“Are You Close?”

Is there any question that can evoke more anxiety for women in the bedroom?

We all know the feeling. You’re getting down with your partner, and you inevitably get to that awkward moment when you desperately start hoping you’re not going to be asked that question.

Because that one question forces you to make a horrible decision – to fake or not to fake.

Faking can feel so tempting. You don’t want to hurt your partner’s feelings. You want them to think they’ve done a good job. You feel too embarrassed to describe what you need to a partner, or too guilty to actually let them do it. Sometimes you don’t even know what you need in the first place.

But real talk – every time you fake an orgasm with a partner, a little piece of you dies inside.

Not only do you feel like you’ve missed out on being able to have an orgasm in the first place, but you also get so wrapped up in trying to convincingly fake an orgasm that you wind up enjoying sex even less. You’re more fixated on creating a good performance than on anything else.

You start feeling guilty for lying. Then you see your partner’s satisfied face, and you start feeling resentful. Why do they get to have all the fun, while you get left feeling frustrated and unsatisfied?

But what’s the alternative? Pretending you didn’t even hear the question in the first place? Just lying there quietly? Having to awkwardly explain to your partner that you’re not close? With choices like those, faking it feels like your least-terrible option…

Not anymore!

Introducing…

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner is a comprehensive online program designed to kick faked orgasms to the curb, and teach you how to orgasm with a partner.

Absolutely everything you need is right there at your fingertips, in an organized step-by-step system.

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner is an offshoot of Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm. The original Finishing School was created for women who have never had an orgasm, period. The program has been a huge success, with hundreds of happy participants, and glowing reviews in publications like Glamour, Marie Claire, Refinery29, and Prevention. But it contains a lot of content that just isn’t necessary if you already know how to orgasm on your own.

That’s where Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner comes in. You’ve already figured out how to orgasm on your own, and you may even be extremely satisfied with your solo sex life. But it’s a completely different picture when there’s another person in your bed.

Maybe you feel shy and inhibited in front of another person. Maybe you’ve never had a partner who could touch you the same way you can touch yourself. Maybe you have a hard time being the center of attention and allowing your partner to focus on you. Maybe it just feels like something’s blocking you.

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner will help you put an end to all of that frustration, confusion, and anxiety, and start orgasming with ease.

HOW IT WORKS

Finishing School is divided into three modules, spread out over twelve weeks.

Finishing School is designed for the busy woman on the go, while still helping you learn how to slow down and make more time for pleasure. Since it’s fully online, it’s available for you to watch or listen to in your own home, on your own schedule, with complete privacy.

I know that time is a concern for most people, so I designed Finishing School to be as streamlined and efficient as possible. The longest workshop is 25 minutes, with most hovering in the 5-10 minute range. I generally recommend spending about 30-60 minutes a week, which you can split up into multiple sessions.

Module One – Set Yourself Up For Success

Across seven audio workshops and a 60+ page workbook, you’ll learn:

How to prevent orgasmic myths and blockages from sabotaging your ability to orgasm with a partner.

The most up-to-date research about how female orgasm works

How to alter your masturbation habits to optimize your orgasmic potential.

How to allow yourself to take up time and attention when you’re with your partner.

How to feel more comfortable talking to your partner about your needs and desires – and how to give yourself permission to even have those needs and desires in the first place.

Module Two – Have All The Orgasms

Across four modules and an 80+ page workbook, you’ll learn:

The single most effective way of orgasming with a partner, practically guaranteed to get you there every time.

Specific techniques for orgasming from manual stimulation (including a little trick that may surprise you).

How to orgasm from oral sex, whether you already love it or aren’t a fan.

Tricks for incorporating toys.

Creative ways to orgasm during intercourse (including the very best sex positions).

Module Three – Take It To The Next Level

Across four modules and a 60+ page workbook, you’ll learn:.

The one product that should be in every woman’s bedside table.

More toy and product recommendations.

Tips for trying anal play. (Yes, it’s worth exploring!)

Strategies for getting your head in the game and eliminating distractions in the moment (no more worrying about your to-do list as your partner is between your legs!).

ABOUT YOUR INSTRUCTOR

Hi there! I’m Vanessa Marin!

I’m a sex therapist, coach, and writer.

