Before we get into this week’s regularly scheduled topic… Are you following us on social media? It’s been a wild week since the release of…Read More
I have some HUGE news to share… I was on the Rise Together podcast with Rachel and Dave Hollis this week! In case you haven’t…Read More
Today, we’re focusing on unrealistic expectations that we often have of men when it comes to sex.
I’ll be sharing my perspectives as a sex therapist, and Xander will be sharing his perspectives as a man. We thought this would be a fun way to round out the conversation!Read More
This month’s new topic is… male sexuality! I spent a lot of time last month thinking about the kind of world that I want to…Read More
I’ve been hinting at this since the beginning of the month, and the time has finally come to reveal the surprise. I’m in the middle…Read More
Thank you so much for all of your amazing questions last week! In case you missed it, I asked: If you and I could sit…Read More
It’s Xander again! I offered to write this week’s post because it’s about an issue that I’ve gone through myself.
As you know, Vanessa has been spending this month talking about blockages to having a healthy sex life. Today, I have a tough one for you (it sure was for me!)…
One of the blockages to you working on your sex life may be your partner. They may not want to work on it with you.Read More
My grandma was shunned by her entire family for 10 years for getting a divorce from her abusive, alcoholic husband. Her family was Catholic, and…Read More
I remember the first time I ever worried about the smell of my vulva.
I was in 6th grade, hanging out on the playground at recess with a group of boys and girls, awkwardly mingling the way 6th grade boys and girls do.Read More