Bring the Spark
Back - And Keep It Burning!
Online Courses & Guides
We try the “fake it til you make it” approach to confidence — but stay firmly planted in “fake it” territory.
We stumble our way through sex, hoping to magically discover the techniques that make it look as good as it does in the movies.
So lot of us wind up end up settling for less-than-satisfying sex and relationships that just don’t feel like they used to.
But that doesn’t have to be your fate…
Our online courses and guides have helped tens of thousands of couples transform their relationships — in and out of the bedroom. We’ve got something for everyone and every budget.
We feel awkward and embarrassed talking about our needs — even with our long-term partner — so we keep our mouths shut.
Sex and relationships are such an important part of our lives, but it’s not like anyone ever handed us a user manual for intimacy!
Orgasm
BETTER, HOTTER SEX STARTS WITH YOU!
Masturbation Masturclass
Masturbation is the key to experiencing pleasure and orgasms on your own and with your partner, but so many women don’t know how to do it! Or they’re too embarrassed to even try.
This “masturclass” will give you tried-and-tested, step-by-step techniques for unlocking your body’s infinite capacity for pleasure.
check out the rest of our course offerings
Having More Fun In The Bedroom
Next Level Intercourse includes over forty tastefully illustrated sex positions with detailed, step-by-step instructions on how to get into, out of, and move in each position.
Get ready for toe-curling, bedsheet-gripping, heart-opening experiences for BOTH of you!
Get ready for toe-curling, bedsheet-gripping, heart-opening experiences for BOTH of you!
UNLOCK THE SECRETS TO UNBELIEVABLE, craveable
SEX FOR BOTH OF YOU!
Next Level Intercourse
THE SEX EDUCATION YOU WISH YOU’D HAD!
Ultimate Foreplay Guides
It’s time to stop guessing and start feeling confident in your technique! The Ultimate Foreplay Guides show you exactly how to use your hands and mouth on your partner in ways that will BLOW. THEIR. MIND.
This guide will leave you feeling ready and able to pleasure your partner in exciting, unexpected ways.
This guide will leave you feeling ready and able to pleasure your partner in exciting, unexpected ways.
This step-by-step guide will help you discover how immensely pleasurable and incredibly fun butt stuff can be! (And... it's totally okay and NORMAL to be nervous about it!)
Exploring new things with your partner is one of the surefire ways to keep things hot for years to come, so what are you waiting for?
Exploring new things with your partner is one of the surefire ways to keep things hot for years to come, so what are you waiting for?
YOUR SECRET TO UNLOCKING THE BACKDOOR THE SMART, SAFE, AND PLEASURABLE WAY
Butt Stuff
Dirty Talk is a powerful tool in the bedroom, and we’ve got news: it doesn't have to feel awkward or scary.
This in-depth guide will help you and your partner discover your authentic dirty talk voices. It’ll leave you feeling like a badass, ready to bring some serious heat during sexy moments that will have your partner begging you to keep it coming (or render them totally speechless).
This in-depth guide will help you and your partner discover your authentic dirty talk voices. It’ll leave you feeling like a badass, ready to bring some serious heat during sexy moments that will have your partner begging you to keep it coming (or render them totally speechless).
EXPLORE ONE OF THE HOTTEST THINGS YOU CAN DO WITH YOUR MOUTH
Dirty Talk 101
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BEST SELLER
BEST SELLER
Unlock a roadmap to your desires and create a judgment-free atmosphere for exploration with this guide!
You’ll reveal your sexual sweet spots to each other so it’s easy to decide how you want to give and receive pleasure in moments of passion.
You’ll reveal your sexual sweet spots to each other so it’s easy to decide how you want to give and receive pleasure in moments of passion.
DISCOVER YOUR DESIRES
Sexual Bucket List
Challenges
Inspired by the best-sellingSex Challenge, The Connection Challenge is for couples looking to rediscover that “new relationship energy”!
You’ll receive 30 days worth of prompts that will have you feeling more connected, inspired, and in love than ever before.
You’ll receive 30 days worth of prompts that will have you feeling more connected, inspired, and in love than ever before.
REIGNITE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND FALL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN - IN JUST 10 MINUTES A DAY!
The Connection Challenge
A SHOT OF ESPRESSO FOR YOUR SEX LIFE!
The Sex Challenge
Bring some surprise and excitement into your relationship with The 30 Day Sex Challenge.
Each day for 30 days, you’ll get playful and approachable activity prompts sent to you via email. Enjoy the benefits of getting creative in the bedroom — while someone else comes up with the ideas. (And it makes a great gift too!)
