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November 2022
LIFEHACKER AUSTRALIA | This is How You Become A Cunnilingus Master
DISTRACTIFY | TikTok's Latest NSFW Trend? The Belly Press Thing


October 2022
LIFEHACKER AUSTRALIA | Best Blowjob Guide: How to Go Down (And Love It)

August 2022
INSIDER | How To Last Longer In Bed: 20 Ways For Men To Delay Ejaculation

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April 2022
USA TODAY | The Conversation Around Sex Is Changing With ‘Vanilla Shaming’ And More Openness Than Ever Before
NEWSWEEK | How To Deal With Sexless Marriage And When To Walk Away


March 2022
THE SWADDLE | How Our Evolving Idea of Intimacy Led to the Decline of Suhaag Raat’s Cultural Importance
SELF | 12 Of The Best Masturbation Tips For People With Vulvas


February 2022
LEXI AND NIKKI WE GO THERE | Episode: Sex & Intimacy After Babe With Vanessa and Xander Marin
BOUND AND DETERMINED | Episode: Let's Talk About Sex... And Books
ROMPER | 17 Podcasts About Sex You Need To Hear
KAMA AND KARY DO DALLAS | Episode: Nothing "Butt" Curiosity With Vanessa Marin


January 2022
THE DEAR BODY PODCAST | Episode: Your Sex Questions Answered With Sex Therapist Vanessa & Xander Marin
HEALTHIER TOGETHER WITH LIZ MOODY | Episode: A NSFW Sex Q&A — Firing Up Your Libido, Upleveling Oral, Figuring Out What You Want (And Exactly How To Ask For It!) & More With Vanessa Marin
NOURISHING WOMEN | Episode: How To Have More Orgasms With Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin
DATE BRAZEN | Episode: From Ordinary To Extraordinary: Creating A Safe And Confident Sex Life With Vanessa Marin


December 2021
ELITE DAILY | Here's How to Be Submissive With a Dominant Partner

October 2021
VOGUE | Where For Art Thou Libido? How To Handle A Postpartum Change In Sex Drive
PALEOMG | Episode: Let's Talk About Sex w/ Vanessa Marin

August 2021
GREATIST | Cum One, Cum All! How To Spice Up Your Sex Life In 10 Days

July 2021
HUFFPOST | How To Love Someone When You Don’t Love Having Sex With Them
LIFEHACKER | How To Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs (And Love It)
BUSTLE | The Ultimate Guide To Having Virtual Sex With Your Partner

June 2021
BUSINESS INSIDER AUSTRALIA | 12 Tips for Men to Last Longer in Bed

May 2021
BUSINESS INSIDER | How To Find The Clitoris And The Best Ways To Have A Clitoral Orgasm
HUFFPOST | How To Have Sex Again If COVID’s Left You Out Of Practice
HEALTH | How TO Find The Clitoris And The Best Ways To Have A Clitoral Orgasm
#ADULTING | Episode: Part 1: “Threesomes” | Sex-capades
#ADULTING | Episode: Part 2: “Sex Toys” | Sex-capades
#ADULTING | Episode: Part 3: “Fetishes & Fantasies” | Sex-capades

April 2021
THE ATLANTIC | The Tyranny Of The Female-Orgasm Industrial Complex
SCARY MOMMY | 7 Sex Hygiene Rules That Everyone Should Follow
YOU CAN SIP WITH US | Episode: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin
THAT NEW MOM LIFE | Episode: Getting Back to Sex and Intimacy

March 2021
INSIDER | What The Average Penis Size Is And If Partners Actually Think Bigger Is Better
GREATIST | Is it Sexual Frustration or Skin Hunger? We’ll Help You Find Out
INSIDER | 5 Sex Games For Couples That Will Make Sex Fun And Put You In The Mood
INSIDER | What The Average Penis Size Is And If Partners Actually Think Bigger Is Better
SLATE | When I Hoped For Lots of Sex, I Didn’t Mean It Like This!
INSIDER | Up Your Foreplay Game With These 9 Erogenous Zones That Can Turn Anyone On
WOMAN&HOME| The Exact Mood Lighting You Need To Maximize Your Chances Of Getting Laid
WELLANDGOOD | Cabin Fever Impacting Your Sex Life? Here Are 8 Ways To Create Mood Lighting in Your Home
I’M NOT YOUR SHRINK | Episode: Sex: Everything Else Has a Deadline

