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Xander Wrote This Post…

Xander Wrote This Post…

It’s Xander again! I offered to write this week’s post because it’s about an issue that I’ve gone through myself.

As you know, Vanessa has been spending this month talking about blockages to having a healthy sex life. Today, I have a tough one for you (it sure was for me!)…

One of the blockages to you working on your sex life may be your partner. They may not want to work on it with you.

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Hi! I'm Vanessa Marin.

I’m a sex therapist who helps people stop feeling embarrassed and start having more fun in the bedroom.

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