I have a Bachelor’s degree in Human Sexuality from Brown University, and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’ve been featured by The New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, CNN, Rolling Stone, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Buzzfeed, Jezebel, Lifehacker, and many more.

I’ve been teaching women just like you how to have their very first orgasms for over a decade. I am deeply honored, humbled, and awestruck by the work I get to do!

“During our last love-making session, I managed to climax twice!!!! What an experience!!! You were so right in saying that it is never too late to learn about your body. This new sensuality has certainly revived our long relationship and put a definite spark back into it. We are both over the moon – what more could I say? Another 100% success story to add to your books! Thank you so much for coming into my life!”

- Emma S.

IS THIS RIGHT FOR YOU?

This program is for women who can orgasm on their own, but haven’t been able to get there with a partner. (Important note: If you’ve never had an orgasm, or can’t reliably orgasm on your own, please check out the original version of Finishing School. The Orgasm With A Partner edition is not going to help you learn how to have your first orgasms alone.)

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner is for women of any sexual orientation. You’ll learn specific techniques that you can use with a wide variety of sexual acts, though there is a bit of a focus on penetration. It’s also suitable for women who are dating or in committed relationships. There’s an emphasis on communicating with your partner, but it doesn’t matter if that partner is someone casual or serious.

This program is for women who are looking for reliable, tested orgasm techniques, but who are also looking to transform their relationships with sex. Orgasm isn’t about just about rubbing your clitoris; it’s about giving yourself permission to feel pleasure. It’s about feeling confident in your own skin. It’s about being present in the moment. It’s about being vulnerable. If you’re open to a real adventure, Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner is the program for you.

WHAT YOU GET

There are three different pathways for your to access the core Finishing School system.   Choose your own adventure!

Self-Study

Choose this option if: You’re an ultra-motivated self-starter and proud of it. You’ve proven to yourself that you can follow through on things before. You you feel confident that you can work your way through Finishing School on your own, without any additional support or need for accountability.

What you’ll get:

The entire Finishing School system: twelve weeks, three modules of audio workshops, and three workbooks to guide you through having your very first orgasms with a partner! ($549 value)

Lifetime access to Finishing School, so you can learn on your own schedule, and keep learning for life.

Free access to any and all future upgrades, so you can continue improving your relationship with your orgasm with new tips and techniques.

Access to a continuously updated Q&A library of frequently asked questions and my responses. ($200 value)

Deluxe

Choose this option if: As you read over the Finishing School page, you find yourself thinking, “wow, this feels like it was written just for me. She really gets me.” You want to feel that same level of understanding and support as you learn how to have your first orgasms with a partner. You want to know that there’s someone there to cheer you on, answer your questions, and keep you going. You also want to experience a wide variety of orgasms, so you’re excited about using toys as well.

What you’ll get:

Everything included in Self-Study (a $749 value), plus…

1 Minna Life luxury vibrator, perfect for women and couples. ($150 value)

1 bottle of Pjur premium lubricant. ($30 value)

Two personalized email coaching sessions to keep you on track. You can use these sessions to get a custom-tailored game-plan for Finishing School, to get answers to your questions, or to get more motivation, accountability, and support. ($300 value)

Important note: You’ll receive the toys and lube in a plain, unmarked box, to protect your privacy.

VIP

Choose this option if: You’re ready to go all in. Your orgasm is of the utmost importance to you, and you’re not willing to waste another second. You want to do everything you can to jumpstart and fast track your orgasmic adventure. You know yourself, and you know that you’re most successful when you have personal support and accountability. Your life is busy, and things can slip onto the backburner if you’re not careful. You know you’ll benefit from having someone to check in on you and keep you going. You want learning how to orgasm to be pleasurable and luxurious! You know that treating yourself well is actually part of the experience of learning how to orgasm!

What you’ll get:

Everything included in Deluxe (a $1,199 value), plus…

1 private 30-minute Jumpstart Session, held over phone or video chat. In advance, you’ll fill out a pre-session questionnaire, so I can dive right in and start giving you personalized feedback right away. We’ll target specific techniques that will help you take the maximum advantage of Finishing School, including which techniques will best benefit your specific situation. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll also get a recording of the call, so you can refer back to it at anytime. ($239 value)

Unlimited personal email coaching sessions, starting immediately after you register, up until you have your first orgasm. ($1,800 value, if used weekly)

Weekly motivational emails.

