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January 2017


COSMOPOLITAN / 7 Shower Sex Struggles And How To Fix Them For Good

BUSTLE / The 8 Best Sex Positions For Nipple Play (You’re Welcome)

BUSTLE / The Best Exercise Sex Positions For A Workout That Beats The Gym Anytime

BUSTLE / 8 Dominant Sex Positions For Women, Because Cowgirls Don’t Always Get The Blues

BUSTLE / How To Explore Your Sexuality & Give Feedback In Bed

BUSTLE / How To Try Squirting With Your Girlfriend (Without Being A Jerk)

BUSTLE / Do Lesbian Dreams & Fantasies Mean I Like Women? How To Decode What You Desire IRL

BUSTLE / Problematic Things Men Say To Women In Bed — And How To Respond


December 2016


GLAMOUR / 9 Tips For Feeling Confident & Less Self-Conscious In The Bedroom

TEEN VOGUE / 10 Things To Know About Sexual Assault, According To A Survivor

THE TELEGRAPH / How Your Relationship With Your Mother Can Impact Your Sex Life

COSMOPOLITAN / 8 Fingering Struggles And How To Solve Them

GLAMOUR / 6 Expert-Approved Masturbation Techniques To Spice Things Up…With Yourself

LIFEHACKER / How to Survive a Breakup During the Holidays

VICE / The Safest Way to Have Sex When You’re Fighting the Flu

COSMOPOLITAN / 10 Cunnilingus Problems and How to Fix Them

HUFFINGTON POST / 12 Ways To Have A Successful Threesome

MEN’S JOURNAL / How To Help Your Partner Orgasm If She Has a Small Clitoris

BUSTLE / How To Supercharge Your Sex Life In 2017, Because It’s Time To Be Open About Your Fantasies

BUSTLE / My Boyfriend Thinks He’s Too Small — What Should I Do? Tips For An Insecure Guy

BUSTLE / Obsessed With Your Partner’s Ex? Here’s How To Get A Handle On That

BUSTLE / 7 Fingering Sex Tips To Help Your Partner Rub You The Right Way

BUSTLE / Can You Prepare For Sex With Women When You’re New To It?

BUSTLE / Why Aren’t We Having Sex Now? How To Stop Fighting About Sexual Frequency


November 2016


REFINERY29 / Here’s Another Perk To Being Single: It Could Mean You Have More Orgasms

LIFEHACKER / How to Survive a Breakup During the Holidays

THRILLIST / I’m A Sex Therapist Who Still Used An App To Connect With My Husband

REDBOOK / 7 Things You Should Never Tell People About Your Relationship

COSMOPOLITAN / 15 Ways to Heal After Experiencing Sexual Assault, According to Professionals

LIFEHACKER / Why I Stopped Ghosting

COSMOPOLITAN / 10 Common Blow Job Problems and How to Fix Them

BUSTLE / Why Can’t I Orgasm? 5 Possible Reasons You’re Not Getting Off As Much As You’d Like

THE MIRROR / Sex Therapist Explains Why Some Women Like To Call Men ‘Daddy’ In The Bedroom

ELITE DAILY / Sex Therapist Explains Why Some Women Call Their Partners ‘Daddy’ In Bed

THE SUN / This Is The Real Reason Women Call Out ‘Daddy’ During Sex

DAILY STAR / Here’s Why Women Call Out ‘Daddy’ During Sex

UPROXX / We Finally Know Why Some Women Call Men ‘Daddy’ During Sex

MAXIM / Here’s Why Women Call Men “Daddy” In Bed


October 2016


COSMOPOLITAN / 7 Forgotten Places Where Your Partner Should Be Touching You

REDBOOK / Here’s Exactly How to Have An Orgasm

COSMOPOLITAN / 6 Things Not to Do When Your Partner Cheats

REDBOOK / 15 Easy Ways to Have Hotter Sex — Tonight

COSMOPOLITAN / 8 Sex Hacks For When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes

REDBOOK / Sex Therapists Share Their Best Tips So You Can Have Better Sex — Every Time

MEN’S FITNESS / Non-Standard Ways To Last Longer During Sex

BUSTLE / What To Say In Bed When You Want To Communicate But Don’t Know Where To Start

COSMOPOLITAN / I Haven’t Had Sex in Weeks. I Blame Donald Trump

BUSTLE / 7 Misconceptions About Lesbian Relationships

BUSTLE / 9 Ways To Get More Out Of Cowgirl, The Sex Position That Puts You In Charge


September 2016


THRILLIST / What I’ve Learned From 15 Years Of Teaching Women How To Orgasm

COSMOPOLITAN / What Is Your Vibrator Really Doing to Your Body?

MENS FITNESS / How To Help A Woman Have Her First Orgasm

BUSTLE / Why Don’t We Kiss & Make Out Anymore? 9 Ways To Bring More Smooching To Your Relationship

COSMOPOLITAN / 6 Ways to Tell if Your Summer Fling Should Survive the Fall

BUSTLE / The 8 Best Sex Positions For When You’re Tired, Lazy, Or Just Plain Tipsy

BUSTLE / 13 Sexy Domination & Submission Games To Play

BUSTLE / 10 Sexy Power Play Game Ideas To Try Tonight

BUSTLE / 8 Tips For Talking To Your Partner About Your Crazy Family

BUSTLE / Is Slipping Out During Sex Normal? 10 Tips For Slippage

BUSTLE / How To Explore Cuckolding & Humiliation Fetishes


August 2016


GLAMOUR / “What I Learned From Taking a Class About Orgasms”

COSMOPOLITAN / 12 Things You Need to Know if You Can’t Orgasm

REFINERY29 / Orgasm Tips To Add To Your Sex Life Now

GLAMOUR / What Your Clitoris Is Trying To Tell You

THE HUFFINGTON POST / 9 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Partner

GLAMOUR / What To Do When The Relationship Is Great But The Sex Isn’t

COSMOPOLITAN / Happy Hour Podcast – I’ve Never Had An Orgasm

GLAMOUR / Here’s The 411 On Female Ejaculation

BUSTLE / Is Slipping Out During Sex Normal? 10 Tips For Slippage

BUSTLE / Should I Remove Pubic Hair For My Partner? 7 Ways To Negotiate One Hairy Question

