Finishing School

Orgasm with a partner

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“Are you close?” Is there any question that can evoke more anxiety for women in the bedroom?

We all know the feeling. You’re getting down with your partner, and you inevitably get to that awkward moment when you desperately start hoping you’re not going to be asked that question.

Because that one question forces you to make a horrible decision – to fake or not to fake.

Faking can feel so tempting. You don’t want to hurt your partner’s feelings. You want them to think they’ve done a good job. You feel too embarrassed to describe what you need to a partner, or too guilty to actually let them do it. Sometimes you don’t even know what you need in the first place.

But real talk – every time you fake an orgasm with a partner, a little piece of you dies inside.

Not only do you feel like you’ve missed out on being able to have an orgasm in the first place, but you also get so wrapped up in trying to convincingly fake an orgasm that you wind up enjoying sex even less. You’re more fixated on creating a good performance than on anything else.

You start feeling guilty for lying. Then you see your partner’s satisfied face, and you start feeling resentful. Why do they get to have all the fun, while you get left feeling frustrated and unsatisfied?

But what’s the alternative? Pretending you didn’t even hear the question in the first place? Just lying there quietly? Having to awkwardly explain to your partner that you’re not close? With choices like those, faking it feels like your least-terrible option…

Not anymore!

It’s time to join Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner!

Course Overview

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner is a comprehensive online course for women who can orgasm on their own, but struggle to get there with a partner. It teaches you exactly what you need to do to start orgasming reliably with a partner.

Finishing School’s organized, step-by-step system will teach you:

How It Works

Finishing School is a ten week journey. The second you sign up, you’ll get access to the first week of video workshops and exercises to try, including guided practices.

I know you’re busy, so I designed Finishing School to be as streamlined and efficient as possible. I’ve included only the most powerful exercises in each week’s content.

If you want more, you can find additional tips and strategies in the Orgasm Vault – my top secret hideaway for bonus orgasm techniques.

Since Finishing School is fully online, it’s available for you to watch or listen to in your own home, on your own schedule, with complete privacy.

COURSE CURRICULUM
I’M HERE TO HELP YOU

Have Your First Orgasm With a Partner

I’m Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom. I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

I’ve struggled with my own orgasm challenges too! I spent years knowing how to orgasm on my own, but being unable to have them with a partner. It was a huge struggle for me, but I eventually learned how to get there. Over the years, I created a step-by-step system to replicate exactly what I did.

I’ve taught thousands of women just like you how to orgasm with a partner. I am deeply honored, humbled, and awestruck by the work I get to do!

Is This For You?

This program is for women who can orgasm on their own, but haven’t been able to get there with a partner. (Important note: If you’ve never had an orgasm, or can’t reliably orgasm on your own, please check out the original version of Finishing School. You’ll learn how to orgasm both on your own and with a partner.)

As you’re reading through this page, you’re probably thinking of plenty of reasons why Finishing School won’t work for you.

All of those reasons are false.

It doesn’t matter if you’re in a relationship or single.
It doesn’t matter how old you are.
It doesn’t matter what your previous level of experience is.
It doesn’t matter what your sexual orientation is.

I know it’s easy to come up with excuses, but there’s really only one factor that will determine whether or not Finishing School will work for you – your willingness to try.

Finishing School is only for women who are willing to put in effort.

It’s going to be a fun process, I promise! But you’re not going to have an instant orgasm the second you register. I’ll tell you exactly what to do, but you actually have to do it.

If you’re willing to give it a shot, you will learn how to orgasm.

“Less than a month later I have experienced a complete, 180 degree change! I can reach orgasm almost every time (but completely understand why and do not get discouraged when I don’t). I feel confident and empowered both by myself and with a partner. I am more intimately connected with my body and my sexuality; I enjoy exploring new techniques and new experiences on my way to orgasm.”

– ALANA H.