My “With You Until The End” guarantee. I’ll be there to provide ongoing personal support and guidance until you’ve had your first orgasm with a partner.

The peace of mind of knowing you’re taking the most comprehensive approach to learning how to orgasm with a partner. (Priceless!)

Important note: You’ll receive the toys and lube in a plain, unmarked box, to protect your privacy. I can only accommodate a limited number of VIP spots per month, which are available on a first come, first served basis.

YOU’RE WORTH IT

For years, I only offered private orgasm coaching. Working together one-on-one for the same duration as Finishing School costs close to $2,500. I created Finishing School because I wanted to share my strategies and techniques with women who aren’t able to afford that price point.

Once you factor in the value of the gifts and just one email coaching session, Finishing School works out to around $3-5 per day. For what you spend on a nice cup of coffee, you could get rid of one of the biggest sources of frustration and embarrassment in your life, and start experiencing the type of pleasure you’ve only dreamed of.

If you take advantage of the personal coaching sessions a few more times, the program essentially pays for itself.

There’s no denying that Finishing School is an investment. But making this kind of commitment to yourself can be transformative. Simply by signing up, you send yourself the powerful message that your pleasure is important. You are important. You are worth it.

“Less than a month later I have experienced a complete, 180 degree change! I can reach orgasm almost every time (but completely understand why and do not get discouraged when I don’t). I feel confident and empowered both by myself and with a partner. I am more intimately connected with my body and my sexuality; I enjoy exploring new techniques and new experiences on my way to orgasm.”

- Alana H.

MY PROMISE TO YOU

If you commit yourself to the Finishing School system, you WILL learn how to orgasm with a partner.

I know orgasm is a sensitive topic, and I know how easy it can be to give up on yourself. But hundreds of women – and many self-proclaimed “hopeless cases” – have used the Finishing School system to learn how to orgasm with their partners.

This system works.

Now, you may be wondering about a money-back guarantee. You may be worried that you’ll be the one woman that the system won’t work for, and you want the reassurance of knowing you can quit the program.

I completely understand those fears, but I don’t offer a money-back guarantee. Here’s why: I know that you’ll learn how to orgasm with a partner, and I want you to wholeheartedly commit to your orgasmic journey. I want you to go all in.

From my years of experience teaching women to orgasm, I know how easy it is for us to give up on our orgasm. I am fully transparent about the fact that learning how to orgasm with a partner is a process, and every woman is on a different timeline. I don’t want you to put pressure on yourself to have an orgasm before a 30-day refund window passes.

If you feel rushed to learn, that will guarantee that you won’t learn. Think about how that’s worked in your own life – when your partner pressures you to hurry up, does it ever actually work?

Instead, Finishing School will teach you how to be patient, kind, and loving towards yourself and your body. And it’s exactly from this place that you’ll learn how to orgasm with your partner!

Plus, you’ll have my guarantees of lifetime access and future upgrades to keep you going. If you sign up for the VIP package, you’ll also have unlimited personal support.

I know it takes a leap of faith to start a journey like this, but I promise you, once you’ve had your first orgasm with a partner, it will all be worth it.

“I truly cannot thank you enough. It seems like such a ridiculous thing to say, but I finally understand why everyone is so obsessed with orgasming! I am forever grateful.”

- Yasmine K.

I know that taking a leap of faith like this can feel scary at first. But I promise you, once you take that first step, you’re never going to look back.

Learning how to orgasm on your own is different from learning how to orgasm with a partner. It can feel frustrating at first, but once you learn how to orgasm with a partner, you’ll understand why.

It’s because orgasms with a partner feel different from orgasms that you have on your own.

Don’t get me wrong – solo orgasms are amazing. But orgasming with a partner requires so much vulnerability, trust, and intimacy, all of which only serve to heighten the intensity of the orgasm itself. It can be more work, yes, but the payoff is much higher too.

Orgasming with another person can be life-changing.

You’ll have these moments when you’ll be rendered completely speechless by the intensity of what you just experienced.

Moments when you’ll get serious cases of the giggles together.