Each day for 30 days, you’ll get playful and approachable activity prompts sent to you via email. Enjoy the benefits of getting creative in the bedroom — while someone else comes up with the ideas. (And it makes a great gift too!)
BEST SELLER
BEST SELLER
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Sex Drive
START CRAVING SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER!
Bring Your Sex Life Back To Life
It’s not your fault your sex life feels a little disappointing. We’ll show you how to get that sexy spark back!
This masterclass is designed to rekindle the passion you once had for each other and reignite your desire.
This masterclass is designed to rekindle the passion you once had for each other and reignite your desire.
FEEL LIKE A TEENAGER AGAIN!
Rediscovering Desire
Do you have a low libido? Are you and your partner rarely on the same page when it comes to sex? This is normal for SO many couples.
In Rediscovering Desire, we’ll help you understand how your sex drive actually works, and give you practical tools you can put to use tonight.
In Rediscovering Desire, we’ll help you understand how your sex drive actually works, and give you practical tools you can put to use tonight.
check out the rest of our course offerings
Male Performance
GUYS, THIS ONE’S FOR YOU!
Modern Man's Guide
If you’re worried about timing and what your partner is thinking it can feel impossible to enjoy sex. And we know those pills and sprays don’t work.
The Modern Man’s Guide takes a holistic approach to what’s happening in your brain and your body. Gain confidence in your technique, and get ready for hotter, more satisfying sex.
The Modern Man’s Guide takes a holistic approach to what’s happening in your brain and your body. Gain confidence in your technique, and get ready for hotter, more satisfying sex.
check out the rest of our course offerings
For Parents
REDISCOVERING INTIMACY AND SEX FOR PARENTS
MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs
How on earth are you supposed to make time and muster the energy to have an incredible sex life (or a sex life at all) as a parent?!
This course will help you prioritize your relationship, disrupt the belief that “this is just how it is with kids”, and reignite your bond. It’s about to get HOT…
This course will help you prioritize your relationship, disrupt the belief that “this is just how it is with kids”, and reignite your bond. It’s about to get HOT…
check out the rest of our course offerings
Having An Exceptional Relationship
A BALANCED RELATIONSHIP IS JUST A FEW CLICKS AWAY!
Mental Load Workbook
In a lot of relationships, one partner unconsciously takes on the mental responsibility for both people.
This workbook will help you balance the load. Each partnership and family is different, but we’ll help you find equal balance and a system that works for you.
Ready to strip away the self-doubt?
This best-selling masterclass will give you step-by-step instructions with doable action items so you can finally embrace your sexiest self!
This best-selling masterclass will give you step-by-step instructions with doable action items so you can finally embrace your sexiest self!
BECOME WILDLY CONFIDENT IN THE BEDROOM... AND BEYOND!
Supercharge Your Confidence In The Bedroom
Does initiating sex feel awkward or intimidating? With 22 different ideas for making the first move, we’ll show you how initiating can feel fun and playful.
This masterclass will take you from initiation feeling dreadful and impossible to feeling newly inspired, confident, and excited to make the first move!
This masterclass will take you from initiation feeling dreadful and impossible to feeling newly inspired, confident, and excited to make the first move!
BRING MORE YES INTO YOUR SEX LIFE!
Initiation 101
“What do you like in bed?” For so many people, this question feels impossible to answer! But it doesn’t need to be that hard to uncover your needs and desires in the bedroom.
In this masterclass, we’ll show you how to pay attention to the signals your body is giving you and discover what receiving pleasure looks like for you.
In this masterclass, we’ll show you how to pay attention to the signals your body is giving you and discover what receiving pleasure looks like for you.
DISCOVER YOURSELF AND YOUR NEEDS
How To Know What You Want In The Bedroom
check out the rest of our course offerings
GET CONFIDENT IN BED, CONNECT DEEPLY WITH YOUR PARTNER, AND FEEL PLEASURE LIKE NEVER BEFORE
Better, Hotter, More
Ever wish your partner had a user manual? After this six week course, you’ll have one!
Get ready to have sex so good you finally understand what all the fuss is about.
Both you and your partner will explore new techniques that maximize pleasure, deepen your understanding of one another, and optimize orgasms.
Get ready to have sex so good you finally understand what all the fuss is about.
Both you and your partner will explore new techniques that maximize pleasure, deepen your understanding of one another, and optimize orgasms.
Want to have fun together but don’t have time to plan out the details?
We'll help you get out of your date-night rut with an entire year of creative date ideas curated for busy couples, parents, and even long-distance relationships.