Course Packages

CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE!
BASIC

Self-Study

  • The entire 10-week Finishing School system.
    Video & audio lessons, plus a detailed workbook.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault ($500 value).
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses ($200 value).
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • LIMITED AVAILABILITY

    VIP

  • 3 private 50-minute coaching sessions. ($1,350 value)
    To jumpstart our work together, you’ll fill out a pre-session questionnaire, so I can dive right in and start giving you personalized feedback right away. We can use these personal sessions to target specific techniques that will help you take the maximum advantage of Finishing School, including which techniques will best benefit your specific situation. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll also get recordings of the calls, so you can refer back to them at anytime.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching sessions ($175 - $1,750 value).
    Includes my “With You Until The End” guarantee. I’ll be there to provide ongoing personal support and guidance until you’ve had your first orgasms on your own and with a partner.
  • The entire 10-week Finishing School system.
    Video & audio lessons, plus a detailed workbook.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault ($500 value).
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses ($200 value).
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • What To Expect When You Purchase

    FREE ACCESS TO

    The Orgasm Vault

    As part of your purchase, you’ll also get absolutely free access to the Orgasm Vault, which is chock-full of valuable orgasm- and sex-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. The Orgasm Vault will help you learn valuable lessons, like:

    You’ll have lifetime access to the Vault, so you can keep improving your sex life long after you’ve had your first orgasms!

    You’re Worth It

    For years, I only offered private orgasm coaching. Working together, one-on-one, for the same amount of time as it takes to complete Finishing School costs over $5,000.

    I created Finishing School because I wanted to make learning how to orgasm more affordable and accessible.

    There’s no denying that Finishing School is an investment. But making this commitment to yourself can be transformative. Simply by signing up, you send yourself the powerful message that your pleasure is important.

    You are important.

    YOU. ARE. WORTH. IT.

    The 30 Day, Risk-Free, Money-Back Guarantee

     

    If you commit yourself to the Finishing School system, you WILL orgasm.

    I know that orgasm is a sensitive topic, and that it can be easy to give up on yourself.

    But there has never been any research that shows that some women are just not capable of having an orgasm with a partner.

    Thousands of women – including many self-proclaimed “hopeless cases” – have used the Finishing School system to learn how to orgasm with their partners.

    This system works.

     

    At the same time, I know that it can be scary to take a leap of faith like this. So that’s why I’m offering a 30 day, risk-free, money-back guarantee. I can’t promise you that you’ll be wildly orgasmic in just 30 days. You’re too unique for me to put that kind of timeline on you! Truly commit yourself to Finishing School, and do all of the work. If you don’t feel any sort of change in your relationship with your body, pleasure, orgasm, or sex life, then I will refund you every single penny. All that I ask is that you show me that you’ve done the work. I don’t want you investing in a course that doesn’t feel like the right fit for you; I just don’t want you to give up on yourself. Because that’s my dream for this world; that every woman out there knows she’s capable of pleasure and orgasms, and that she deserves them.

    Finishing School been featured and reviewed in Refinery29, Glamour, Bustle, The Huffington Post, Lifehacker, Elle, Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, Prevention Magazine, and more.

    Most importantly, it’s gotten rave reviews from the thousands of women who have gone through the program.

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    You’re Ready For This

    Because you’ve been trying your damnedest to just “let it happen”, but it doesn’t.

    Because you’re tired of relationships getting tense, or even ending, because of your orgasm.

    Because a little piece of you dies every time you fake an orgasm.

    Because you’re sick of sex being something that you do for your partner instead of for yourself.

    Because you don’t want to orgasm “some day”; you want to orgasm now. And you don’t want to waste another minute.

    Course Packages

    CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE!
    BASIC

    Self-Study

  • The entire 10-week Finishing School system.
    Video & audio lessons, plus a detailed workbook.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault ($500 value).
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses ($200 value).
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • LIMITED AVAILABILITY

    VIP

  • 3 private 50-minute coaching sessions. ($1,350 value)
    To jumpstart our work together, you’ll fill out a pre-session questionnaire, so I can dive right in and start giving you personalized feedback right away. We can use these personal sessions to target specific techniques that will help you take the maximum advantage of Finishing School, including which techniques will best benefit your specific situation. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll also get recordings of the calls, so you can refer back to them at anytime.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching sessions ($175 - $1,750 value).
    Includes my “With You Until The End” guarantee. I’ll be there to provide ongoing personal support and guidance until you’ve had your first orgasms on your own and with a partner.
  • The entire 10-week Finishing School system.
    Video & audio lessons, plus a detailed workbook.
  • Free access to the Orgasm Vault ($500 value).
    The Orgasm Vault is a library of valuable orgasm-related tips, tricks, and resources beyond what’s covered in Finishing School. Think of Finishing School as your course syllabus, and the Orgasm Vault as your recommended reading.
  • Free access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses ($200 value).
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School.
    So you can learn on your own schedule and keep learning for life.
  • Free access to all future program updates.
    So you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.
  • Weekly motivational emails.
  • What To Expect When You Purchase

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    Have A Question About Finishing School?

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