OZY / 50 Shade Of Color: Check Out The Newest Festival Toy

BUSTLE / 6 Tips For Sex In Water, Because Safety Can Be Slippery

BUSTLE / 10 Camping Sex Tips, Because There’s More Than One Way To Enjoy Roughing It

NOTHING OFF LIMITS / Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin Dishes On The Female Orgasm

BUSTLE / 8 Best Sex Positions For Domination, Because With Great Submission Comes Great Responsibility

BUSTLE / 8 Sex Tips For Smaller Penises, Because It’s All About How You Both Use It

THE HUFFINGTON POST /Anal Sex Tips: 12 Ways Beginners Can Find Ultimate Pleasure

BUSTLE / Is My Partner Too Controlling? 13 Questions To Ask Yourself To Help Figure It Out

BUSTLE / 13 Ways To Make Sex About More Than Just Penetration

BUSTLE / 7 Sex Positions That Will Become Your Faves

BUSTLE / The Best Vibrator For Sex & 7 Orgasmic Positions To Use It In


July 2016


GLAMOUR / How to Stimulate Your G-Spot From the Outside

LELO / Mutual Masturbation: Another Tool for Your Sex Toy Toolbox

VOCATIV / What Porn On Phones Means For The World of Adult Video

THE TIMES OF LONDON / Would A Baby Bring Our Old Spark Back?

THE TIMES OF LONDON / How To Break The Ice With Your Partner’s Family

THE TIMES OF LONDON /My Boyfriend Has Sown The Seeds Of Doubt

THE TIMES OF LONDON / I’m Asexual. Am I Doomed To A Lonely Life?

BUSTLE / 7 Tips For Redefining Your Orgasm (And What That Means In The First Place)

BUSTLE / How To Slow Sex Down & Bring Sensuality Back To A Longterm Relationship

BUSTLE / 7 Sex “Fears” You Never Realized Were Common

MEN’S FITNESS / How To Have Sex

BUSTLE / 7 Tips For Talking To Your Partner About Their Appearance

BUSTLE / 9 Tips For Children Of Divorce In Relationships With People Who Aren’t

BUSTLE / 9 Sex Tips For Big Penises, Because Well-Endowed Fun Should Also Be Well-Educated

BUSTLE / 10 Reasons For Crying During Sex — And What It Might Mean

BUSTLE / How To Negotiate Porn Boundaries In A Relationship

BUSTLE / 7 Signs That You & Your Partner Are Ready For A Threesome

BUSTLE / 10 Rules For Initiating Sex Without Coercion


June 2016


GLAMOUR / How Many People Have Wedding Night Sex, Really?

REFINERY29 / What You Should Know About Dating Someone With A Mental Health Problem

THE HUFFINGTON POST / 12 Tips To Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Happy

LIFEHACKER / How To Flirt With Finesse

THE TIMES OF LONDON / Help! I Don’t Get Any Pleasure From Sex

THE TIMES OF LONDON / I Love My Boyfriend — But Fancy Other Men

THE TIMES OF LONDON / My Boyfriend Doesn’t Like My Friends

THE TIMES OF LONDON / My Boyfriend Won’t Move For Me

BUSTLE / Am I Repressing Memories Of Sexual Abuse? 7 Things To Know Before You Freak Out

BUSTLE / How To Talk About Your Relationship’s Future

BUSTLE / The 10 Most Common Things Couples Fight About, According To A Sex Therapist

BUSTLE / Why Can’t I Come For My Boyfriend? What To Do If Your Partner Is Guilt-Tripping You About Your Orgasm

BUSTLE / How Do I Lose My Virginity? 7 Tips For Overcoming Fear Around Sex, When You’re Ready

BUSTLE / Should I Try Casual Sex If I’d Rather Have A Longterm Relationship?

BUSTLE / Am I Selfish In My Relationship? 5 Ways To Make Sure You’re Loving Fairly


May 2016


GLAMOUR / What To Do When You Can Orgasm Alone (But Not With A Partner)

ALLURE / 4 Ways to Feel More Comfortable Being Naked

NEW YORK MAGAZINE / Does She Have To Orgasm Every Time?

REFINERY29 / What Nobody Tells You About Sexless Marriage

THE TIMES OF LONDON / I Cheated. And Now I’m Sick With Guilt

THE TIMES OF LONDON / I Caught My Boyfriend Sexting Someone Else

THE TIMES OF LONDON / I’ve Had Enough Of Her Bouncing Bedsprings

THE HUFFINGTON POST / 10 Ways To Put The Sex Back In Your Sex Life

VICE / Why Women Like to Call Men ‘Daddy’ During Sex

REFINERY29 / 7 Signs It Might Be Time To See A Sex Therapist

OZY / High-Tech Orgasm Training For The Masses

MEN’S JOURNAL / How To Have Great Sex In Water

REFINERY29 / 7 Positions For Hot Pregnancy Sex

BUSTLE / 11 Tips For Fighting Fairly & Productively In A Relationship

BUSTLE / How To Know If Marriage Is For You

MEN’S FITNESS / 10 Sex Positions She Wants You To Stop

BUSTLE / What If I Can’t Fall In Love? 9 Questions To Ask Yourself If You’re Worried

BUSTLE / 6 Ways To Confront A Fear Of Commitment

BUSTLE / Should I Have Kids? 7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Make Any Decisions

BUSTLE / 12 Signs You Need Couples Counseling

BUSTLE / What To Do If Your Boyfriend Wants To Experiment With Men

BUSTLE / 8 Signs Someone Is Toxic In Bed

BUSTLE / 7 Tips For Losing Your Virginity To A Woman When You’ve Only Slept With Men

BUSTLE / Do Women Have More Complicated Libidos? 8 Things To Know About Your Sex Drive


April 2016


CNN / How Much Sex Should You Be Having?

REAL SIMPLE / How to Bring the Passion Back Into Your Sex Life


HUFFINGTON POST / How To Orgasm Alone Or With A Partner

LIFEHACKER / The Worst First Date Mistakes and How to Bounce Back

REFINERY29 / 10 Sexts To Send To Your Partner Now

THE TIMES OF LONDON / My Sugar Daddy Is Pressuring Me For Sex

THE TIMES OF LONDON / My Child Is Sending Sexy Photos To A Boy

THE TIMES OF LONDON / Why Is Baby-Making Such A Passion Killer?

