Xander’s Vasectomy Part 2: Answering Your Questions About Pain, Performance, And Masculinity

January 18, 2024


Snip snap! We’re back with part 2 of Xander’s vasectomy journey. (Start with part 1 if you want to hear his story.) This time we’re answering all your questions about the process from start to finish (literally, all 30 “finishes”).

Did Xander have any pain during sex after the procedure? Did his sex drive change? Do his balls hang lower? Is his semen a different color, texture, or volume, and does it smell funny now? Did his vasectomy make him feel less masculine?

Plus, we share tons of advice about how to talk to your male partner about getting a vasectomy!

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