FREE Guide

How to Start Talking About Sex With Your Partner - Even If You Never Have Before

There’s just no way to have an exceptional sex life without talking about it! But most of us just don’t know how to get started. In this step-by-step guide, you’ll learn exactly how to have conversations that bring you and your partner closer together.

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!