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Clear, practical guidance to help you communicate better, feel more confident, and enjoy your relationship more.

...Because no one hands you a user manual for intimacy.

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The Spark is your monthly cheat code to keep connection, curiosity, and intimacy in the mix without turning your relationship into another project – all for less than a latte. Each month you'll get...

Ditch the guesswork. Get the exact roadmap to using your hands and mouth in ways that’ll leave your partner absolutely obsessed.
This comprehensive, step-by-step course covers everything from emotional to physical hang-ups so you can unlock and master all the ways to orgasms.
This practical, playful, and wildly effective online course will help you and your partner finally understand what you both need to feel enthusiastic about intimacy.
Get ready for toe-curling, bedsheet-gripping experiences for both of you. The Ultimate Sex Guide includes over forty tastefully illustrated sex positions with detailed, step-by-step instructions for each position.
This self-paced digital toolkit for parents is designed to help you have ongoing conversations with your kids (from toddlers to teens) about bodies, intimacy, and sex.

trusted by tens of thousands of couples

trusted by tens of thousands of couples

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate. We’re here to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk openly about sex and relationships so you can have more fun in the bedroom.

We're Vanessa and Xander Marin.

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Enjoy our courses and guides discreetly from the comfort of home.

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All of our courses are…

Go at your own pace and take a break if you need it. You’re always in control.

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Revisit any course whenever your relationship needs a boost. Plus, you'll receive all future updates for free.

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Email info@vmtherapy.com to learn more.

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