This month marks 12 years since Xander and I first met. So we thought it would be fun to wrap up the year (and the…
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“Hmm, sex sounds kinda fun right now. But I’m right in the middle of a chapter of my book. And Xander is playing some records…
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A few weeks back, I got this email: “That ‘grabbing the boobs’ thing you mentioned in your email? My partner tries to initiate with me…
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How do you decide whether to say “yes” or “no” to your partner when they initiate? If you’re like most people, when your partner makes…
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Tell me if this sounds sexy to you: “So, uh, I guess it’s been a while, huh?” Last week I talked about how no one…
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Do you struggle with initiating sex? Maybe you get shy and awkward, and end up tripping over your words. Maybe you’re too uncomfortable to initiate…
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Xander and I are back from our anniversary celebration trip, and we’re excited to share the final Reader Request video with you! (Missed the other…
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Greetings again from South Africa! Xander and I celebrated our eight year wedding anniversary on Tuesday, with a gondola ride up Table Mountain, lunch at…
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Greetings from South Africa! Xander and I are here celebrating our eight year wedding anniversary. (We’ve been together for almost twelve!) We take a trip…
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