February 2021
PERMISSION TO CHOOSE | Podcast Episode: Permission To Choose Pleasure
INSTYLE | The 25 Best Sex Toys on the Market, According to Experts and Customer Reviews

December 2020
REFINERY29 | Lube Could Be Your Key To Better Orgasms – Here’s What You Need To Know
SCARY MOMMY | Don’t Be Embarrassed About Queefing During Sex


November 2020
HUFFINGTONPOST UK | I Went to ‘Orgasm School.’ Here’s What I Learned

October 2020
THE PAPAYA PODCAST | Episode: The One About Orgasms With Vanessa Marin
GIRL BONER RADIO | Episode: Incredible Orgasm Stories
VICE | How To Watch Porn With Your Partner For The First Time


September 2020
MIND BODY GREEN | 13 Reasons A Married Woman Might Not Be Interested In Sex
DIPSEA | Is Shame Affecting Your Sex Life?
REFINERY29 | How To Tell If You’re Having An Orgasm – Because It’s Not Always Obvious
FRONT ROW DADS | Episode: Mismatched Sex Drives
NEWSWEEK | Dr. Phil Pleads For People To Stop Calling Him ‘Daddy’ On TikTok


August 2020
RISE TOGETHER | Episode: Love In The Time of Corona
BUSTLE | The 8 Best Lazy Sex Positions
BUSTLE | 6 Quiet & Hot Sex Positions For Stealth Sex
HUFFPOST | How To Figure Out Your Sexual Fantasy, According To Sex Therapists
BUSTLE | Can A Marriage Survive Without Intimacy?


July 2020
SEX WITH DR. JESS | Episode: The 11 Sex Personality Types
BUSTLE | Sex Experts Explain What An Orgasm Feels Like For A Woman
MIND BODY GREEN | What Causes Sexless Relationships & How To Fix One, According To Sex Therapists
BUSTLE | A Guide To Romantic Crushes & When They Could Hit The Danger Zones
BETTER SEX PODCAST WITH JESSA ZIMMERMAN | Episode: Sex Personality Types


June 2020
FORBES | How To Build Better Virtual Connections
INSTYLE | Why Is Everyone Embarrassed To Admit They Like Vanilla Sex?


May 2020
HERSELF | Episode: HERself Expert: Vanessa Marin, Sex Therapist. All of Your Sex Questions, Answered
WELL AND GOOD | I’m A Couples Therapy, And These Are The 6 Biggest Communication Issues I See In Relationships 


April 2020
BUSTLE | How To Have Video and Phone Sex In A Long Distance Relationship, Because A GIrl’s Gotta Do What A Girl’s Gotta Do
HOW CUM / Podcast Episode #4: Love In Lockdown
SEX WITH EMILY | Podcast: Personally & Sexually Compatible With Vanessa Marin
SEXY MARRIAGE | Podcast Episode #461: Quarantine
SLUTS & SCHOLARS | Podcast Episode #136: Love in the Time of Corona with Vanessa Marin
TOO MUCH TO HANDLE | Relationship Troubles & Sex In Quarantine
YAHOO LIFESTYLE | 8 Ways To Have Sex With Your Partner Without Penetration
MENS HEALTH | How To Make Sure Your Partner Is Enjoying Sex As Much As You
NEW YORK TIMES | How To Help Your Relationship Survive A Lockdown


March 2020
LOVE LAB PODCAST | What Is Your Sexual Personality Type With Vanessa Marin 
SELF-CARE FOR EXTREMELY BUSY WOMEN | Podcast: Why Anyone Can (and Should) Have Great Sex with Vanessa Marin
GIRL, I SLEPT IN MY MAKEUP | Podcast Episode #17: Let’s Talk about Sex with Vanessa Marin
MINDBODYGREEN | How To Love Your Body: 20 Small Ways To Start Even When It’s Hard
GOTECHDAILY | 50 Example of Coverage Ideas You Can Use Right Now
REFINERY29 | Sexy Text Messages To Turn Your Lover On


February 2020
SEXY MARRIAGE | Podcast Episode #454: The Female Orgasm
SEX, LOVE, AND SUPERPOWERS | Podcast: Re-Igniting The Spark In The Bedroom
LIFEHACKER | The Worst First Date Mistakes (And How To Bounce Back)
PULSE | How 25 Different Women Define ‘Good Sex’ in 2020
HUFFPOST UK | ‘Everyone Gets To Orgasm Differently’ – 5 Women On Their Eureka Moments
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: My Boyfriend Does Not Orgasm When We Have Vaginal Intercourse