BUSTLE / Should I Move With My Boyfriend? 12 Questions To Ask Before Relocating With A Partner

VICE / Why Cum Leaks from Your Vagina After Sex

MEN’S FITNESS / 15 Sex Positions To Try In The Gym

BUSTLE / A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Toys

ASKMEN / The Best Sex Positions

BUSTLE /11 Ways To Stay Sexually Connected When You’re In A Longterm Relationship

MEN’S FITNESS / 10 Best Sex Positions for Shy Guys

BUSTLE / Is “Lesbian Bed Death” Real Or A Myth?

MEN’S FITNESS / The Best Raunchy Sex Positions

BUSTLE / How To Explore Non-Monogamy In Your Relationship

BUSTLE / 9 Underrated Relationship Qualities You Shouldn’t Overlook

MEN’S FITNESS / The Best Romantic Sex Positions

BUSTLE / How To Introduce Your Same-Sex Partner To Conservative Parents

BTR TODAY / Epidemic Week: The Crusade Against Porn

BUSTLE / Why Women Who Are Cheated On Are Better Off In The Long Run

MEN’S FITNESS / The Best Sex Positions For Well-Endowed Guys


March 2016


REFINERY 29 / How Lamenting The “Orgasm Gap” Is Missing The Point

GLAMOUR / Does Waiting to Have Sex Make for Happier Couples?

REFINERY29 / Reminder: Your Vagina Is Not A Ziploc Bag

ADEQUATE MAN / Her Orgasm Is Not About You

THE TIMES OF LONDON /My Girlfriend Is Letting Our Cat Ruin Our Sex Life

THE TIMES OF LONDON / My Wife Says She’s Too Exhausted To Have Sex

THE TIMES OF LONDON / Why Is My Girlfriend So Lazy In Bed?

THE TIMES OF LONDON /Are You Ready For Monogamy?

BUSTLE / 11 Blowjob Tips For Sensitive Gag Reflexes & Small Mouths

BUSTLE / 6 Quiet & Hot Sex Positions For Stealth Sex

MEN’S FITNESS / 15 Sex Positions She Wants You To Do That’ll Get Her Off Every Time

BUSTLE / Playing With A Guy’s Balls, In 11 (Gentle!) Dos & Don’ts

BUSTLE / How To Stop Imitating Porn & Performing During Sex

MEN’S FITNESS / 9 Sex Positions You Should Never Try

BUSTLE / 18 Moves To Seduce Your Partner When They Least Expect It

BUSTLE / 11 Signs You’re Selfish In Bed — Because It Isn’t Just A Guy Thing

HEALTH / 19 Reasons You Don’t Want to Have Sex Anymore

BUSTLE / Only Orgasming With Strong Vibrators? 8 Steps To Regaining Sensitivity

ASKMEN/ Steps To Prepare For Anal Sex

BUSTLE / How To Touch A Guy’s Taint & Bum When He’s Nervous About The Idea

MEN’S FITNESS / 10 Moves You Haven’t Tried in Bed Yet—But Should

BUSTLE / How To Have Group Sex 101

BUSTLE / Attending Your First Sex Party? 12 Tips To Keep In Mind

SCIENCE, SEX, AND THE LADIES / Top-Notch Hand Lady-bation Instruction By Vanessa Marin


February 2016


REAL SIMPLE /5 Ways To Get Out Of A Sex Rut, According To Experts

REFINERY29 / Step AWAY From The Vibrator… Maybe

THE TIMES OF LONDON / I Don’t Fancy My Husband Anymore

THE TIMES OF LONDON / Is It OK To Fantasise During Sex?

THE TIMES OF LONDON /Is Maintenance Sex Ever OK?

THE HUFFINGTON POST / This Is Your Orgasm On Antidepressants

THE HUFFINGTON POST / The Exhausting Reality Of Dating With An STI

PREVENTION MAGAZINE / “I’m Taking A Class On How To Have An Orgasm”

DEADSPIN / Should You Always Tell Your Partner If You Cheated?

LIFEHACKER / The Red Flags to Look Out for When You Start Dating Someone

BUSTLE / 6 Tips For Healthy Pregnancy Sex When Your Partner Is Afraid Of Hurting The Baby

PRESS GAZETTE / The Redesigned Sunday Times Magazine

MEN’S FITNESS / Masturbation: You’re Doing It Wrong

BUSTLE / How To Make Lube Application Feel Sexy Instead Of Awkward

MEN’S FITNESS / 16 Sex Positions To Try In 2016

BUSTLE / Why Can’t I Commit? 5 Causes Of Commitment Phobia — And How To Know Whether It’s Legit

PACIFIC STANDARD / How Do You Make a Living, Video Therapist?

BUSTLE / Why “Half” Or Disappearing Orgasms Happen — And What You Can Do About Them

MEN’S JOURNAL / So You Want to Experiment Sexually…

BUSTLE / How To Touch A Clit (Specifically, Your Own)

BUSTLE / Why Can’t I Get Wet During Sex? 5 Reasons Your Lube Might Be Lacking

PARENT HERALD / Sex After Pregnancy Better For New Moms

BUSTLE / 8 Ways To Use Foreplay To Feel Like A Horny Teenager Again

MEN’S FITNESS / 6 Ways To Discover Her Favorite Sex Positions

BUSTLE / How To Have A Threesome When You’re Afraid You’ll Freak Out In The Middle


January 2016


REFINERY29 / Our 30-Day Masturbation Challenge Is About To Change Your Sex Life

MAXIM / Website Urges Women To Masturbate Every Day For A Month

VICE / Dealing With A 40-Year Age Gap: What It’s Like To Date Across The Generations

STYLECASTER / 9 Foolproof Ways To Increase Your Sex Drive

GREATIST / Can You Have A Threesome And Still Have A Healthy Relationship?

