The 15 Lessons That Keep Us Saying “I Do” After 15 Years

December 15, 2022

On December 15th, 2007, a tired girl got dragged to a Christmas party and met a DJ with a heart of gold, and the rest is history.

Here we are 15 years later, married and running a sex and relationship business, reflecting back over what it took to get us here. In this special episode, we celebrate our anniversary by sharing on the lessons we’ve taught each other, the revelations we’ve stumbled upon, and what we’ve had to learn the hard way. Join us as we take a walk down memory lane, share some laughs, get sentimental, and get, as always, just a little bit naughty. Stay tuned all the way to the end for some bonus lessons from the only people who talk about our relationship as much as we do.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Our official origin story
  • What 15 years of trial and error can do for a committed relationship
  • The touching and hilarious lessons that our team has learned from us along the way

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[1:04] The story of us and our meet cute

[10:40] How to survive a case of blue balls

[13:36] Yours, mine, & ours

[17:05] Lesson #1 – Is it good for you when it’s hard?

[19:30] Lesson #2 – Don’t rush, take your time

[23:26] Lesson #3 – “You’re so good at that”

[28:34] Lesson #4 – Give it to them the way that they want it

[33:16] Lesson #5 – Come back again and again

[37:31] Lesson #6 – Open your mouth

[39:06] Lesson #7 – Meet me halfway

[43:27] Lesson #8 – Two things at once

[48:00] Lesson #9 – Let’s talk about sex, baby

[50:13] Lesson #10 – Sometimes it’s about what happens later

[52:36] Lesson #11 – We can do it quick when we want to

[56:09] Lesson #12 – Uncensored is the best version

[58:16] Lesson #13 – Who doesn’t love a cheerleader?

[1:00:11] Lesson #14 – For better or worse or even a sponge bath

[1:02:34] Lesson #15 – Team Bonus Lessons!

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