Ready to turn things around in the bedroom?

We’re talking reverse cowgirl, and trust us, there’s a LOT more to this position than simply facing the other direction.

Where do your legs go? How do you keep your partner from popping out? And what exactly is he supposed to be doing while you’re up there?

We’re answering all your burning questions about Reverse Cowgirl, including a few you probably didn’t even know you had.

From finding your favorite angle to getting more clitoral stimulation, we’re sharing the little adjustments that can make this position a whole lot more fun for both of you.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How to get into reverse cowgirl without accidentally kicking your partner in the face
• The simple pelvic tilt that can completely change how this position feels
• How to keep your partner from popping out, plus how to avoid accidentally bending his penis
• Why reverse cowgirl can be great for clitoral stimulation, especially if you’re a little shy about touching yourself
• How to stay connected when you can’t see each other’s faces
• What the partner on the bottom can do with their hands to make things even better
• The pillow trick that makes reverse cowgirl more comfortable if you struggle with straddling.

Whether reverse cowgirl is already in your regular rotation or you’ve been curious about giving it a go, you’re about to discover some new ways to make this position feel REALLY good.

Grab your partner, press play, and get ready to turn things around.

Ready to add a few more favorites to your bedroom rotation?

Reverse cowgirl is just the beginning, friends.

If you’re ready to explore new angles, discover what feels amazing for your bodies, and have a whole lot more fun together, Ultimate Sex Positions is for you.

You’ll get:

• 47 tastefully illustrated sex positions.
• Step-by-step instructions that show you how to get into each position, move together, and find what feels best.
• Tips and techniques for more pleasure, so you can experiment with different sensations and discover new favorites together.

Whether you’re feeling adventurous or just want to put a new spin on an old favorite, there’s something in here for every couple.

Check out Ultimate Sex Positions here

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