Do you want more intimacy in relationship? If your answer was, “Yes, but HOW?”, then you’re in the right place! We’ve been together for 15 years and know from personal experience how a relationship can ebb and flow right into a rut. You’re too tired, too overwhelmed, too embarrassed by how stale things have gotten, and you find yourself in the land of stagnation.

Good thing we’ve come up with the cheat code!

Whether you’re looking for more emotional or physical intimacy, or BOTH, we have you covered. This episode is jam packed with tips for rekindling the connection, how to get your partner on board with creating more intimacy, and even some real-life feedback from couples who have used our advice to find their way back to each other.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The science-backed secret to more intimacy
• How to talk to your partner about increasing the intimacy in your relationship without hurting or offending them
• All about our upcoming challenge, Intimate or Nasty, and how it can help you get the intimacy back

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[3:25] Our book is out on Feb 7th (DON’T MISS OUT ON THE PREORDER GOODIES)

[8:40] It’s shiny! It’s new! It’s science!

[11:09] We’ve got the solution to your performance pressure

[13:01] Intimate, Nasty, or BOTH??? Choose your own adventure!

[20:39] Taking on the energy that you want your partner to have

[27:06] Vulnerability from a male perspective

[31:51] Calling out the specific resistance with kindness

[35:36] “I love the way you do that. Can I have some more?”

[37:27] The 4 infallible steps to talking to your partner

[40:09] “What if I’ve been the problem?”

[43:00] “Started with a pillow fire now we’re here”

[44:28] “Caution – may end in a second baby”

[45:25] “Fell back in love with my roommate”

[46:16] “Nostalgia + opportunity = explaining why Daddy is sitting on Mommy”

[48:00] “5 minutes of hell to 5 minutes of heaven”

[49:12] “Pulling an all nighter like we did in the beginning”

[51:11] “There will be sex”

[53:08] Don’t miss out on $30 off Intimate or Nasty!

Links & resources

Our Book: Sex Talks (available for preorder until Feb 7th)

Challenge: Intimate or Nasty (Sex Talks preorders get $30 off this challenge)

Free Guide: How To Get Your Partner On Board For Intimate Or Nasty

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