Do you lie awake at night, wondering what the heck happened to your sex drive?

Are you tired of turning down your partner over and over again, only to be wracked with guilt about being a bad partner?

Have you started avoiding your partner, worried that even the most innocent of touches or kisses will lead to them wanting more?

Are you sick of endless fights about your sex life (which, of course, only make your sex drive even lower)?

Do you miss the closeness and intimacy that you and your partner once shared, but feel lost about how to get it back?

If so, you’re not alone.

Almost everyone will experience low sex drive at some point in their lives.

But don’t worry; you’re not doomed to a lifetime of low desire and lackluster sex. You can take active, concrete steps to increase your sex drive, reconnect with your self and your partner, and create a sex life that’s actually worthy of your desire.

Introducing… Rediscovering Desire:

Getting Your Sex Drive Back With The Five Foundations Model


Rediscovering Desire is a no-nonsense online workshop designed to help you increase your libido with straightforward, actionable strategies you can put to use tonight.

It’s a completely private video paired with a PDF workbook that you can access on your own schedule. You’ll learn dozens of libido-boosting techniques right away, and can continue implementing these strategies for years to come.


If you’re like most people, you think of your sex drive like you think of your physical traits: it’s a part of you, and you don’t have any control of it. Just like you can’t make yourself grow taller or have smaller feet, you can’t change your sex drive.

But the irony is that you already know your sex drive can change, because you’ve noticed it decrease!

Here’s the bottom line: you can control your libido.

I like to say that sex drive is a lifestyle. It involves making choices and taking action to create the sex drive that you want. And that’s what this workshop is all about. In Rediscovering Desire, you’ll learn my comprehensive Five Foundations model of sex drive, developed by working with hundreds of couples and individuals.

I’ve learned that there’s always a reason why sex drive decreases. The five main categories of sex drive blockages are:

Physical blockages

Mental blockages

Emotional blockages

Sensual blockages

Relationship blockages

Once you understand your specific blockages, it’s easy to develop a clear plan for reducing or eliminating those blockages from your life. You’ll learn exactly what you need to get turned on.


Here’s a detailed breakdown of exactly what’s included in the workshop:


  • The two sex drive types, and why it’s crucial that you know which one you are.
  • The most common sex drive myths that are sabotaging your ability to feel more desire.
  • The crucial information you need to know about hormones.
  • The common medications that may be hampering your libido.
  • A simple, almost effortless exercise for boosting your libido and developing a better connection to your body.

The Physical Foundation

The Mental Foundation

  • How to think about sex, even if it never comes to mind naturally.
  • How changing just one word can transform your sex life. (Seriously. This tip is a client favorite!)
  • How to get – and stay – motivated to create change.
  • Ways to improve your self-esteem and confidence.

The Emotional Foundation

The Sensual Foundation

  • How to stop avoiding touch with your partner.
  • The two biggest mistakes you’re probably making when it comes to your sex life.
  • Specific ideas of new things to try in the bedroom.
  • Ways to make the time and space for intimacy in your busy lives.
  • My thoughts on whether or not your libido is truly your problem.

The Relational Foundation


The cost for Rediscovering Desire is only $199. A single coaching session with me costs between $549 and $749. The amount of information contained in this workshop typically takes about three sessions to get through. $199 or close to $2,000? This workshop is a no-brainer!



This workshop is for you if you’re ready to take control of your sex drive. In Rediscovering Desire, you’re going to learn practical, actionable strategies you can put to use immediately. But these techniques aren’t going to do any good if you don’t use them. If you’re not ready to take action, this workshop isn’t for you.

Rediscovering Desire does not discriminate. It’s suitable for people of all ages, races, genders, sexual orientations, and relationship arrangements.


Hi there! I’m Vanessa Marin! I’m a sex therapist, coach, and writer.

I have a Bachelor’s degree in Human Sexuality from Brown University, and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’ve been featured by The New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, CNN, Buzzfeed, Jezebel, Lifehacker, and many more.

Most importantly, I’m a wife, and I’ve been with my partner for over a decade. I know all about the struggles of keeping the passion alive in a long-term relationship. My relationship has been my best teacher, and I feel deeply honored to share the lessons I’ve learned (and continue to learn!) with other couples.


Q: “Do I have to complete the workshop by a certain date?”

A: No! You’re free to take it on your own time.

Q: “Will the workshop expire?”

A: No! When you sign up, you get lifetime access.

Q: “How long will it take?”

A: The workshop itself is 90 minutes. There are a few additional exercises in the workbook, which will take about half an hour. Many of the strategies in the workbook can be put to use immediately, but some will take a bit more time.

Q: “Will there be other people in the course?”

A: You’ll get your own private copy of the pre-recorded workshop. No one will know you’re participating.


Here’s what my clients have said about my approach to increasing low sex drive:

“Married 10 years with 2 young kids. I thought it was inevitable that my sex drive would disappear, but I still hated how disconnected my husband and I had become. Vanessa helped me realize that not only was it possible for me to get my sex drive back, but that I could also take steps to make sure I kept it for life. I couldn’t be happier.”

- Jane A.

“As a man, I felt ashamed and emasculated by my low sex drive. ‘Real men’ are supposed to want sex all the time, right? I didn’t want to acknowledge the issue, much less seek help for it. But Vanessa’s expert guidance showed me I wasn’t abnormal. Her model made a lot of sense to me, and helped me figure out what I need to get turned on.”

- Toby K.


As soon as you click the “Enroll Now” button, you’ll be led through the checkout process. Your payment will be processed by Stripe, PayPal, or Apple Pay (depending on the payment method you choose). Your credit card statement will read “One Oh, Inc” for your privacy. (No mention of “sex therapy” or “sex drive” on your statement!)

Immediately after purchase, you’ll get a welcome email with payment confirmation and access information. Your information will be kept strictly confidential, and will never be shared.


I want you to feel supported every step of the way, including during the registration process. If you have any questions about the course, or if you just need to know that there’s an actual human behind this website (there is! It’s me!), don’t hesitate to use my contact form below to get in touch!