Moments when you’ll be awestruck by the amount of pleasure your body is capable of feeling.

Moments when you’ll be so freaking thankful to yourself for giving yourself this gift.

Ready for those moments?

Basic

SELF-STUDY
  • The entire Finishing School system: 12 weeks, 3 modules of audio workshops, 3 workbooks
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School
  • Free access to all future program updates
  • Free access to a continuously updated library of FAQs and my responses ($200 value)

Most popular

DELUXE
  • The entire Finishing School system: 12 weeks, 3 modules of audio workshops, 3 workbooks
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School
  • Free access to all future program updates
  • Free access to a continuously updated library of FAQs and my responses ($200 value)
  • 1 Minna Life luxury vibrator ($150 value)
  • 1 bottle of Pjur premium lubricant ($30 value)
  • 2 personalized email coaching sessions ($300 value)
    You can use these sessions to get a custom-tailored game-plan for Finishing School, to get answers to your questions, or to get more motivation, accountability, and support

Limited quantity available

VIP
  • The entire Finishing School system: 12 weeks, 3 modules of audio workshops, 3 workbooks
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School
  • Free access to all future program updates
  • Free access to a continuously updated library of FAQs and my responses ($200 value)
  • 1 Minna Life luxury vibrator ($150 value)
  • 1 bottle of Pjur premium lubricant ($30 value)
  • 1 private 30-minute Jumpstart Session, held over phone or video chat ($239 value)
    A session where I help you target specific techniques that will help you take the maximum advantage of Finishing School, based on your situation. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll also get a recording of the call.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching sessions ($150-$1,800 value)
  • Weekly motivational emails
  • The peace of mind of knowing you’re taking the most comprehensive approach to learning how to orgasm (priceless!)

For the Deluxe and VIP packages, the vibrator and lube can only be shipped to US addresses.

Are you located outside the US or already have a favorite vibrator and lube? No problem! Enter the code “NOGIFTS” upon checkout to receive a $50 discount.

Click here for payment plan details!

To take advantage of the payment plan, just click the ‘enroll now’ button above. You’ll make one payment today, and your credit card will be automatically charged four more times over the next four months.

After you place your order, you’ll receive immediate access to the program. If your order includes the vibrator and lube, they’ll be shipped after your third payment (2 months from now).

YOUR JOURNEY BEGINS

As soon as you click the “Enroll Now” button, you’ll be led through the checkout process.

Your payment will be processed by Stripe, PayPal, or Apple Pay (depending on the payment method you choose), and your credit card statement will read “One Oh, Inc” for your privacy. (No mention of “sex therapy” or “orgasm” on your statement!)

Immediately after purchase, you’ll get a welcome email with payment confirmation and directions for accessing the first module.

If your package includes gifts, I’ll ask you to confirm with me via email that your shipping address is correct so I can ensure you get your package discreetly and promptly.

Within a few short minutes, you’ll get started learning how to orgasm!

Four weeks later, you’ll get another email with access information to Module Two. Four weeks after that, you’ll get Module Three.

Your information will be kept strictly confidential, and will never be shared.

I’VE GOT YOUR BACK

I want you to feel supported every step of the way, including during the registration process. If you have any questions about the courses, if you want support in choosing the right program for you, or if you just need to know that there’s an actual human behind this website (there is! It’s me!), don’t hesitate to use my contact form below to get in touch!

YOU’RE NOT ALONE

I know this is a big decision, and I want you to feel confident making it! Here’s what recent Finishing School participants have said about their experiences:

“Vanessa Marin and her program are truly amazing. Finishing School helped me to understand female orgasms better, and made me feel more comfortable and accept who I am. I feel more confident and supported since taking Vanessa’s program. I have been able to orgasm with my partner and feel so much closer and intimate with him. ”

Jeannine Friedrich

“We come to this place for so many different reasons and from so many different backgrounds. Vanessa understands and allows for each of us to do this work in our own time and at our own pace, while steadfastly supporting us in her knowledge that we are all capable of reaching orgasm and finding satisfaction in our sex lives. After our very first communication, in response to my concerns, Vanessa told me “I can promise you that your body is not broken”, and it was such a relief to hear that from the expert! For some of us, this journey is not a quick one, but Vanessa will never give up on us, and she helps us have the confidence and motivation to not give up on ourselves.”