We'll help you get out of your date-night rut with an entire year of creative date ideas curated for busy couples, parents, and even long-distance relationships.
The date night butterflies and heart eyes are right around the corner!
A Year Of
Creative Dates
Next Level Intercourse includes over forty tastefully illustrated sex positions with detailed, step-by-step instructions on how to get into, out of, and move in each position. Plus, discover the secret to craving more sex!
Get ready for toe-curling, bedsheet-gripping, heart-opening experiences for BOTH of you!
Get ready for toe-curling, bedsheet-gripping, heart-opening experiences for BOTH of you!
UNLOCK THE SECRETS TO UNBELIEVABLE SEX FOR BOTH OF YOU!
Next Level Intercourse
THE SEX EDUCATION YOU WISH YOU’D HAD!
Ultimate Foreplay Guides
It’s time to stop guessing and start feeling confident in your technique! The Ultimate Foreplay Guides show you exactly how to use your hands and mouth on your partner in ways that will BLOW. THEIR. MIND.
This guide will leave you feeling ready and able to pleasure your partner in exciting, unexpected ways.
This guide will leave you feeling ready and able to pleasure your partner in exciting, unexpected ways.
BEST SELLER
BEST SELLER
A SHOT OF ESPRESSO FOR YOUR SEX LIFE!
The Sex Challenge
Bring some surprise and excitement into your relationship with The Sex Challenge.
Each day for 30 days, you’ll get playful and approachable activity prompts sent to you via email. Enjoy the benefits of getting creative in the bedroom — while someone else comes up with the ideas. (And it makes a great gift too!)
Each day for 30 days, you’ll get playful and approachable activity prompts sent to you via email. Enjoy the benefits of getting creative in the bedroom — while someone else comes up with the ideas. (And it makes a great gift too!)
BEST SELLER
Inspired by the best-selling Sex Challenge, The Connection Challenge is for couples looking to rediscover that “new relationship energy”!
You’ll receive 30 days worth of prompts that will have you feeling more connected, inspired, and in love than ever before.
You’ll receive 30 days worth of prompts that will have you feeling more connected, inspired, and in love than ever before.
REIGNITE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND FALL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN - IN JUST 10 MINUTES A DAY!
The Connection Challenge
BEST SELLER
This step-by-step guide will help you discover how immensely pleasurable and incredibly fun butt stuff can be! (And... it's totally okay and NORMAL to be nervous about it!)
Exploring new things with your partner is one of the surefire ways to keep things hot for years to come, so what are you waiting for?
Exploring new things with your partner is one of the surefire ways to keep things hot for years to come, so what are you waiting for?
YOUR SECRET TO UNLOCKING THE BACKDOOR THE SMART, SAFE, AND PLEASURABLE WAY
Butt Stuff
GET CONFIDENT IN BED, CONNECT DEEPLY WITH YOUR PARTNER, AND FEEL PLEASURE LIKE NEVER BEFORE
Better, Hotter, More
Ever wish your partner had a user manual? After this six week course, you’ll have one!
Get ready to have sex so good you finally understand what all the fuss is about.
Both you and your partner will explore new techniques that maximize pleasure, deepen your understanding of one another, and optimize orgasms.
Get ready to have sex so good you finally understand what all the fuss is about.
Both you and your partner will explore new techniques that maximize pleasure, deepen your understanding of one another, and optimize orgasms.
Dirty Talk is a powerful tool in the bedroom, and we’ve got news: it doesn't have to feel awkward or scary.
This in-depth guide will help you and your partner discover your authentic dirty talk voices. It’ll leave you feeling like a badass, ready to bring some serious heat during sexy moments that will have your partner begging you to keep it coming (or render them totally speechless).
This in-depth guide will help you and your partner discover your authentic dirty talk voices. It’ll leave you feeling like a badass, ready to bring some serious heat during sexy moments that will have your partner begging you to keep it coming (or render them totally speechless).
EXPLORE ONE OF THE HOTTEST THINGS YOU CAN DO WITH YOUR MOUTH
Dirty Talk 101
BEST SELLER
REDISCOVERING INTIMACY AND SEX FOR PARENTS
MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs
How on earth are you supposed to make time and muster the energy to have an incredible sex life (or a sex life at all) as a parent?!
This course will help you prioritize your relationship, disrupt the belief that “this is just how it is with kids”, and reignite your bond. It’s about to get HOT…
This course will help you prioritize your relationship, disrupt the belief that “this is just how it is with kids”, and reignite your bond. It’s about to get HOT…
Ready to strip away the self-doubt?