THE DAILY DOT / The Blewit!, A New Sex Toy For Men, Promotes ‘Mindful Masturbation’

PARENTS / Sex After Baby: 7 Ways to Make It Better

LIFEHACKER / Kegel Exercises: A Simple Technique for Improving Your Orgasms

BUSTLE / The 7 Biggest Lessons I’ve Learned As A Sex Therapist

BUSTLE / 5 Tips For Pleasing Uncircumcised Penises (And The People Attached To Them)

LIFEHACKER / The Dos And Don’ts Of Texting Someone You Want To Date

BUSTLE / How Much Sex Is Healthy? How To Figure Out What’s Right For You & Your Relationship

LIFEHACKER / How to Take Your Butt Play to the Next Level with Prostate Massage

BUSTLE / Can’t Come With A Partner? 7 Steps To Deal

LIFEHACKER / The Straight Guy’s Guide To Anal Play

BUSTLE / 6 Best MMF Threesome Sex Positions, Because Two Men Are Better Than One

BUSTLE / How To Make Sex Feel Like The First Time — Or At Least, New Again

LIFEHACKER / Physical Therapy for Your Genitals: How to Train for Better Sex and Better Health

BUSTLE / How To Talk About Orgasm With Your Partner & Deal With 7 Possible Reactions

LIFEHACKER / How to Have Anal Sex for the First Time

BUSTLE / Experimenting With Non-Monogamy In Relationships, For Beginners


December 2015


MARIE CLAIRE / The 6 Online Therapy Courses You Need To Know About

ADEQUATE MAN / How To Find Ethical Porn

BUSTLE / How To Enjoy Receiving Oral When You’re Used To A Vibrator

MIC / What Is It Like to Date Someone Who Physically Can’t Have Sex?

TORONTO SUN / The One-Year Itch: 4 Ways To Keep The Love Alive

BUSTLE / Why Does Sex Feel Weird Sometimes? 6 Ways To Think About Your Body’s Varying Preferences

EVERYDAY FEMINISM / 12 Reasons Why There’s Orgasm Inequity (And No, It’s Not That Women Are ‘Harder to Please’)

LIFEHACKER / The Beginner’s Guide To Butt Play

BUSTLE / 13 Reasons Masturbation Is A Feminist Act

LIFEHACKER / The Beginner’s Guide To Putting Toys Up Your Butt

MIC / This Is What It’s Liked To Be Shamed For Having Vaginismus

BUSTLE / When Acting Out Sexual Fantasies Ends Up Awkward IRL, What Should You Do?

LIFEHACKER / How To Visit Family Without Being Treated Like A Kid

BUSTLE / 50 Example Sexting Ideas You Can Use Right Now

THE SOUTH AFRICAN / 10 Mysteries Of The Female Orgasm Debunked

BUSTLE / When Acting Out Sexual Fantasies Ends Up Awkward IRL, What Should You Do?

REFINERY29 / Introducing “Settl,” The Dating App For Women Who Just Want To Get Married

BUSTLE / 9 Signs Your Relationship With Sex Might Be Unhealthy

ASKMEN / How To Have A Quickie At Work

BUSTLE / 7 Best FFM Threesome Sex Positions, Because 3 Is A Hot Crowd

LIFEHACKER / Give the Gift of Great Sex with These Toys

BUSTLE / 6 Tips For Bringing Someone Home For The Holidays


November 2015


ELLE / This New Orgasm Technique Is Driving The Internet Wild

HUFFINGTON POST / Sex Headache: Dealing With Head Pain Before, During Or After Sex

BUSTLE / The ONE Thing You Should Do To Make Masturbation Better

BUSTLE / 8 Signs You Need Sex Therapy (Or Could At Least Benefit From It)

LIFEHACKER / How To Stop Getting So Damn Distracted During Sex

BUSTLE / Do We Need Sex Therapy? 11 Signs Your Relationship Could Benefit

BUSTLE / Boyfriend Scared Of Period Sex? Here Are 9 Ways To Help Him GTF Over It

LIFEHACKER / Do This Tonight, Same-Sex Couples: Play “The Comparison Game” For Better Sex

BUSTLE / 8 Ways To Be Submissive In Bed When You’re Just Starting To Experiment With Being Dominated

LIFEHACKER / What To Do If You Cheated On Your Partner, But Want To Stay Together

BUSTLE / 7 Things You Should Never Do In Bed Unless They Ask

BUSTLE / 13 Tips For Breaking Up With Someone Compassionately 

CHEATSHEET / Sex Fasts: Is This New Trend Right for You?

BUSTLE / 7 Masturbation Mistakes You’re Making

BUSTLE / Girlfriend Afraid Of Period Sex? Here Are 7 Ways To Help Her Experience Its Joys

BUSTLE / 11 Tips For Masturbating When You Live With Roommates

BUSTLE / How To Be A Good Sexual Partner To Someone Who’s Been Abused

BUSTLE / 6 Ways To Apply Yoga Principles To Your Sex Life, Because Some Postures Are Meant For The Bedroom

BUSTLE / 6 Things You Should Never Say Or Do When You’re Naked


October 2015


REFINERY29 / Should You Go On A “Sex Fast”? A Therapist Weighs In

THRILLIST /  So You’re In A Relationship And Thinking About Cheating…

BUSTLE I WANT IT THAT WAY PODCAST / Episode 12: Worst Sex Stories And How To Fix Bad Sex

BUSTLE / 11 Ways To Make Sex More Fun, Intense, And Intimate

LIFEHACKER / This Tiny Vibrator Gives Your Clit Hands-Free Lovin’ During Sex

INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS TIMES / Terry Crews Says 90-Day Sex Abstinence Fixed His Marriage

BUSTLE / How To Fix Bad Sex With Your Partner

BUSTLE / What Do Cheating Fantasies Mean? 6 Reasons You Might Be Thinking About Straying

LIFEHACKER / How To Stay Sane When Both You And Your Significant Other Work From Home

BUSTLE / 6 Tips For Girl On Top, AKA The Sex Position For Grown-Ass Women

BUSTLE / Sex Positions For The Female Orgasm

LIFEHACKER / All The Ways Birth Control Pills Can Affect Your Sex Life, For Better Or Worse

BUSTLE / 8 Sex Tips For Men Who Actually Want To Please A Woman

BUSTLE / The 6 Best G-Spot Sex Positions

LIFEHACKER / What To Do When You Find Out You’ve Been Cheated On

BUSTLE / Sexual Abuse & Rape Triggers Are Real, So Here Are 5 Ways To Deal In The Moment

LIFEHACKER / Why I Don’t Recommend Buying Sex Toys On Amazon

BUSTLE / 6 Sex Positions For Clitoral Stimulation, Because You Gotta Rub It The Right Way

BUSTLE / Can’t Orgasm During Sex? What To Do If You Can Only Come From Masturbation

BUSTLE / Enjoying Sex After Abuse Is Possible, So Here Are 5 Ways To Start Healing

BUSTLE / Why Doesn’t My Boyfriend Want Me? 7 Steps To Take When Your Partner’s Sex Drive Disappears


September 2015


HUFFINGTON POST /Sex Shops In Canada: 12 Reasons To Check Them Out This Fall

VICE / Get Ready For The Quantified Sex Competition

REFINERY29 / Should Your Summer Fling Last?

