5 Ways To Make 2022 Your Most Intimate AND Nasty Year Ever

December 30,2021

This episode is all about making 2022 the best year of your relationship yet! Get our five favorite sustainable and actionable tips for making your relationship a priority next year.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[3:45]Find out how we feel about resolutions

[08:18] Does anyone make “relationship resolutions”? This number is wild!

[12:30] Our Instagram audience answers: “If your partner could do ONE thing that would make your relationship happier in 2022, what would it be?”

[15:45] How to create a values list for your relationship

[17:03] An example of why it’s important to identify your values

[19:10] Specific tips for how to flirt with your partner

[24:03] “Sex is great, but have you ever gotten a really great hug?”

[25:42] Gratitude is the attitude!

[29:43] How to get a little spicier in the bedroom (and tips for ACTUALLY doing it!)

[35:16] Your best bet for following through on trying something new

[36:35] What is a daily intimacy ritual? (and how to implement one!)

[40:30] BONUS TIP! And this one is super easy!

Links & resources

30 Day Sex Challenge: https://bit.ly/3yUbQSn

Ultimate Foreplay Guides: https://bit.ly/3J8dAw5

Sex Position Playbook: https://bit.ly/32gVWp9

Mental Load Workbook: https://bit.ly/3H1h41E

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I'm Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom.

I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

If you’re interested in improving your sex life, you can work with me via my online courses or personal coaching sessions. I look forward to supporting you in creating the sex life you’ve always wanted!