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I got hundreds of responses from you, and I read every single one!
I want to share some of the most common themes that emerged from the responses.read more
It’s Xander again! I offered to write this week’s post because it’s about an issue that I’ve gone through myself.
As you know, Vanessa has been spending this month talking about blockages to having a healthy sex life. Today, I have a tough one for you (it sure was for me!)…
One of the blockages to you working on your sex life may be your partner. They may not want to work on it with you.read more
My grandma was shunned by her entire family for 10 years for getting a divorce from her abusive, alcoholic husband. Her family was Catholic, and divorce was considered a serious sin, regardless of the circumstances. There were sexual undertones to the...read more