We made it to 200 episodes!

It’s wild to think about how far this podcast has come. There’s one thing we know for sure… we couldn’t have come this far without YOU. That’s why for this very special episode, we decided to celebrate by letting you ask us…

…absolutely ANYTHING.

And you didn’t disappoint.

From personal confessions to relationship deep dives to behind-the-scenes business secrets, no topic was off-limits.

Tune in for an unfiltered, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation where we tackle:

• Personal Qs – Would Vanessa ever let Xander shave his beard?
• Relationship Qs – Are we still in couples therapy?
• Business Qs – Have we ever recorded a podcast while totally annoyed with each other?

And SO much more! Stick around to the end because we’re teasing something big we’ve been working on behind the scenes… you’re going to want to be on our email list for this one.

Links & Resources

Take The Intimacy Quiz: Your Key To Love That Lasts – Find out exactly what your relationship needs most right now and get personalized guidance to start making real changes today! vmtherapy.com/5keys

March Matchups: The Ultimate Bedroom Bracket – Cast your votes as we put 8 bedroom positions head-to-head, and help us pick the winning position for a brand-new free step-by-step guide! Follow along on Instagram @vanessaandxander and make sure you’re on our email list to get the final results!

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