Butt Stuff: The Sequel

November 04,2021

The follow up to episode 23: Butt Stuff (if you haven’t listened to that episode yet, go ahead and check it out)! Today we’re talking about how to actually do butt stuff — step by step — as well as what not to do.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[4:07] A huge misconception that people have about butt stuff

[5:20] The best place to start with anal, and why you shouldn’t “get on the freeway” right away

[7:20] The non-negotiable for anal play and anal sex

[10:15] “Grab your weighted blanket, light your candle, and put your finger up your butthole.”

[12:17] Our best tips for self-exploration

[15:40] The absolute must-haves for anal sex toys, and a very intense DM

[20:25] Ready for anal intercourse? You still need to warm up with some foreplay!

[21:37] One of the best positions for anal intercourse

[25:07] Our most important tips for first-timers

[28:49] Harry Butthole and the Triwizard Episode?

[30:55] So you had anal sex…what now?

[34:22] The “Lube Poops” tote bag

[37:43] Our personal experience with butt stuff (and a secret!)


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