partner about your desires, needs, and hopes.
This may not be the right course for you if…
It’s okay to be hesitant. BUT, if you are reading this and thinking ‘this is BS!’ or ‘there’s no way this is legit or would work’… then chances are you aren’t a good fit for this program.
I am here to support you every step of the way, not to drag you through this kicking and screaming!
In order to be successful with Finishing School™, you need to be willing to try new things and approach it with an open mindset. My team and I are here to support you, but we absolutely cannot do it for you!
If that’s the case for you, then congrats!
You’d still learn a ton in Finishing School™ about understanding your body, getting more comfortable asking for what you want, and having more powerful and reliable orgasms, but at this stage in your orgasmic journey, Finishing School is probably not the best fit for you.
I know that you’ve probably been wanting to orgasm for a loooong time. (Been there myself!) It’s understandable to want overnight results.
In Finishing School™, you will be taught the techniques and processes proven to get you to orgasm, but they will require some time and practice.
Every woman is unique, so I can’t pinpoint an exact amount of time you’ll need to do the exercises to have your first orgasm.
What I can promise, is that if you follow the lessons, do the exercises, and are open to new things — you WILL have an orgasm. It’s simply a matter of when!
While there’s some work to be done, I make the whole journey as enjoyable as possible. You aren’t just waiting around to have an orgasm!
But if you’re already too frustrated to give it an honest shot, Finishing School™ probably isn’t the best fit for you.
I’ll coach you through your sexual hang-ups (even I have them!) to help you take back control of your body and your pleasure.
AND THEN I’ll teach you my exact step-by-step method to orgasm whenever and wherever you want. YESSSS!
Everything I teach you in Finishing School™ is based on science and proven, clear strategies that I have spent the past 15 years perfecting.
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30-day, risk-free, money-back guarantee
The Pleasure-Guaranteed Guarantee!
Take 30 days to fully immerse yourself in the Finishing School™ experience.
I can’t promise you that you’ll be wildly orgasmic in just 30 days. You’re too unique for me to put that kind of timeline on you!
This is simply my way of making sure your doubt and uncertainty don’t hold you back from discovering just how amazing and fulfilling orgasms can be.
If after trying out all of the powerful practices you don’t feel any sort of change in your relationship with your body, pleasure, orgasm, or sex life, simply email info@vmtherapy.com with your completed course workbook, and we will refund you every single penny.
A final word from me...
If you are still here and still reading this far down the page, I’m guessing something you’ve read has stuck with you.
It may have taken you a great deal of courage to even be reading this page right now, let alone contemplating signing up for a whole course dedicated to learning how to orgasm!
I understand that taking a step like this can be scary, intimidating and full of doubt.
I want you to know that I really, truly get that. Because I’ve been where you are. I remember all too well the fear, the frustration, and the desperation of just wanting to figure this out.
Being able to turn all of that around felt like an incredible triumph. I felt proud of myself, connected to my body, sexy, and confident. And that’s not to mention the fact that the orgasms themselves are awesome!
I know not only from my experience but also from the thousands, yes thousands, of women I’ve worked with that my orgasm method works.
I’m offering you the proven tools and techniques — perfected over the past 15 years — that will show you exactly how to take control of your orgasm.
When you feel like you’ve tried everything it can be hard to believe that orgasm is possible.
Everything in life requires a little leap of faith.
On the other side of that jump? The spontaneous and fun sex life — and deeper connection with your partner (current or future!) — you deserve.
Trust me when I say you’ve got this.
I can’t wait to see you in Finishing School™!
-Vanessa
It may have taken you a great deal of courage to even be reading this page right now, let alone contemplating signing up for a whole course dedicated to learning how to orgasm!
I understand that taking a step like this can be scary, intimidating and full of doubt.
I want you to know that I really, truly get that. Because I’ve been where you are. I remember all too well the fear, the frustration, and the desperation of just wanting to figure this out.
Being able to turn all of that around felt like an incredible triumph. I felt proud of myself, connected to my body, sexy, and confident. And that’s not to mention the fact that the orgasms themselves are awesome!
I know not only from my experience but also from the thousands, yes thousands, of women I’ve worked with that my orgasm method works.
I’m offering you the proven tools and techniques — perfected over the past 15 years — that will show you exactly how to take control of your orgasm.
When you feel like you’ve tried everything it can be hard to believe that orgasm is possible.
Everything in life requires a little leap of faith.
On the other side of that jump? The spontaneous and fun sex life — and deeper connection with your partner (current or future!) — you deserve.
Trust me when I say you’ve got this.
I can’t wait to see you in Finishing School™!
-Vanessa
