When I ask the couples I work with to tell me what gets in the way of them having a better sex life, they almost always say, “We’re just so busy.”
I call BS.
Because here’s the thing: When you use the excuse “I’m too busy”, what you’re really telling your partner is, “The other things I chose to do today were more important to me than spending quality time with you.” The truth is that you are not too busy for daily connection with your partner.Read More
“Oh no,” she responded, a shudder passing through her body, “I could NEVER do that.”
“Why?” I asked.
This was from a session that I had with a couple a few weeks ago. They had been together for several years, and they both felt like their sex life had gotten stale and boring.Read More
Want to know the single-most effective sex tip I’ve ever given my clients?
It sounds unbelievably simple, but it has the power to transform your sex life in ways you never even dreamed possible.Read More
Feeling bored with your partner in the bedroom really sucks. It makes you worry about your compatibility, especially long-term. Can you really spend years, decades having sex like this?
You have boring sex because you think you don’t have the energy for more exciting sex, but somehow the boring sex drains your energy even more!
So what’s the solution?
You know it already.Read More
That very word – cheesy – is one that I hear a lot as a sex therapist. My clients always complain about sex tips being cheesy. Sometimes they’ll balk at one of my suggestions in a session. “I just can’t do it”, they’ll say, “it sounds too cheesy!”
So I started thinking to myself, “what does cheesy actually mean when it comes to sex?”Read More
In case you missed my posts from the last couple of weeks, May is International Masturbation Month, and I’ve put together the Maysturbation Challenge for women to celebrate!
This is the last week of the challenge! I’ve put together a special exercise that you can use to take your solo time to the next level. I won’t give too much away, but it’s all about seeing masturbation as an expression of self-love.Read More
Why do you masturbate?
Most women (and men, for that matter) would answer, “to have an orgasm.”
Orgasms are awesome, don’t get me wrong! But when we think of masturbation as just a way to have an orgasm, we miss out on the potential to go so much deeper.
Masturbation isn’t just about orgasm. It isn’t even just about pleasure…Read More
May is International Masturbation Month! And I’ve put together the Maysturbation Challenge for women to celebrate!
Here’s how it works: each week, you’ll get an absolutely free masturbation-related challenge.
This week’s challenge is called the Self-Seduction Technique.Read More
Did you know that May is International Masturbation Month? Yep, there’s a whole month dedicated to self-pleasure! In honor of this important month, I’ve created something very special for the members of my email list… the Maysturbation Challenge! (Yes, that’s some extremely dorky word play for ya!)Read More