When you have a pressing sexual desire or concern, you don’t want to wait. I offer an innovative and effective suite of online sex therapy programs that allow you to get started right away, from the privacy and comfort of your own home.


Learn how to rediscover your libido, balance mismatched sex drives, and have a sex life that feels fulfilling and exciting to you both.

Learn how to rediscover your libido, balance mismatched sex drives, and have a sex life that feels fulfilling and exciting to you both.


If you want to learn how to have your first orgasm and how to orgasm with a partner, you’ll love my comprehensive orgasm course.

If you’re able to orgasm on your own, but want to learn how to orgasm with a partner, take a look at this version of Finishing School!

Are you a survivor of sexual abuse? This program is dedicated to helping you make sex feel not only safe, but pleasurable too.

Looking to bring more pleasure into your daily life? This program guides you to deeper fulfillment, stronger relationships, and sizzling sex.


Leave performance anxiety in the past and approach sex with confidence and ease.

Leave performance anxiety in the past and approach sex with confidence and ease.


Hi there! I’m Vanessa Marin! I’m a sex therapist, coach, and writer. I have a Bachelor’s degree in Human Sexuality from Brown University, and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’ve been featured by The New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, CNN, Rolling Stone, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Buzzfeed, Jezebel, Lifehacker, and many more.

In my online courses, I want you to feel supported every step of the way, including during the registration process. If you have any questions about the courses, if you want support in choosing the right program for you, or if you just need to know that there’s an actual human behind this website (there is! It’s me!), don’t hesitate to use my contact form below to get in touch!

Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm

This comprehensive course teaches you how to have your first orgasms alone and with a partner.

Absolutely everything you need is right there at your fingertips, in an organized step-by-step system.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Experience intense pleasure
  • Connect with your body in completely new ways
  • Feel more confident communicating with current or future partners
  • Have powerful orgasms on your own and with another person

From $129 per month

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner

This special version of Finishing School is specifically for women who can orgasm on their own, but struggle to replicate the experience with a partner.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Confidently teach your partner what you already know about your body
  • Feel more comfortable letting your partner focus on you
  • Stay mentally present and focused
  • Explore new ways of experiencing pleasure on your own and with your partner

From $129 per month

The Modern Man’s Guide To Conquering Performance Pressure

There’s a lot of pressure on a man’s shoulders when it comes to sex. This program is designed to help you explore the causes of your performance anxiety, create strategies for managing stress in the moment, and eliminate performance problems once and for all.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Strengthen your erection, so you can get hard and stay hard
  • Control your orgasmic timing, whether you want to learn how to last longer in the bedroom, or how to have an orgasm with a partner
  • Feel more comfortable communicating with current and future partners
  • Dramatically improve your confidence

From $149

A Survivor’s Guide To Reclaiming Your Sex Life After Abuse

Your history of sexual abuse does not have to dictate your future. This course is designed to help you take back control of your own sex life and learn how to experience safety, joy, connection, and pleasure.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Identify the specific ways that your sexual abuse is currently affecting your sex life
  • Handle triggers in the moment
  • Talk to your partner, so you can feel like a team working together to create the sex life you both want
  • Rediscover your interest in sex

From $99

The Pleasure Principles

This course serves as an introduction to bringing more pleasure into your daily life.

It’s designed for the type-A superwoman who puts everyone before herself, but is ready for that to change.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Confidently prioritize your relationship with your body and your sexuality
  • Discover what brings you pleasure, and to feel comfortable telling a current or future partner what you need
  • Experience calm, peace, and love within your own skin
  • Know that you are always worth it




Since these courses are fully online, you can access the material whenever you want, wherever you want.

Lifetime Access

Once you purchase a program, you’re in for life. You’ll have free access to any and all future updates.


Have a question? Need more feedback? I’m always available to provide as much support as you need.


These techniques and exercises work! They’re based on over a decade’s worth of experience in the sex therapy field.