January 2020
DIARY OF A DOER | Podcast Episode #59: Knowing Thyself – Leading a Small Team with Vanessa Marin 
SHAPE | Tap Into These 7 Female Erogenous Zones for Whole-Body Pleasure
BRUT | What You Should Know About The Clitoris
YAHOO LIFESTYLE | How To Masturbate In Front Of Your Partner (And Feel Damn Good About It)
HUFFPOST | When Is The Right Time To Tell A Date That You’re Celibate?
THE TIMES | Ask Suzi Godson: Why Doesn’t My Boyfriend Like Oral Sex?
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Set Boundaries for Rough Sex With My Partner?

December 2019
ALLURE | A Sex Therapist’s Guide to Using Your Hands

November 2019
FROM MY HEART TO YOURS | Podcast Episode #43: Sex Therapist With Uncommon Sense
REFINERY29 | How To Handle Sex When A Long-Term Relationship Ends
IOL | What Is Orgasm Control And How Can It Improve Your Sex Life?
ELITE DAILY | 3 Reasons It’s Perfectly OK To Have Sex On The First Date
REFINERY29 | Go Ahead & Masturbate While Pregnant (If You Want To)
INSIDER | Most Women Don’t Orgasm Consistently, And It May Be Because They Can’t Quiet Their Minds
PULSE | 15 Reasons Morning Sex Is The BEST Sex—And How To Make It Hotter
HUFFPOST | These Are The 11 Sex Personality Types, According To A Sex Therapist


October 2019
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Best Support a Partner With Sexual Trauma?
MIND BODY GREEN | This Sex Therapist Has Identified 11 Unique Sex Personality Types
YAHOO LIFESTYLE | Why Do People Cheat? A Sex Therapist Has Some Fascinating Insight
BUSTLE | How To Touch A Woman & Finger Her Vagina, In 9 Beginner Steps
REFINERY29 | 5 Ways Masturbation Can Help Your Mental Health
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: Will Sexting Help Me Communicate Better In the Bedroom?


September 2019
SPEAKING OF SEX | Podcast: Libido, Lost and Found: An Interview with Vanessa Marin
HUFFPOST | How The Sex Technique ‘Karezza’ Could Revive Your Stale Relationship
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: My Sexual Partner and I Have Different Communication Styles
FOREVER35 | Podcast Ep 89: Let’s Talk About Sex with Vanessa Marin
REFINERY29 | 6 Signs You Just Had An Orgasm
GREATIST | What to Do If You’re (Hopelessly) Distracted During Sex
MIND BODY GREEN | How To Support A Partner Who’s Dealing With A Low Sex Drive
HUFFINGTON POST | Can You Actually Have An Orgasm In Your Sleep?


August 2019
OPRAH MAGAZINE | 13 Fun Sex Games for Couples to Try
REFINERY29 | How To Make Sure Your Tiny Apartment Doesn’t Ruin Your Sex Life
WELL AND GOOD | The Real Reason Mood Lighting Works Like A Romantic Magic Trick
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: Why Is It So Hard to Make Eye Contact During Sex?
MIC | How Long To Wait For Sex When You Really Like Someone
PULSE | How To Give The Best Blow Jobs He’ll Ever Have
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Deal With the Anxiety Caused by My Chronic UTIs?


July 2019
YOU TURN | Podcast Episode #72: How To Keep The Spark Alive In Your Relationship with Vanessa Marin
WOMENS HEALTH | 8 Tips For Giving The BEST Hand Job He’s Ever Had
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Tell My Partner What I Want in Bed?
PULSE | 46 Sex Positions Everyone Should Try In Their Lifetime
THE FRESH TOAST | Too Tired For Sex? Try These 5 Things
ELITE DAILY | 5 Reasons To Be On Top In Bed, Because You’ll Feel Like You’re On Top Of The World