This best-selling masterclass will give you step-by-step instructions with doable action items so you can finally embrace your sexiest self!
This best-selling masterclass will give you step-by-step instructions with doable action items so you can finally embrace your sexiest self!
BECOME WILDLY CONFIDENT IN THE BEDROOM... AND BEYOND!
Supercharge Your Confidence In The Bedroom
START CRAVING SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER!
Bring Your Sex Life Back To Life
It’s not your fault your sex life feels a little disappointing. We’ll show you how to get that sexy spark back!
This masterclass is designed to rekindle the passion you once had for each other and reignite your desire.
This masterclass is designed to rekindle the passion you once had for each other and reignite your desire.
Does initiating sex feel awkward or intimidating? With 22 different ideas for making the first move, we’ll show you how initiating can feel fun and playful.
This masterclass will take you from initiation feeling dreadful and impossible to feeling newly inspired, confident, and excited to make the first move!
This masterclass will take you from initiation feeling dreadful and impossible to feeling newly inspired, confident, and excited to make the first move!
BRING MORE YES INTO YOUR SEX LIFE!
Initiation 101
BEST SELLER
A BALANCED RELATIONSHIP IS JUST A FEW CLICKS AWAY!
Mental Load Workbook
In a lot of relationships, one partner unconsciously takes on the mental responsibility for both people.
This workbook will help you balance the load. Each partnership and family is different, but we’ll help you find equal balance and a system that works for you.
Unlock a roadmap to your desires and create a judgment-free atmosphere for exploration with this guide!
You’ll reveal your sexual sweet spots to each other so it’s easy to decide how you want to give and receive pleasure in moments of passion.
You’ll reveal your sexual sweet spots to each other so it’s easy to decide how you want to give and receive pleasure in moments of passion.
DISCOVER YOUR DESIRES
Sexual Bucket List
FEEL LIKE A TEENAGER AGAIN!
Rediscovering Desire
Do you have a low libido? Are you and your partner rarely on the same page when it comes to sex? This is normal for SO many couples.
In Rediscovering Desire, we’ll help you understand how your sex drive actually works, and give you practical tools you can put to use tonight.
In Rediscovering Desire, we’ll help you understand how your sex drive actually works, and give you practical tools you can put to use tonight.
“What do you like in bed?” For so many people, this question feels impossible to answer! But it doesn’t need to be that hard to uncover your needs and desires in the bedroom.
In this masterclass, we’ll show you how to pay attention to the signals your body is giving you and discover what receiving pleasure looks like for you.
In this masterclass, we’ll show you how to pay attention to the signals your body is giving you and discover what receiving pleasure looks like for you.
DISCOVER YOURSELF AND YOUR NEEDS
How To Know What You Want In The Bedroom
GUYS, THIS ONE’S FOR YOU!
Modern Man's Guide
If you’re worried about timing and what your partner is thinking it can feel impossible to enjoy sex. And we know those pills and sprays don’t work.
The Modern Man’s Guide takes a holistic approach to what’s happening in your brain and your body. Gain confidence in your technique, and get ready for hotter, more satisfying sex.
The Modern Man’s Guide takes a holistic approach to what’s happening in your brain and your body. Gain confidence in your technique, and get ready for hotter, more satisfying sex.
Masturbation is the key to experiencing pleasure and orgasms on your own and with your partner, but so many women don’t know how to do it! Or they’re too embarrassed to even try.
This “masturclass” will give you tried-and-tested, step-by-step techniques for unlocking your body’s infinite capacity for pleasure.
This “masturclass” will give you tried-and-tested, step-by-step techniques for unlocking your body’s infinite capacity for pleasure.
BETTER, HOTTER SEX STARTS WITH YOU!
Masturbation Masturclass
Want to have fun together but don’t have time to plan out the details?
We'll help you get out of your date-night rut with an entire year of creative date ideas curated for busy couples, parents, and even long-distance relationships.
We'll help you get out of your date-night rut with an entire year of creative date ideas curated for busy couples, parents, and even long-distance relationships.
The date night butterflies and heart eyes are right around the corner!
A Year Of
Creative Dates
Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)
Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.
We’re here to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk openly about sex and relationships so you can have more fun in the bedroom.
We're Vanessa and Xander Marin.
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With lifetime access, you can revisit a course or review a guide any time your relationship needs a pick-me-up. Plus you get all updates for free whenever we make improvements.
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Go at your own pace and take a break if you need it. You’re always in control.
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Enjoy our courses and guides discreetly from the comfort of home.
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