BOING BOING / Lifehacker Reviews The Womanizer – It Will “Give You One Of The Best Orgasms Of Your Life”

BUSTLE / 5 Best Sex Positions For Experts

LIFEHACKER / How to Prevent Masturbation from Ruining Your Relationship

BUSTLE / What’s Sex Therapy Really Like? 7 Things To Know Before You Book An Appointment

LIFEHACKER / The Tenga Flip Hole Will Change Your Mind About Male Masturbators 

BUSTLE / When Should I Have Sex? 7 Dos & Don’ts For Honoring Your Own Desire

LIFEHACKER / This Ridiculous Toy Will Give You One of the Best Orgasms of Your Life

BUSTLE / Is Having Rough Sex OK? 7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Have Some Fun

BUSTLE / Sex Positions For Small Penises

LIFEHACKER / Bring Back Dry Humping

BUSTLE / Am I Lesbian Or Bi If I Have Fantasies About Women? 7 Ways To Better Understand Your Desire

LIFEHACKER / How To Make A Sex Tape That Doesn’t Suck

BUSTLE / 4 Ways To Orgasm No Matter What Size He Is

LIFEHACKER / How To Tell A Potential Partner You Have An STI


August 2015


REFINERY29 / Should You Have A Threesome? An Infograph

LIFEHACKER / The Shy Person’s Guide To Sharing Your Sexual Fantasies 

BUSTLE / How Much Foreplay Is Normal? 6 Things To Remember About Your Right To Warm Up

LIFEHACKER / How To Ask Your Partner For Sex So They’ll Enthusiastically Say Yes

GQ / Les Mots Pour Le Dire : Parler Avant, Pendant, Apres L’Amour

ASKMEN / Tongue Tricks: 10 Things Every Guy Should Know How To Do With His Tongue

BUSTLE / 6 Sex Positions For Smaller Penises & More Sensation In General, Because It Really Is All About How You Use It

LIFEHACKER / Bacterial Vaginosis: A Very Common Infection You Should Know About

BUSTLE / Wedding Night Sex Doesn’t Have To Be Perfect, So Here Are 6 Ways To Deal With The Pressure

LIFEHACKER / How to Make Your Sexual Fantasies A Reality

BUSTLE / How To Touch A Woman & Finger Her Vagina, In 8 Beginner Steps

LIFEHACKER / How to Take Care of Your Foreskin: A Guide for Uncircumcised Men

BUSTLE / Pain During Sex & BDSM Can Be A Lot Of Fun — So Here Are 8 Sensation Play Ideas To Get You Started

LIFEHACKER / The Advanced Guide to Getting Rid of Your Pubic Hair

BUSTLE / Nipple Play Orgasms Are Possible, So Here’s How To Take Your Nip Game To The Next Level

LIFEHACKER / Orgasms Aren’t Everything: How to Be Good When Someone Doesn’t Get Off

BUSTLE / How To Kiss Someone Well, In 8 Tongue-Tying Steps

LIFEHACKER / The Sportsheets Restraint System Will Fulfill All Your Bondage Dreams

BUSTLE / 7 Sex Acts For A Better Orgasm, Because It’s Time To Take It To The Next Level

LIFEHACKER / What To Do When You Think A Friend Is Being Cheated On

BUSTLE / 5 Reasons Sex After Moving In Together Can Slow Down & What You Can Do About It

LIFEHACKER / How to Have a Super Intense Squirting Orgasm

BUSTLE / How To Move During Sex, Because Intercourse Should Feel Fun & Free

HER WORLD / How To Tell If You Are “Addicted To Love”

HER WORLD / Top 9 Signs He Wants To Be In A Relationship With You

HER WORLD / How To Change Your Man And 8 Tips On What To Say To Him


July 2015


THE NEW YORK TIMES / Why Did Bill Cosby Want To Have Sex With Comatose Women?

BUSTLE / Help! He Comes Too Quickly When We’re Having Sex — What Should I Do?

LIFEHACKER / Why The IUD Could Be Your Perfect Birth Control Method

BUSTLE / The Sex Is Bad But I Love Him — What Should I Do? 6 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Make A Decision

LIFEHACKER / How Masturbation Can Help You Orgasm With A Partner

BUSTLE / How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time — A 6 Step Guide

LIFEHACKER / How To Craft The Perfect Sex Playlist (Plus Some Song Recommendations)

BUSTLE / What Does An Orgasm Feel Like For A Woman? 6 Things To Know About Coming

LIFEHACKER / Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs

BUSTLE / Having Sex At Home Without Your Parents Knowing, In 6 Privacy-Boosting Steps

MEN’S JOURNAL / The Best Lubricants for All-Natural Sex

BUSTLE / 8 Ways To Seduce Your Man Or Woman When You’re In A Longterm Relationship

LIFEHACKER / How To Have Sex On The Beach

BUSTLE / 8 Ways To Seduce Your Man Or Woman When You’re In A Longterm Relationship

BUSTLE / How To Make Him Come Faster, Because Sometimes You Just Need To Switch Positions Or Grab His Butt

BUSTLE / The 6 Best G-Spot Sex Positions For Hitting It So You Won’t Want To Quit It

LIFEHACKER / A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator

BUSTLE / Are We Sexually Compatible? 6 Signs You’ll Have Good Long-Term Chemistry With Someone

BUSTLE / What’s A Hooded Clitoris And How Do You Know You Have One? 4 Questions About ‘Embedded’ Clits, Answered

