At the beginning of a relationship, sex feels so effortless, so easy. All you have to do is look at each other in a certain way and it’s on! Sometimes you can’t even make it into the bedroom.
Sex feels so special, so intimate, so exciting!
And then, life catches up. Your schedules get busier. You have jobs, kids, pets, and other responsibilities that take up a lot more of your time and your energy than you ever imagined. You don’t feel the desire to be intimate as often, and it certainly takes a lot more than just a look to get you in the mood.
You tackle these other areas of your life as a team, dividing and conquering. One partner takes out the trash and the other washes the dishes. One partner puts the kids to bed while the other puts away all the laundry.
But you can’t split up your sex life! You both have to want to have sex at the same time. And sometimes that can feel like a Herculean task.
Because of these challenges, so many couples believe that sex in a long-term relationship is bound to taper off. But that’s just not true!
You can recapture that magic of the early stages of your relationship, and fall in love with sex – and each other! – all over again.
The Passion Project is a twelve-week online course for couples who want to take their sex lives from ordinary to extraordinary.
In this innovative and comprehensive online course, you’ll learn:
The Passion Project is fully online, so you can take the course in your own home, on your own schedule, with complete privacy.
The techniques in The Passion Project have been developed in over 15 years of work in the sex therapy field, and tested with thousands of couples.
You can keep returning to The Passion Project any time you want to rev up your sex life and reconnect in the bedroom.
You’ll learn how to have sex that feels intimate, connecting, playful, and pleasurable to both of you. What better goal is there to work towards?
The Passion Project is delivered in a series of audio workshops, spread out over twelve weeks. Every other week, you’ll have a “date” with your partner where you’ll focus on one of the Five Foundations of sex drive together. You’ll listen to the workshops, and pick specific assignments to try out during the week, on your own and together as a couple.
If you can’t participate during a particular week, it’s no problem! Since everything is pre-recorded, you can listen whenever you have the chance. You’ll also have lifetime access to the course, so there’s no rush to finish. This course is designed to work with your schedule.
You’ll start off nice and easy, with an introduction to how The Passion Project works. You’ll cover:
This is where you’ll learn the first of the Five Foundations, which relates to your body. In this module, you’ll learn:
Your mental state can play a huge role in your desire for sex and your enjoyment of it. You’ll learn:
Sex is obviously a very emotional topic for most people! Some people need to feel connected in order to have sex, while other people need to have sex in order to feel connected. In this module, you’ll learn how to balance those different needs. You’ll also learn:
In this module, you’ll focus on nurturing your relationship inside and outside of the bedroom. You’ll learn:
In your final module, you’ll really turn up the heat! You’ll learn how to banish boredom from your bedroom, and have sex that feels way more passionate and exciting. You’ll learn:
I’m Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom. I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.
Most importantly, I’m a wife, and I’ve been with my partner for over a decade. I know all about the struggles of keeping the passion alive in a long-term relationship. My relationship has been my best teacher, and I feel deeply honored to share the lessons I’ve learned (and continue to learn!) with other couples.
These are issues that practically all couples experience, so The Passion Project does not discriminate. It’s suitable for couples of all ages, races, genders, sexual orientations, and arrangements.
There’s no denying that The Passion Project is an investment. But why shouldn’t you make an investment in the one thing that matters most in life – feeling truly connected to the person you love the most in the world?
We balk at the idea of investing in our relationships, but is having the latest iPhone or a new pair of shoes really going to make you as happy as that sly little look you and your partner exchange after you’ve just had toe-curling, heart-opening, mind-blowing, soul-satisfying sex?
Working with me one-on-one for 12 weeks would cost over $6,000, but The Passion Project works out to just a fraction of that.
Your relationship, your partner, and your sex life are worth investing in.
You may be wondering about a money-back guarantee. I want to be clear that I don’t offer one. Here’s why: I know that The Passion Project will teach you the tools that you need to keep your sex life vibrant and satisfying for life. But I also know that every couple is on a different timeline. Some couples are ready to go all-in on the program and will notice results immediately. Other couples may need a bit of time to get used to some of the work you’re going to be doing together.
I am fully transparent about the fact that building a healthy and happy sex life is a process. I don’t want you to put pressure on your relationship to completely transform before a 30-day refund window passes. If you feel rushed to change, that will guarantee that you won’t change. Instead, you’ll have my guarantees of lifetime access and future upgrades to help you keep improving for life.
"The Passion Project has been much more than we expected. It has helped the overall communication in our relationship by working through the questions that go along with the content. These questions have brought up topics that we before would not be willing or able to talk about without getting angry or frustrated. We now realize how important they were to fixing the issues that we were experiencing. So much of the information helped us realize that our issues are normal and something that many other couples are experiencing or have experienced. We’re very happy that we signed up for the course!"
"The Passion Project helped each of us open up and share things about each other that we’ve never considered, and we’ve become a good bit closer too! We both have a deeper understanding for each other and conflicts have greatly diminished. Our sex drives are very different and The Passion Project has helped us understand why this is; it gave us the tools to work together on this aspect of our relationship. I mulled over signing up for the course for weeks before mentioning it to my fiancé. At the end of the day, it’s an investment for your relationship; one that will leave a welcome impression for years to come. And I for one, can say that is reason enough."
"The Passion Project gave us a better understanding of what our ‘drivers’ were, helped us understand the differences in our drives and identify some of the ways we could go about working around the things that put us ‘in reverse’. It even helped me put into words the things I was not able to explain to my fiancé previously about what had been making me uninterested in sex. For anyone willing to work on their relationship, whether it is be because things have gotten really bad, or whether it’s precautionary, I highly recommend giving The Passion Project a shot. You never know what you may find out about each other, or yourself."
"If you’re genuinely looking to break down the stumbling blocks to a better sex life with your partner, then this is the best place for you to be. The course was non-threatening and created a safe and comfortable way for us to talk about the lack of passion in our marriage. Vanessa made our issue sound normal – that we’re not the only couple suffering from a sexual disconnect. We discovered we both missed our intimate connection. Now, my husband and I make sexual contact a priority, and we are not embarrassed to discuss how we can continue to improve. The Passion Project was worth every bit of my investment of time and resources. "
"Michele and I had no sex life to speak of when she signed us up for The Passion Project. Michele said, ‘I’m worried about our sex life’ and I remember the sigh and my gut response being, ‘You picked a topic I’m already insecure about.’ My baggage about sex goes back, long before my current wife was in my life. But, it was important to her that I told her I wanted to try. Once I gave up the avoidance mechanism I had employed, The Passion Project did the rest. I learned to forgive myself. As we worked through each module we were forced to communicate with one another and clear the air in the best way possible. I can honestly say that I am not insecure to discuss sex with my wife any longer."
When you and your partner feel connected in the bedroom, your entire relationship feels different. You’re better partners to each other. You’re better parents, better friends, better sisters, brothers, sons, and daughters!
When you and your partner feel like a team, working together to rev up your sex drives, and create a sex life that felt passionate, intimate, and satisfying to both of you, your sex life becomes this incredibly special project that the two of you are working on together.
This kind of change is possible for every couple! And the bottom line is that life is too short and too precious to not give our all to our relationships.