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I’ve Never Talked About This Publicly Before! (New Video!)

I’ve been hinting at this since the beginning of the month, and the time has finally come to reveal the surprise. I’m in the middle…

You’re Not Alone. I’m Going To Prove It. (Your Top 5 Questions About The Big O)

Thank you so much for all of your amazing questions last week! In case you missed it, I asked: If you and I could sit…

Xander Wrote This Post…

It’s Xander again! I offered to write this week’s post because it’s about an issue that I’ve gone through myself.

As you know, Vanessa has been spending this month talking about blockages to having a healthy sex life. Today, I have a tough one for you (it sure was for me!)…

One of the blockages to you working on your sex life may be your partner. They may not want to work on it with you.

Religion And Intimacy – Yes, I’m Tackling This Huge Topic!

My grandma was shunned by her entire family for 10 years for getting a divorce from her abusive, alcoholic husband. Her family was Catholic, and…

How A Tuna Fish Sandwich Created One Of My Biggest Problems

I remember the first time I ever worried about the smell of my vulva.

I was in 6th grade, hanging out on the playground at recess with a group of boys and girls, awkwardly mingling the way 6th grade boys and girls do.

Well This Is Embarrassing…

I want 2019 to be the year that you create an exceptional sex life.

I want you to feel more confident in the bedroom. Like you can be yourself, fully and unapologetically.

I want you to feel connected to your body and all of the pleasure that it is capable of feeling.

I want you to know what you want in the bedroom, and how to ask for it.

Don’t Start 2019 Without Doing This For Your Relationship

Most people set personal resolutions for the year, but very few people think about making relationship resolutions. But setting goals for your relationship can be so powerful. It helps you work together as a team to keep growing and improving your relationship.

One Minute To A Happier Partner

The sad reality is that so much of what we do for our partners, and what they do for us, goes unacknowledged.

Being My Husband In December Takes A Lot Of Patience

My husband Xander has the patience of a saint.

At any time of year, but especially at the holidays. Because I tend to get a little, well, let’s just say difficult, around the holidays!