ASKMEN / Rules For A Successful One Night Stand (For You And Her)

LIFEHACKER / Do This Tonight: Play This Game To Be More Present During Sex

BUSTLE / 7 Signs You & Your Bae Should Take A Break, Because Humans Need Space Sometimes


June 2015


HUFFINGTON POST / Life Stressing You Out? Work Off That Energy In The Bedroom

BUZZFEED / 7 Things Sexually Active Women Should Know How To Say Out Loud

HUFFINGTON POST / 10 Tips For First-Time Sex

REFINERY 29 / This Is How Much Porn Women Your Age Really Watch

SHAPE / 5 Cool Ideas For Sensationally Hot Sex

LIFEHACKER / How to Become a Cunnilingus Master

BUZZFEED / 7 Ways To Instantly Up Your Sex Game

LIFEHACKER / A Woman’s Guide to Learning to Love Masturbation

BUSTLE / How To Stop Being Jealous In A New Relationship After You’ve Been Cheated On

HUFFINGTON POST / Sex Tips For Your Zodiac Sign

BUSTLE / Are We Sexually Compatible? 6 Signs You’ll Have Good Long-Term Chemistry With Someone

LIFEHACKER / No, Sex Shouldn’t Hurt: What to Do if You’re Experiencing Sexual Pain

ASKMEN / Life Stressing You Out? Work Off That Energy In The Bedroom

BUSTLE / 8 Ways To Get Turned On And Be More In The Moment During Sex — Without Forcing Anything

LIFEHACKER / Holding Your Own: How to Alter Your Masturbation Routine for Better Sex

BUSTLE / How To Ask To Dominate Someone, In 5 Empowering And Consenting Steps

LIFEHACKER / The World’s First Vibrator for Guys Isn’t just a Marketing Gimmick

BUSTLE / Having Stronger Female Orgasms, In 9 Toe-Curling Steps

LIFEHACKER / How To Have A Sex Life When You’re Dealing With Injuries And Illnesses

BUSTLE / Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety About Orgasming, In 6 Steps

LIFEHACKER / How Do You Get Feedback From Your Partners?

ASKMEN / Signs She’s Faking Her Orgasms

LIFEHACKER / The Adult’s Guide to Losing Your Virginity

SHEKNOWS / 7 Lousy Reasons Women Aren’t Achieving Orgasm


May 2015

HUFFINGTON POST / How To Orgasm Without Stress

BUZZFEED / 7 Ways To Instantly Up Your Sex Game

BUSTLE / What Are Open Relationship Rules Like? Negotiating Non-Monogamous Boundaries, In 8 Steps

BUZZFEED / Our Secret Sex Questions Get Answered By Someone Who Actually Knows

LIFEHACKER / How To Become Comfortable Talking About Sex When You Never Have Before

THE INDEPENDENT UK / A Sex Therapist Did An AMA. Here’s What She Had To Say

BUSTLE / How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps

LIFEHACKER / How To Prevent Your Cell Phone From Ruining Your Relationship

ASKMEN / Anal Sex Dos & Don’ts

BUSTLE / Is Watching Porn Bad For Relationships? What To Do If Your Partner Has A Serious Habit

LIFEHACKER /How To Find The Perfect Lube For Any Kind of Sex

BUSTLE / 6 Ways To Make Sex More Interesting When You’re In A Longterm Relationship

LIFEHACKER / Do This Tonight: The Flipped Missionary (Or “Butts Up”)

BUSTLE / Buying Your First Vibrator, In 7 Easy Steps — Because Your Know That Purchase Is Not Refundable

SHEKNOWS / The Reason We Love Dirty Talk — Finally Explained

LIFEHACKER / What Are The Worst Porn Moves To Try In Real Life?

VULTURE / 6 Sexperts on Grey Worm and Missandei’s Future As a Couple

VOCATIV / Sex And The Valley: Tech Guys Seek Expert Love Advice From Therapists

LIFEHACKER / A Lady’s Guide to Getting to Know Your Genitals

MEN’S JOURNAL / Sex Positions For Athletes

KIIS 106.5 / These Five Sex Positions Will Ensure Female Orgasm


April 2015

BUSTLE / The 10 Best Hand Job Tips To Remember Next Time You Want To Take Him For A Ride

LIFEHACKER / How To Have A Healthy Relationship With Porn

CURVY GIRL HEALTH / Bringing Sexy Back with Vanessa Marin, Sex Therapist

LIFEHACKER / Why Your Partner Ignores Your Sexual Requests

BUSTLE / What Are My Sexual Fantasies, Anyway? How To Figure Out What Turns You On

LIFEHACKER / The Simplest Way To Orgasm If Penetration Isn’t Enough For You

BUSTLE / How To Have Sex Honestly, In 7 Authentic Steps

LIFEHACKER / What To Do If You Feel Too Bloated For Sex, But You’re Still Horny

BUSTLE / Is Having A Crush Cheating? 7 Questions To Ask Yourself When You Have Feelings For Someone Else

REDBOOK / Sex Mistakes Men Make

LIFEHACKER / What Do You Think Are The Most Underrated Sex Acts? 

BUSTLE / Guys Not Giving Oral Sex But Expecting It In Return? 7 Ways To Deal When Men Avoid Cunnilingus

LIFEHACKER / Sex Toy Review: The Njoy Pure Wand Delivers Amazing G-Spot Orgasms

BUSTLE / The 7 Best Sex Positions For Well-Endowed Men, Because Bigger Certainly Isn’t Easier

LIFEHACKER / Do This Tonight: Finger Her, And Only Finger Her

ASKMEN / Using Sex To Fight Stress

LIFEHACKER / The Crave Flex Series: The Perfect Sex Toys For The Data-Driven Lady

LIFEHACKER / Fun Facts About the Female Orgasm, Explained with Science Projects


March 2015


HUFFINGTON POST / ‘It’s A Basic Human Need’: Indian Women Talk Openly About Masturbation

BUSTLE / Why Can’t Guys Come Sometimes? 7 Reasons For Delayed Orgasm In Men — And How To Talk About It

SALON / Are Smartphones Really Ruining Our Sex Lives?