June 2019
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Get Over My Religious Guilt About Sex?
GLAMOUR | Here’s Exactly How to Have Your First Orgasm If You’ve Never Had One
BUSTLE | 8 Sex Tips For Men Who Actually Want To Please A Woman, According To A Reader Question
YAHOO LIFESTYLE | Is This the Most Empowering Way to Try Oral Sex?
PULSE | 8 Tips For Giving The BEST Hand Job He’s Ever Had
INSTINCT MAGAZINE | Should Gays Do Away With The Term “Daddy?”
HUFFINGTON POST | Here’s Why You Queef During Sex. (Don’t Be Embarrassed, It’s Normal.)
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: I Masturbated a Lot and Now My Clit Is Numb. Should I Be Worried?
WELL AND GOOD | Guilt Sex Is When Doing It Feels Like A Total (Consensual) Chore, Minus The Allowance
PULSE | Why Watching Porn Is The Hottest Thing You Can Do With Your Partner


May 2019
HUFFINGTON POST | Here’s Why You Queef During Sex. (Don’t Be Embarrassed, It’s Normal.)
ELITE DAILY | 3 Zodiac Signs That Love Being Called “Daddy” In Bed, So Get Ready To Talk Dirty
SEXOLOGY – DR. MOALI | Podcast Episode #124: From Solo Sex to Partnered Sex
WELL AND GOOD | Podcast: The Busy-As-Hell Couple That Schedules Sex Together, Stays Together, Says One Pro
LIFE HACKER | What To Do If Your Partner Won’t Work On Your Sex Life?
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: Is My Sex Drive Low Because I Just Had a Baby, or Is It HSDD?
BUSTLE | 8 Ways To Tell Your Partner You Didn’t Orgasm
HUFFINGTON POST | How To Talk Dirty Without Being Awkward
SEX OUT LOUD WITH TRISTAN TAORMINO | Podcast: Vanessa Marin on Orgasm Potential
LET’S TALK WELLNESS NOW | Podcast Episode #15: Sexuality – Interview with Vanessa Marin


April 2019
YAHOO | How To Talk To A New Partner About Your Sexual Assault
INSIDER | 10 Pieces Of Advice For Helping A Partner Who Has Been Sexually Assaulted
BUSTLE | 8 Women & Non-Binary People On Why They Stopped Faking Orgasms
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: My Partner Struggles With Premature Ejaculation. How Can I Help Him?
THE STATE HORNET | SPICY TAKES: Overcoming Sexual Trauma
HUFFINGTON POST | 8 Women Share The Stories Of Their First Time Masturbating
BUSTLE | I Had Multiple Orgasms With My Partner For The First Time & Here’s How I Did It
ALLURE | Ask A Sex Therapist: If I’ve Never Enjoyed Sex, Does That Mean I’m Asexual?


March 2019
RISE TOGETHER | Podcast Episode #38: Five Things You’ve Always Wanted To Ask A Sex Therapist With Vanessa Marin
DAILY STAR | Sex Survey Reveals Which Porn Category Women Love Most
MASHABLE | A Beginner’s Guide To Sexting As Enthusiastic Consent
HUFFINGTON POST | 13 Podcasts About Love And Sex To Spice Up Your Commute
BUSTLE | How To Feel More Comfortable When You’re Receiving Oral Sex
MIND BODY GREEN | Why Do Women Love Lesbian Porn?
ALLURE | I’m Straight, But I Fantasize About Sex With Women When I’m With My Boyfriend
MIND BODY GREEN | 3 Reason You Feel Sad After Sex & What To Do About It


February 2019
MIND BODY GREEN | Yes, Men Can Get Emotional After Sex Too
COSMOPOLITAN | Sex on the First Date? Experts Say Hell Yes
COSMOPOLITAN | Everything You Need to Know About Phubbing
ALLURE | Ask A Sex Therapist: When Does Online Flirting Cross The Line Into Emotional Cheating?
MENS HEALTH | How to Know If You’re In A Rebound Relationship
SHAPE | Why Using the Word ‘We’ Is Good For Your Relationship
ALLURE | How To Open Your Relationship, According To A Sex Therapist
BUSTLE | 6 Ways Women Masturbate That You Might Not Know About
BROADLY | Not So Fast: Women Who Have Premature Orgasms Explain How They Deal
BUSTLE | 33 Women On How They Masturbate, Because There’s No Wrong Way To Do It


