Compliments. They sound like such a small act but they can make such a huge difference in the intimacy of your relationship.
But for most couples, compliments are surprisingly hard to come by! Maybe you’ve never been good at receiving them, so now your partner doesn’t feel it’s worth the effort. Maybe your family never gave compliments when you were growing up, so you’re uncomfortable with them. Or maybe you’ve simply forgotten how sweet they can be!
We’re here to help you figure out what your partner wants to hear, and how to move past the blockages that leave you tongue tied. Our tips will create little moments of happiness and gratitude in your relationship, and remind you what you love about each other. This compliment roadmap is also the perfect soundtrack to play in the background, allowing your partner to “accidentally” overhear our tips.
Warning: this episode can cause butterflies, excessive kisses, and possible trips to the nearest bedroom.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- The importance of compliments in a relationship
- Ways to start giving them genuinely
- How to get comfortable receiving compliments
Here’s a glance at this episode:
[4:33] How do you feel about receiving compliments?
[6:07] Do you feel like you are giving them enough?
[7:33] Now that you’re in a relationship, you still have to give the effort
[10:11] Minimal effort, high reward
[11:56] Changing your relationship with compliments is a conversation
[15:33] Our history with learning how to present compliments to each other
[16:38] It’s not just about love languages
[17:13] How to give a great compliment
[20:14] Embracing the awkward moment
[23:44] Overcoming having no experience with vocalized gratitude
[31:14] How to find your partner’s favorite flavor
[33:49] It’s gotta be more than just physical
[35:44] Supporting details make all the difference
[37:40] How to start getting more compliments
[39:52] The magic of positive reinforcement
[42:24] The willingness to be the first to step up
[43:48] When you struggle to receive
[46:43] The true humbleness of a simple “thank you”
[47:57] Reframing the idea of what a compliment represents
Links & resources
Course: The Connection Challenge
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