GIZMODO / Why The Minna Life Limon Is The Best Sex Toy Around

BUSTLE / “6 Inventions That Changed The Way You Have Sex” BuzzFeed Video Proves We’ve Gotten Crafty About Our Sexy Time

BUSTLE / Am I Asexual? 7 Facts You Should Know About This Commonly Misunderstood Orientation

LIFEHACKER / Sex Toy Review: The Minna Life Limon Is My Favorite Vibrator Ever

BUSTLE / How Do I Relax During Oral Sex? 7 Ways Women Can Learn How To Receive Pleasure

LIFEHACKER / How to Confidently Buy Lingerie Your Girlfriend Will Want To Wear

BUZZFEED / How Do Women Orgasm?

LIFEHACKER / How to Identify Your Partner’s “Libido Type” and Get Better In Bed

BUSTLE / BuzzFeed’s “How Do Women Orgasm?” Video Demystifies The Female Orgasm

LIFEHACKER / How to Have Shower Sex Without Hurting Yourself

HUFFINGTON POST / Sex For Pregnancy: 11 Tips For Baby Making

LIFEHACKER / What Do You Think Are The Most Overrated Sex Acts?

BUSTLE / 6 Ways To Deal With A Sexless Relationship, Even Though It’s Not Your Fault

LIFEHACKER / How To Keep Your Sex Drive Up After A Long Day At Work

BUSTLE / Can You Have Casual Sex Without Feelings? 9 Ways To Keep It No-Strings When You Tend To Get Attached

LIFEHACKER / How To Prevent Your Pet From Ruining Your Sex Life

MEN’S JOURNAL / How To Prioritize Sex In Your Relationship

YAHOO/ How To Prioritize Sex In Your Relationship

LIFEHACKER / Welcome Back to Lifehacker: After Hours. Let’s Get Sexy

BUSTLE / 7 Dos And Don’ts Of Communicating During Sex, Because We’re All Vulnerable In Bed

LIVE YOUR VIE / The 7 Sex Questions Every Couple Has To Answer


February 2015


BUSTLE / How To Have Sex Like ‘Fifty Shades’ Ana & Christian, In 7 Simple Steps

REFINERY29 / Expert Life Hacks You Need But Haven’t Heard

SHE KNOWS / The Real-Life Answer To How Often Couples Should Have Sex

BUSTLE / 8 Reasons Talking Dirty In Bed Is Good For Your Relationship

REDBOOK / The Lazy (And Tired) Woman’s Guide To Sex

ASK MEN / Make-Up Sex: If You Need To Apologize For Something, Here’s How To Do It Right (In Bed)

BUSTLE / The 5 Best Sex Positions For Beginners (Or Anyone Who Can Appreciate Getting Back To Basics)

FIT PREGNANCY / 11 Ways to Feel Sexy in Your Post-Baby Body

BUSTLE / 11 Adventurous Sexy Things Anyone Should Try On Valentine’s Day, Because Spicing Things Up Doesn’t Have To Be Scary

JE JOUE / The Eyes Have It… The Key to Powerful Intimacy?

YOU BEAUTY / How To Have Anal Sex: 4 Ways to Make It Comfortable

BUSTLE / Wondering What Kind Of Vibrator Should You Buy? 5 Reasons A Crowdfunded Sex Toy Is Actually Your Best Bet

SHAPE / 7 Kinky Upgrades for Your Sex Life

PROGRESO WEEKLY / The Legacy Of Sexual Revolution And How It Affects The Society


January 2015


JEZEBEL / How To Have Maintenance Sex

BUSTLE / Can’t Orgasm During Sex? 7 Ways To Let Go And Let Your Partner Pleasure You

HUFFINGTON POST / Female Masturbation: 11 Ways To Turn Yourself On

REFINERY29 / I Don’t Think I Sleep With Too Many People, But My Friends Do

LIFEHACKER / Ask An Expert: All About Better Communication In The Bedroom

BUSTLE / 7 Ways To Feel Better Naked and Feel More Comfortable With Your Body in Bed, Because Life’s Too Short To Be Insecure

REFINERY29 / Your Year In Sex Resolutions: 12 Ways To Keep Things Fresh

BUSTLE / What To Do After He Cheats And You Can’t Stop Thinking About The Other Woman

ASK MEN / Having More Sex In 2015

BUSTLE / How To Have A Sex Life After Birth, Because Having a Baby Really Does Change Everything

FILTHY DIRTY / 12 New Years Resolutions You Will Be Happy To Keep

SHE KNOWS / 20 Quiet Sex Tips For When Your Kids Go To Sleep

YAHOO / Your Year In Sex

MSN HEALTH / Your Year In Sex Resolutions: 12 Ways To Keep Things Fresh

CURVY GIRL HEALTH / How Do You Know If You’re Sexually Compatible?


December 2014


BUSTLE / How To Talk About Commitment With Someone You Just Started Dating (Before You Even Have Sex)

ASK MEN / Holiday Sex: Don’t Let Your Love Life Go Cold This Winter

SHAPE / Life Without Orgasm

BUSTLE / 42 Sexy Gift Ideas for Your Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Friends, and Even Yourself

YAHOO / 4 Things You Never Knew You Could Get Hooked On

BUSTLE / Does Stress Kill Your Libido? How To Protect Your Sex Drive During Difficult And Busy Times

REDBOOK / The Most Dangerous Words To Say In A Marriage

GOOD HOUSEKEEPING / The Most Dangerous Words To Say In A Marriage

BUSTLE / How To Have Video and Phone Sex in a Long Distance Relationship

SHEKNOWS / 8 Ways To Get Off Without Sex

BUSTLE / The 7 Best Sex Positions To Help Him Last Longer in Bed, Because Really, Can You Blame Him?


