Finishing School

Learn how to orgasm

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If you struggle to orgasm on your own or with a partner, you’re all too familiar with the anxiety-ridden thoughts that come along with the perceived failure to “get there.” You’ve waged long battles with these thoughts in your head. Sure, you want to orgasm, because you want to feel good. But it’s become so much more than that at this point.

You want to stop feeling so clueless.

You want to stop feeling so ashamed.

You want to stop feeling so alone.

You want to stop feeling like you’ve fallen behind every other woman out there.

You want to stop feeling so disconnected – from your partner, but mostly from yourself.

And it gets worse!

If you’re like most women, you also blame yourself for not knowing how to orgasm. You feel like something must be wrong with you. Like you should have figured this out already.

You lie awake at night, staring at the ceiling, worrying that you’re horribly, irreparably broken.

But here’s the thing: you’re not broken.

Yes, I can tell you that without ever having met you. Without knowing anything about your story.

You’re not broken.

The truth is that you were never given the opportunity to learn how to orgasm.

For years, you’ve been bombarded with the message that you should be able to orgasm as easily as you can snap your fingers. It’s everywhere. In movies, books, TV shows. But no one ever told you how the heck that was supposed to happen.

I mean really – where have you ever seen advice that went beyond unhelpful BS like, “Just relax!” or “Stop thinking about it!” Where have you ever seen clear, detailed, step-by-step instructions for how to orgasm? It simply hasn’t existed.

Until now.

It’s time to stop feeling confused, anxious, unwomanly, and hopeless, and start actually learning how to orgasm.

It’s time to stop fighting against your body, and start learning with it.

It’s time to join Finishing School!

Course Overview

Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm is a comprehensive online course that teaches you exactly what you need to do to have your first orgasms on your own and with a partner.

Finishing School’s organized, step-by-step system will teach you:

How It Works

Finishing School is broken into fourteen weeks. Each week, you’ll get a series of audio workshops with exercises to try, including guided practices.

I know you’re busy, so I designed Finishing School to be as streamlined and efficient as possible. I’ve included only the most powerful exercises in each week’s content.

If you want more, you can find additional tips and strategies in the Orgasm Vault – my top secret hideaway for bonus orgasm techniques.

Since Finishing School is fully online, it’s available for you to watch or listen to in your own home, on your own schedule, with complete privacy.

COURSE CURRICULUM
I’M HERE TO HELP YOU

Have Your First Orgasms Alone and With a Partner

I’m Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom. I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

I’ve taught thousands of women just like you how to have their very first orgasms. I am deeply honored, humbled, and awestruck by the work I get to do!

Is This For You?

As you’re reading through this page, you’re probably thinking of plenty of reasons why Finishing School won’t work for you.

All of those reasons are false.

It doesn’t matter how old you are.
It doesn’t matter what your previous level of experience is.
It doesn’t matter what your sexual orientation or relationship status is.

I know it’s easy to come up with excuses, but there’s really only one factor that will determine whether or not Finishing School will work for you – your willingness to try.
Finishing School is only for women who are willing to put in effort.

It’s going to be a fun process, I promise! But you’re not going to have an instant orgasm the second you register. I’ll tell you exactly what to do, but you actually have to do it.

If you’re willing to give it a shot, you will learn how to orgasm.

“I can’t describe how good it felt to sign up for Finishing School. It was like I was finally standing up for myself after so many years of feeling frustrated and broken and declaring, ‘I deserve pleasure!’ It has been transformative in so many ways.”

– KATIE W.

Course Packages

CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE!
BASIC

Self-Study

  • The complete 14-week Finishing School system.
    8 weeks of Learn How To Orgasm, 6 weeks of Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • LIMITED AVAILABILITY

    VIP

  • 3 private 50-minute coaching sessions. ($1,350 value)
    To jumpstart our work together, you’ll fill out a pre-session questionnaire, so I can dive right in and start giving you personalized feedback right away. We can use these personal sessions to target specific techniques that will help you take the maximum advantage of Finishing School, including which techniques will best benefit your specific situation. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll also get recordings of the calls, so you can refer back to them at anytime.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching. ($175 - $2,450 value)
    Includes my “With You Until The End” guarantee. I’ll be there to provide ongoing personal support and guidance until you’ve had your first orgasms on your own and with a partner.
  • The complete 14-week Finishing School system.
    8 weeks of Learn How To Orgasm, 6 weeks of Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • What To Expect When You Purchase

    FREE ACCESS TO

    The Orgasm Vault

    As part of your purchase, you’ll also get absolutely free access to the Orgasm Vault, which is chock-full of valuable orgasm- and sex-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. The Orgasm Vault will help you learn valuable lessons, like:

    You’ll have lifetime access to the Vault, so you can keep improving your sex life long after you’ve had your first orgasms!