Leah H.

“I started Finishing School With A Partner because I knew that sex could be a lot better. I’ve always felt like something was missing and I felt a lot of shame asking for what I wanted. Finishing School gave me permission to take as long as I need to reach an orgasm, and to be able to ask my partner to slow down and to meet me on my level. I considered myself to be educated about female anatomy, but Vanessa explained it in a way that made me feel a lot better about needing specific kinds of stimulation, that I’m not inadequate, and that my body does exactly what it was designed to do.

I am already feeling a huge difference in the way I think and approach sex with my partner. Vanessa had me trying a bunch of new methods to reach orgasm and changing things up, and varying the methods when I’m by myself has made it a lot easier to receive pleasure from my partner. There is so much to unpack in this course, I am excited to keep going.“

Rochelle P.

“Recently I’d been feeling disconnected from my body during sex. I could get myself off easily when alone, but when having sex with a partner the stress of reaching orgasm seemed to make my body shut down. Sex was feeling less fun and more stressful. The pressure to come led me to start faking it, which gave me a lot of shame. Thank god for Finishing School! Vanessa’s class has given me a new relationship to my body and for the first time I actually have a sensual connection to my vagina. It’s been a literal pleasure getting to know this side of myself! I no longer have to fake it and my sex-related anxiety is at an all-time low. The newfound sexual connection to my body is worth the price alone but then you throw orgasms into the mix and WOW; I’m a changed woman.”

Savannah H.

“This workshop was so much more than just learning how to orgasm. It forced me to think about my sexuality, explore my fears, and demand more for myself in the bedroom. Vanessa was responsive and supportive throughout the process. It was also empowering to learn how to get myself in the mood and mindset to engage with my body instead of relying on another person. Finally, even if I ever did gather the courage to shop for lube or a vibrator, I would not have known what to get, so I was so grateful that they came with the course (and they are both great!).”

Sarah S.

Because life’s too short to keep faking. 

Basic

SELF-STUDY
  • The entire Finishing School system: 12 weeks, 3 modules of audio workshops, 3 workbooks
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School
  • Free access to all future program updates
  • Free access to a continuously updated library of FAQs and my responses ($200 value)

Most popular

DELUXE
  • The entire Finishing School system: 12 weeks, 3 modules of audio workshops, 3 workbooks
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School
  • Free access to all future program updates
  • Free access to a continuously updated library of FAQs and my responses ($200 value)
  • 1 Minna Life luxury vibrator ($150 value)
  • 1 bottle of Pjur premium lubricant ($30 value)
  • 2 personalized email coaching sessions ($300 value)
    You can use these sessions to get a custom-tailored game-plan for Finishing School, to get answers to your questions, or to get more motivation, accountability, and support

Limited quantity available

VIP
  • The entire Finishing School system: 12 weeks, 3 modules of audio workshops, 3 workbooks
  • Lifetime access to Finishing School
  • Free access to all future program updates
  • Free access to a continuously updated library of FAQs and my responses ($200 value)
  • 1 Minna Life luxury vibrator ($150 value)
  • 1 bottle of Pjur premium lubricant ($30 value)
  • 1 private 30-minute Jumpstart Session, held over phone or video chat ($239 value)
    A session where I help you target specific techniques that will help you take the maximum advantage of Finishing School, based on your situation. We’ll also talk about how to schedule the course in a way that will fit with your life, and set goals to hold you accountable. You’ll also get a recording of the call.
  • Unlimited personal email coaching sessions ($150-$1,800 value)
  • Weekly motivational emails
  • The peace of mind of knowing you’re taking the most comprehensive approach to learning how to orgasm (priceless!)

For the Deluxe and VIP packages, the vibrator and lube can only be shipped to US addresses.

Are you located outside the US or already have a favorite vibrator and lube? No problem! Enter the code “NOGIFTS” upon checkout to receive a $50 discount.

Click here for payment plan details!

To take advantage of the payment plan, just click the ‘enroll now’ button above. You’ll make one payment today, and your credit card will be automatically charged four more times over the next four months.

After you place your order, you’ll receive immediate access to the program. If your order includes the vibrator and lube, they’ll be shipped after your third payment (2 months from now).

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