November 2014


PSYCHOLOGY TODAY / How To Save Your Sex Life From The Holiday Season

BUSTLE / 11 Ways You Know You’re Ready To Have Sex With Someone New

COINED LIFE / Ladies We Love: Vanessa Marin

THE STIR / 5 Things All Unhappily Married Couples Do

BUSTLE / The 7 Best Places To Have Sex Without (Hopefully) Ending Up In Jail

REFINERY29 / Life Without Orgasm: 3 Women Share Their Stories

XOJANE / What To Do When Sex Hurts

BUSTLE/ 6 Tips For Having A Threesome Without Ruining Your Relationship In The Process

MIC / 8 Facts That Put The Biggest Myths About Sex Toys To Bed

HER WORLD MAGAZINE / Get A 50-50 Marriage

BUSTLE / Should I Have Sex, Or Am I Just Lonely? 9 Not-So-Good Reasons For Hooking Up

NEW YORK MAGAZINE / Expert Advice For A 28-Year Old Virgin 


October 2014


BUSTLE / The Best Inexpensive Sex Toys

BUSTLE / 7 Steps To Preventing Pain So You Can Enjoy Yourself In The Sack

ABOUT.COM / How Often Should You Be Having Sex?

BUSTLE / Where To Find Porn For Women And Female-Friendly Erotica That Won’t Turn You Off

FILTHY DIRTY / SOS: Save Our Sex! A Sex Therapist’s Guide To Hot Hot Heat


September 2014


XOJANE / How To “Try Something New” In Bed Without Leaving Your House or Buying Any Special Equipment

FILTHY DIRTY / Vanessa Marin, Licensed Sex Therapist

NEWLYWEDS / How Often Should You Be Having Sex?

BUSTLE / How To Role-Play In Bed

NY MAG / Blood Hounds: They’re Obsessed With Period Sex

ASKMEN / 30 Skills All Men Should Master Before Age 30

BUSTLE / Is There Something Wrong With Me? How To Have A Healthier Relationship With Your Sexuality

VIDA Y ESTILO / Preguntas Sexuales Que Debes Hacerte Antes De Casarte

ELEPHANT JOURNAL / When She Wants It More: What To Do When A Woman Has A Higher Sex Drive Than Her Man 

PSYCHOLOGY TODAY / 7 Sex Questions You Have To Ask Before You Get Married


August 2014


BUSTLE / How To Be Intimate With Someone: 11 Ways To Have More Intimacy And Less Boredom

BUSTLE / How Often Should I Have Sex? How To Deal When Sex Slows Down In A Relationship

XOJANE / 11 Easy Ways To Maintain A Healthy Relationship With Your Vibrator

BUSTLE / How To Deal With Embarrassing Sex Stuff

BUSTLE / How Long Should It Take A Woman To Come? How To Stop Worrying, And Start Orgasming

XOJANE / 8 Simple Techniques To Stop Hating Your Body During Sex

ALTERNET / 8 Simple Techniques To Stop Hating Your Body During Sex

BUSTLE / The 5 Best Sex Positions For Female Orgasm, Because There Is Nothing Wrong With You


July 2014


BUSTLE / How To Ask For What You Want In Bed: 5 Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Yourself

PSYCHOLOGY TODAY / 7 Tips For Fantastic Honeymoon Sex

HUFFINGTON POST / How Often Do Married Couples Hop In The Sack?

NEWLYWEDS / Best Marriage Advice From Couples Counselors

XOJANE / 7 Ways To Have A Sex Life When You’re Depressed (Or On Libido-Damaging Antidepressants)

BUSTLE / How To Give A Blow Job That Doesn’t Make You Gag: Because Who Says BJs Can’t Be Fun?

ALTERNET / 6 Ways To Get What You Want In Bed

BUSTLE / How Do You Know When You’re Ready To Lose Your Virginity? Ask Yourself These Questions

MINDBODYGREEN/ The Connection Between Doing The Dishes And The Best Sex Of Your Life

BUSTLE / What Do You Do When Someone Cheats On You? 5 Ways To Figure Out Your Next Steps 

REFINERY29 / What I Learned From No-Orgasm Sex

BUSTLE / How To Experiment With Another Girl: Tips For Exploring Bi-curiosity For The First Time


June 2014


XOJANE / 6 Reasons You’re Not Asking For What You Want In Bed And What To Do About Them

BUSTLE / How To Talk Dirty With Your Partner Without Feeling Like An Idiot

GLAMOUR / Sex Tips For Summer

SPAWEEKDAILY / 10 Health Benefits Of Sex

LIFEHACKER / How Do You Know If You’re Sexually Compatible With Your Partner?

XOJANE / How To Talk To Your Boyfriend Or Husband About His Porn And Masturbation Habits

THE GOOD MEN PROJECT / What To Do If Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex

THE O WORD RADIO SHOW / Bringing Sexy Back

BUSTLE / Should I Be In An Open Relationship? The Dos And Don’ts Of Non-Monogamy

XOJANE / Ask A Sex Therapist: 6 Surprising Reasons Your Sex Drive Might Be Tanking

ALTERNET / 6 Surprising Reasons Your Sex Drive Might Be Tanking

BUSTLE / How To Give Directions During Oral Sex: Because Everyone Needs A Little Help 


May 2014


BOUDOIR BY LILY / Featured Guest – Vanessa Marin

XOJANE / How To Regain Control Of Your Sex Life After Sexual Abuse: A Sex Therapists Guide

BUSTLE / Are Vibrators Addictive Or Numbing? Our Sex Therapist Has Your Answer

PLAYBOY / Don’t Call It Mommy Porn

XOJANE / How To Be Supportive If Your Partner Has Penis Problems, From A Sex Therapist

LIFEHACKER / How to Give Your Partner Sexual Feedback Even if You’re Shy


April 2014


BUSTLE / How Do I Ask To Be Dominated

REDBOOK / 10 Things Men Love to Hear in Bed

YOUBEAUTY / What’s Your Orgasm Style

YOUBEAUTY /5 Best Sex Positions To Practically Guarantee An Orgasm

THOUGHT CATALOG / I’m A Sex Therapist And Here Are My Top 5 Pieces Of Advice For Having A Sex Life That Doesn’t Suck 

XOJANE / I’m A Sex Therapist And Here Are My Top 5 Pieces Of Advice For Having A Sex Life That Doesn’t Suck 

LIFEHACKER / How to Maintain Your Sex Life During the Work Week


March 2014


LIFEHACKER / Ask an Expert: All About Sexuality

MINDBODYGREEN / 5 Tips To Increase Pleasure During Sex

LADY LUX / Kissing’s Big Role In Making Love Last


February 2014


JEZEBEL / The Truth About How Much A Happy Couple Should Have Sex