My grandma was shunned by her entire family for 10 years for getting a divorce from her abusive, alcoholic husband. Her family was Catholic, and…Read More
I remember the first time I ever worried about the smell of my vulva.
I was in 6th grade, hanging out on the playground at recess with a group of boys and girls, awkwardly mingling the way 6th grade boys and girls do.Read More
I want 2019 to be the year that you create an exceptional sex life.
I want you to feel more confident in the bedroom. Like you can be yourself, fully and unapologetically.
I want you to feel connected to your body and all of the pleasure that it is capable of feeling.
I want you to know what you want in the bedroom, and how to ask for it.Read More
Most people set personal resolutions for the year, but very few people think about making relationship resolutions. But setting goals for your relationship can be so powerful. It helps you work together as a team to keep growing and improving your relationship.Read More
The sad reality is that so much of what we do for our partners, and what they do for us, goes unacknowledged.Read More
My husband Xander has the patience of a saint.
At any time of year, but especially at the holidays. Because I tend to get a little, well, let’s just say difficult, around the holidays!Read More
The holidays can be really rough, especially on your relationship.
Between all the traveling, eating and drinking, family dynamics, and money spending, it’s hard to find the time, energy, or the motivation to be a good partner.Read More
Last week I gave you an idea for talking about sex for the very first time with your partner.
This week, I want to give you an idea for your second conversation: talking to your partner about approaching your sex life as a team.Read More
I’m Xander – Vanessa’s husband.
I’ll be sharing four stories about communication struggles Vanessa has had with me, and how we’ve learned to deal with them as a couple.Read More