Are you ready to stop feeling broken, ashamed, lost, and frustrated, and start learning how to orgasm?

In this free audio workshop, I’ll walk you through some of the exercises I’ve developed with my private sex therapy clients, and will give you my most valuable tips for learning what your body needs to reach orgasm (including the one specific technique that has been proven to be the most effective way for women to climax).

The workshop is in mp3 format, so you can participate on your own schedule, in the privacy of your own home.



Your information is kept strictly confidential.


“I have always had a complicated relationship with my orgasm; I don’t think I’ve chosen the ‘best’ partners over the years (selfish men, those who make me feel self-conscious, etc.) but I struggled personally and mentally, too. I put too much pressure on myself and had unrealistic expectations about orgasming. All of this made me feel confused and frustrated- like something was ‘wrong’ with me.

I didn’t have much of a plan or course of action until I randomly stumbled upon your website one day. I took your free online workshop and did my best to follow all of your advice.

Less than a month later I have experienced a complete, 180 degree change! I can reach orgasm almost every time (but completely understand and do not get discouraged when I don’t). I feel confident and empowered both by myself and with a partner. I am more intimately connected with my body and my sexuality; I enjoy exploring new techniques and new experiences on my way to orgasm.

I truly cannot thank you enough for your website and all the help you’ve given me. It seems like such a ridiculous thing to say, but I finally understand why everyone is so obsessed with orgasming! I am forever grateful.”

- A.S.

Hi! I’m Vanessa Marin. I’m a sex therapist, coach, and writer. It’s my mission to take the intimidation out of sex therapy and bring the fun back into the bedroom.

I’ve been a featured expert for The New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, The Times of London, The Huffington Post, Elle, Allure, Real Simple, Esquire, Buzzfeed, Jezebel, Lifehacker, Shape, Redbook, Glamour, Self, XoJane, Bustle, and many more.

I have a Bachelor’s degree in Human Sexuality from Brown University, and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#78931).