January 2019
BAD GIRL’S BIBLE | Podcast Episode #32: Struggling to Orgasm? Here’s the Solution with Vanessa Marin
VICE | How To Have A One Night Stand Without Being An Asshole
BULLET PROOF | The Definitive Guide To Better Orgasms For Women
SELF | Here’s What Sex Therapists Really Think About Netflix’s ‘Sex Education’
ALLURE | Why Oral Sex Could Trigger Anxiety For People With PTSD
REFINERY29 | All The Health Benefits Of Orgasms, Explained
ALLURE | How To Have Pain Free Anal Sex If Your Partner’s Dick Is Huge
REFINERY29 | 5 Fights Couples Therapists Want You To Stop Having In 2019

December 2018
HUFFINGTON POST | 7 Tips For Orgasming Together, According To Sex Experts
HUFFINGTON POST | 7 Sex Tips For Couples Looking To Get Kinkier In The New Year
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: How To Prepare For Oral Sex If Your Insecure About How Your Vagina Tastes
BUSTLE | 5 Things To Think About During Sex To Turn Yourself On
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: What To Do If Your Partner’s Sex Drive Is Lower Than Yours
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: What To Do If Your Partner’s Sex Drive Is Lower Than Yours
REFINERY29 | How To Watch Porn As A Couple
REFINERY29 | Slow Sex: The Key To Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet


November 2018
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: Is it OK to Ask My Boyfriend for Dick Pics If I Don’t Send Him Nudes Back?
BUSTLE | 7 Things To Know If You’ve Never Had An Orgasm, According To A Sex Therapist
HEALTH | 6 Times Celebrities Got Real About Masturbation
MUSCLE & FITNESS | 14 Ways You’re Good In Bed And Don’t Even Know It
REFINERY29 | How To Break In Your Brand-New Strap-On
BUSTLE | What To Do If Your Partner Doesn’t Orgasm With You, According To Experts


October 2018
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: Why Is My Vagina Always So Dry During Sex?
VICE | How to Talk Dirty in Bed, According to Porn Stars
ALLURE | Ask a Sex Therapist: How Do I Get Past the Pressure to Have Vacation Sex?
COSMOPOLITAN | Boost Your Orgasm Potential by Re-Upping Your Clitoris Knowledge
THE DAILY DOT | 8 Facts About Masturbation That You Probably Didn’t Learn In Sex Ed
BUSINESS INSIDER | 10 Ways To Get Out Of A Sexual Dry Spell In A Relationship
LOVEHONEY | Lovehoney Sex Expert Interview: Vanessa Marin
BELLESA CO | The 4 Biggest Myths About Female Orgasm, According To A Sex Therapist


September 2018
ALLURE | Uncircumcised Penises Are Totally Normal, and It’s Not OK To Shame a Partner Who’s Uncut
THRIVE GLOBAL | 5 Ways to Keep Social Media From Destroying Your Relationship
HUFFINGTON POST | The Sex Position That Always Works, Even If You’re Feeling Really Lazy
LIFEHACKER | How to Hack Your Mornings
REFINERY29 | What Is A Blended Orgasm & How Do I Have One?
BUZZFEED | The Female Orgasm Whisperer: 5 Crazy Facts About The Clitoris That Will Take You From “Almost” To THERE
SALON | Ilana’s Anorgasmia In “Broad City” Season 4 Will Be The Perfect Analogy For White Women’s Relationship With Trump
INSTINCT | Could Internet Porn Be Making Younger Men Impotent?
SPUTNIK | Men’s Health: The More Porn You Watch, the Less Sex You Have?


August 2018
ALLURE | Ask A Sex Therapist: My Boyfriend’s Love Of Porn Makes Me Feel Insecure – What Should I Do?
HUFFINGTON POST | 8 Reasons Sex May Be Painful For You
REFINERY29 | Your Sex Number Is Meaningful, But Not For The Reasons You Think
HUFFINGTON POST | This Quality Isn’t Sexy, But It Could Lead To A Better Sex Life
ALLURE | What Should I Do if My Partner Is Kinkier Than I Am?
INSIDER | 10 Answers To Sex Questions You’ve Been Too Embarrassed To Ask
GLOBAL NEWS | Constantly Fighting? Signs You And Your Partner Need Couples Therapy


