Initiating sex in your relationship should feel exciting, not frustrating – but let’s be real… for most couples, it’s anything but smooth.
Whether you’re feeling stuck, rejected, or just plain awkward when it comes to getting things started in the bedroom, today’s episode is here to help!
We surveyed our audience, and only 17% of people said they’re happy with how initiation is going in their relationship. That means a lot of us are struggling with:
- Feeling like one partner is always initiating while the other never does
- Getting caught off guard and feeling pressured to have sex in the moment
- Waiting until the end of the night, when you’re both exhausted
- Using “lazy” or unsexy initiation attempts (boob honks, anyone?)
- Feeling like your partner only flirts when they want something
Sound familiar? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re breaking down the most common mistakes couples make when initiating sex.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- The #1 reason why most couples struggle with initiation
- Why timing matters just as much as how you initiate
- The major mistake that makes sex feel like a pop quiz – and what to do instead
- What to say (and what not to say) when initiating sex
- How to make your partner feel wanted instead of pressured
And of course, we’re sharing our top tool to completely transform the way you initiate—so you and your partner can experience more connection, better intimacy, and yes… way more satisfying sex!
Links & resources
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