Have you ever wondered what your partner REALLY thinks about your performance in the bedroom?

Well, it turns out there are a few things they secretly wish you’d stop doing…

We turned to Instagram and asked people to anonymously share all of their bedroom pet peeves and red flags. The responses were fascinating. We’re breaking down the most common answers and giving you tips to start the conversation with your partner about what you actually want and like from each other during sex.

Links & resources

Course: Art of Initiation

Course: Ultimate Foreplay Guides

Course: Next Level Intercourse

Guide: Dirty Talk 101

Guide: Butt Stuff

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