July 2018
HARPER’S BAZAAR | Escaping The Seduction Of Your Smartphone
INSIDER | 10 Things You Should Always Do Before Sex If You Want To Have An Orgasm
DATINGADVICE | Sex Guru Vanessa Marin Wants Couples to Experience True Passion and Have More Fun in the Bedroom
COSMOPOLITAN | Forever On The Edge Of An Orgasm
ELITE DAILY | Should You Have Sex Before Or After Defining The Relationship? Here’s What Experts Say
HEALTH | 7 Ways To Have Sex When It’s Hot As Hell Out
METRO UK | Why Are So Many Women Watching Male Gay Porn?
INSIDER | How To Tell Someone You Cheated On Them In The Kindest Way Possible
ALLURE | Ask A Therapist: Help, I Can’t Tell If I Just Had My First Orgasm Or Not
INSIDER | Jada Pinkett Smith Said She Dealt With A Sex Addiction When She Was Younger —And The Affliction Is More Complicated Than You Think


June 2018
ALLURE | Ask A Sex Therapist: How Do I Ask My Partner For Oral Sex?
BUSTLE | 11 Waterproof Sex Toys To Try This Summer
MARIE CLAIRE | Marriage and #MeToo
ALLURE | How To Initiate Sex With Your Partner Without Feeling Awkward
HUFFINGTON POST | 7 Oral Sex Tips On How To Go Down On Her Like A Pro
COSMOPOLITAN | Why Can’t I Stop Teasing My Crush?
HUFFINGTON POST | Antidepressants Can Lower Your Sex Drive. Here’s How To Fix It
HUFFINGTON POST | 8 Questions Sex Therapists Get Asked Most Frequently


May 2018
ALLURE | Ask A Sex Therapist: How Do I Prioritize Sex In My Long-Term Relationship?
KINKLY | 7 Unique Ways To Celebrate Masturbation May
WELL + GOOD | How To Keep Your Sex Life Steamy (And Pain-Free) When You Have Endiometriosis
THE FRESH TOAST | The 5 Most Common Sexual Fantasies
MEN’S HEALTH AUSTRALIA | What Is Female Ejaculation
WOMEN’S HEALTH | 8 Bondage Sex Positions For When You Want To Get A Little Kinky
ALLURE | Ask A Sex Therapist: How Do I Tell My Partner I Fantasize About My Kink During Sex?
BELOW THE BUSH | How To Feel Less Anxious and More Confident
THE CUT | 11 Sex Therapists On What Their Clients Tell Them About Oral Sex
THE CUT | A Sex Therapist On How She’d Approach The Sexual Problems In On Chesil Beach
A PLUS | Study Shows Men In Long-Term Relationships Lose Interest In Sex Before Women
REFINERY29 | Can We Please Stop Blaming Women For Not Being Able To Orgasm?
ALLURE | Ask A Sex Therapist: How Do I Prioritize Sex In My Long-Term Relationship?


April 2018
REFINERY29 | How To Make Sure Your Tiny Apartment Doesn’t Ruin Your Sex Life
HUFFINGTON POST | 6 Of The Most Common Sexual Fantasies, According To Sex Therapists
REFINERY29 | How To Handle Sex When A Long-Term Relationship Ends
HUFFINGTON POST | 7 Habits Of Couples With The Hottest Sex Lives
WOMEN’S HEALTH | What Is Edging—And Will It Really Improve Your Sex Life?
YOUR TANGO | 9 New Things To Try In Bed (Without Actually Having Sex)
HUFFINGTON POST | 12 Sex Toys That Sex Therapists Say Will Change Your Life
ASKMEN | Why Asking Her To Masturbate Makes Her Uncomfortable
WOMEN’S HEALTH | 6 Sex Positions For When Your Partner Has A Small Penis
BUSTLE | 7 Sexual Insecurities You Can Officially Put To Bed
ELITE DAILY | What To Do If You Don’t Like Your Partner’s Friends, Without Fighting


March 2018
HUFFINGTON POST | The 10 Sex Mistakes People Make In Their 30s
BUSTLE | How To Get Back In The Moment During Sex When You’re Thinking About Your Body Insecurities
YOURTANGO | Why So Many Women Wish Sex Lasted Longer – And How Men Can Help Make That Happen
DAVID WYGANT PODCAST | In Search Of The Ultimate Female Orgasm


