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Rediscovering Desire

Learn actionable strategies for increasing your libido


Do you lie awake at night, wondering what the heck happened to your sex drive?

Do you miss feeling connected to that part of yourself? That part that feels alive, vibrant, confident, and sexy?

Are you tired of turning down your partner over and over again, and feeling guilty about it? Have you started pulling away from your partner, worried that even the most innocent of touches or kisses will lead to them wanting more? Do you miss the closeness and intimacy that you and your partner once shared, but feel lost about how to get it back?

If so, you’re not alone.

Almost everyone will experience low sex drive at some point in their lives.

But don’t worry; you’re not doomed to a lifetime of low desire and lackluster sex. You can take active, concrete steps to increase your sex drive, reconnect with your self and your partner, and create a sex life that’s worthy of your desire.

Introducing… Rediscovering Desire: Getting Your Sex Drive Back With The Five Foundations Model

Course Overview

Rediscovering Desire is a no-nonsense, online workshop designed to help you increase your libido with straightforward, actionable strategies you can put to use tonight. You’ll learn my comprehensive Five Foundations Model of Sex Drive, developed by working with thousands of couples and individuals. The five main categories of sex drive blockages are:

Once you understand your specific blockages, it’s so much easier to develop a clear plan for reducing or eliminating those blockages from your life. You’ll learn exactly what you need to get turned on.

How It Works

Rediscovering Desire is presented as a completely private video paired with a PDF workbook. Since it’s fully online, you can access it from the convenience of your own schedule and the privacy of your own home.

You’ll learn dozens of libido-boosting techniques right away, and can continue implementing these strategies for years to come.


Rev up your sex drive!

I’m Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom. I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

The most important thing for you to know is that this isn’t just a job for me. I get immense joy out of helping people take their sex lives from ordinary to extraordinary!

"Vanessa helped me realize that not only was it possible for me to get my sex drive back, but that I could also take steps to make sure I kept it for life. I couldn’t be happier." - JANE A.

Is This For You?

Rediscovering Desire is for you if:

  • You want to finally understand why your sex drive is so low.
  • You want to figure out how to increase your sex drive and protect it from disappearing again.
  • You’re ready to get control over your sex drive, and figure out what you need to get turned on.
  • You want to feel connected to your own body again.
  • You’re ready to take concrete, actionable steps to bring sex and intimacy back into your relationship with your partner.

Rediscovering Desire does not discriminate. It’s suitable for people of all ages, races, genders, sexual orientations, and relationship arrangements.

“As a man, I felt ashamed and emasculated by my low sex drive. ‘Real men’ are supposed to want sex all the time, right? … Vanessa’s expert guidance showed me I wasn’t abnormal. Her model made a lot of sense to me, and helped me figure out what I need to get turned on.”


Course Packages



  • The entire Rediscovering Desire workshop, plus detailed workbook.
  • Lifetime access to Rediscovering Desire.
    You can go through the course on your own schedule, and repeat the content whenever you’re going through a slump.
  • Free access to any and all future upgrades.
    Continue improving your sex drive with new tips and techniques.
  • $199


    What To Expect When You Purchase

    You’re Worth It

    The cost for Rediscovering Desire is only $199. A single coaching session with me costs between $599 and $799. The amount of information contained in this workshop typically takes about three sessions to get through. $199 or $2397? This workshop is a no-brainer!

    The actual numbers aside, it’s worth investing in rediscovering your sex drive.

    When you feel in touch with your sex drive, you feel alive and vibrant. You walk through life with a different kind of energy.

    Life is too short and too precious to let your sex drive – and sex life – wither away, especially when there are concrete, proven ways to get it back and keep it for life.

    Go All In

    When you purchase Rediscovering Desire, you get:

    • Lifetime access to the course.
    • Free access to all future upgrades and updates.

    You may be wondering about a money-back guarantee. I want to be clear that I don’t offer one. Here’s why: I know that Rediscovering Desire will teach you the tools that you need to reconnect to your sex drive. But I also know that every person is on a different timeline. Some people are ready to go all-in on the program, and will notice results immediately. Other people may need a bit of time to get used to some of the work you’re going to be doing.

    I am fully transparent about the fact that rediscovering your sex drive is a process. I don’t want you to put pressure on yourself to completely transform before a 14-day refund window passes. If you feel rushed to change, that will guarantee that you won’t change.

    Instead, you’ll have my guarantees of lifetime access and future upgrades to help you keep improving for life.

    I know it takes a leap of faith to start a journey like this, but I promise you, once you’ve experienced what it’s like to reconnect with your desire, it will all be worth it.

    Rekindling the Passion


    You’re Ready For This

    If you’re like most people, you think of your sex drive like you think of your physical traits: it’s a part of you, and you don’t have any control of it. Just like you can’t make yourself grow taller or have smaller feet, you can’t change your sex drive.

    But the irony is that you already know your sex drive can change, because you’ve noticed it decrease!

    Here’s the bottom line: you can control your libido. Sex drive is a lifestyle. It involves making choices and taking action to create the sex drive that you want. And that’s what Rediscovering Desire is all about.

    Have A Question About My Courses?

    I want you to feel supported in making a decision about joining any of my programs. If you have any questions, or if you just need to know that there’s an actual human behind this website (there is! It’s me!), don’t hesitate to use the contact form below to get in touch!