    You’re Worth It

    For years, I only offered private orgasm coaching. Working together, one-on-one, for the same amount of time as it takes to complete Finishing School costs over $5,000.

    I created Finishing School because I wanted to make learning how to orgasm more affordable and accessible.

    There’s no denying that Finishing School is an investment. But making this commitment to yourself can be transformative. Simply by signing up, you send yourself the powerful message that your pleasure is important.

    You are important.

    YOU. ARE. WORTH. IT.

    Go All In

    If you commit yourself to the Finishing School system, you WILL learn how to orgasm.

    I know orgasm is a sensitive topic, and I know how easy it can be to give up on yourself. But there has never been any research that shows that some women are just not capable of having an orgasm.

    Thousands of women – and many self-proclaimed “hopeless cases” – have used the Finishing School system to learn how to orgasm.

    This system works.

    Now, you may be wondering about a money-back guarantee. You may be worried that you’ll be the one woman that the system won’t work for, and want the reassurance of knowing you can quit the program.

    I completely understand those fears, but I don’t offer a money-back guarantee. Here’s why: I know that you’ll learn how to orgasm, and I want you to wholeheartedly commit to your orgasmic journey. I want you to go all in.

    From my years of experience teaching women to orgasm, I know how easy it is for us to give up. I am fully

    transparent about the fact that learning how to orgasm is a process, and every woman is on a different timeline. I don’t want you to put pressure on yourself to learn how to orgasm before a 30-day refund window passes.

    If you feel rushed to learn, that will guarantee that you won’t learn. Think about how that has worked in your own life – when you feel pressured to hurry up, or when your partner pressures you to hurry up, does it ever actually work? No. Not at all.

    Instead, Finishing School will teach you how to be patient, kind, and loving towards yourself and your body. And it’s exactly from this place that you’ll learn how to have your first orgasm.

    Plus, you’ll have my guarantees of lifetime access and future upgrades to keep you going. If you sign up for the VIP package, you’ll also have unlimited personal support.

    I know it takes a leap of faith to start a journey like this, but I promise you, once you’ve had your first orgasm, it will all be worth it.

    Finishing School been featured and reviewed in Refinery29, Glamour, Bustle, The Huffington Post, Lifehacker, Elle, Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, Prevention Magazine, and more.

    Most importantly, it’s gotten rave reviews from the thousands of women who have gone through the program.

    Finishing Was Just The Beginning

    REVIEWS AND SUCCESS STORIES
    MORE REVIEWS >

    You’re Ready For This

    Because you’ve been trying your damnedest to just “let it happen”, but it doesn’t.

    Because you’re tired of relationships getting tense, or even ending, because of your orgasm.

    Because a little piece of you dies every time you fake an orgasm.

    Because you’re sick of sex being something that you do for your partner instead of for yourself.

    Because you don’t want to orgasm “some day”; you want to orgasm now. And you don’t want to waste another minute.

    Course Packages

    CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE!
    BASIC

    Self-Study

  • The complete 14-week Finishing School system.
    8 weeks of Learn How To Orgasm, 6 weeks of Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • LIMITED AVAILABILITY

    VIP

  • 3 private 50-minute coaching sessions. ($1,350 value)
    To jumpstart our work together, you’ll fill out a pre-session questionnaire, so I can dive right in and start giving you personalized feedback right away. We can use these personal sessions to target specific techniques that will help you take the maximum advantage of Finishing School, including which techniques will best benefit your specific situation. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll also get recordings of the calls, so you can refer back to them at anytime.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching. ($175 - $2,450 value)
    Includes my “With You Until The End” guarantee. I’ll be there to provide ongoing personal support and guidance until you’ve had your first orgasms on your own and with a partner.
  • The complete 14-week Finishing School system.
    8 weeks of Learn How To Orgasm, 6 weeks of Orgasm With A Partner. Includes audio and video lessons, plus detailed workbooks.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault. ($500 value)
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • What To Expect When You Purchase

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    Have A Question About Finishing School?

    I want you to feel supported in making a decision about joining any of my programs. If you have any questions, or if you just need to know that there’s an actual human behind this website (there is! It’s me!), don’t hesitate to use the contact form below to get in touch!