February 2018
POPSUGAR | 8 Natural (And Effective!) Ways To Make Your Sex Drive Skyrocket
REFINERY29 | Sex Therapy Might Not Be As Sexy As You Think
BUSINESS INSIDER | A Woman Tells Us What It’s Actually Like To See A Sex Therapist
BUSTLE | The Best Masturbation Techniques To Make Your Alone Time Even More Fun, According To Sex Experts
AUTOSTRADDLE | NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Sometimes Fakes Orgasms During Lesbian Sex
HUFFINGTON POST | Here’s What Sex Therapists Want Couple In Sexless Marriages To Know
ROMPER | Jenna Dewan Tatum Thinks Scheduling Sex Could Be A “Good Idea” & Many Moms Out There May Agree
NEW ZEALAND HERALD | Science Reveals Nine Ways Sex Benefit Your Health
CAFE MOM | 60-Year-Olds Are Having Better Sex Than Us & The Reason Why Totally Makes Sense
D’MARGE | The Best Sex Of Your Life: These Thirsty Researchers Think They Have The Answer
HUFFINGTON POST | This Is The Best Age For Sex For Men And Women
WOMEN’S HEALTH MAGAZINE | 6 Mind-Blowing Ways To Stimulate Your Clit
STUDYBREAKS | How To Tell Your Partner They’re Bad In Bed
WELL + GOOD | What Is It *Actually* Like To Meet With A Sex Therapist?
WOMEN’S HEALTH | 16 Sex Tricks Every Woman Should Try Before Her 40th Birthday


January 2018
MAXIM | ‘Daddy’ Is The New Milf, And Younger Women Can’t Get Enough Of Older Guys
BROADLY | What Happened When I Tried To Orgasm Every Way Possible
HUFFINGTON POST | 10 Signs You’re Headed For A Sexless Marriage
BUSTLE | What To Try If You Can Only Orgasm In One Sex Position
BRAVO TV | Would You Delete Your Social Media Accounts For Your Partner?

December 2017
GLAMOUR | When Can You Have Sex After Having A Baby? And Other Post-Birth Sex Questions Answered
WELL + GOOD | 5 Things You Need To Stop Feeling Bad About In Bed
BUSTLE | Do Vibrators Affect Your Ability To Orgasm? How Sex Toys Affect Your Climaxes Long-Term


November 2017
REFINERY29 | How To Deal If You Can’t Stand Your Partner’s BFF
VICE | Why Couples Fight More When They’re Having Less Sex


October 2017
REFINERY29 | The Best Way To Have The “Should We Try Long-Distance?” Chat
VICE | People Keep Asking Google How To Give A Woman an Orgasm, So Here’s The Definitive Answer From Experts
HEALTH | The Hottest Sex Scenes On Screen — And What You Can Learn From Them
BUSTLE | How Does Sex Affect Your Vagina? It’s Time To Debunk That “Loose” Myth
BUSTLE | These Women Who Have Never Had Orgasms Prove That You Don’t Have To Climax To Have A Fulfilling Sex Life
BUSTLE | Do Women’s Sex Drives Decrease With Age? These Myths About Female Sexualities Are More Problematic Than You Think
WOMEN’S HEALTH | Should You Tell Your S.O. If You’ve Never Orgasmed?
DAILY MAIL | Could You Still Be Waiting For Your First Real Orgasm?
COLLEGE CANDY | New Study Reveals Tips & Tricks On Achieving The Female Orgasm
MEL MAGAZINE | Fingering Is The Most Important Sex Act You’re Doing Wrong, Or Not At All


September 2017
ROLLING STONE | Is Internet Porn Making Young Men Impotent?
LIFEHACKER | How to Play With Breasts
NYLON | What To Say When You Want To Talk Dirty
BROADLY | A Sex Therapist Explains The Biggest Myths About The Female Orgasm
TONIC | You Can’t Get Addicted To A Vibrator
HUFFINGTON POST | 8 Underrated Qualities To Look For In A Spouse, According To Experts
HUFFINGTON POST | 8 Habits Of Couples In Sexually Satisfying Relationships
BUSTLE | How To Improve Your Chances Of Orgasming, According To Science
BUSTLE | Not All People With Vaginas Have Multiple Orgasms & This Sex Myth Is More Problematic Than You Think
HOLLYWOOD LIFE | How To Have Phone Sex: Experts Share Must-Know Tips


August 2017
REFINERY29 | Is It Bad To Masturbate The Same Way Each Time?
LIFEHACKER | What To Do If You’re A Woman Who Struggles To Orgasm
LIFEHACKER | How To Talk About Your Sex Life With Your Friends
TONIC | BSDM Can Provide Profound Healing Experiences
NYLON | What My Time As A Professional Masturbator Taught Me About Sexual Desire
ELITE DAILY | What’s Your Fantasy? How To Figure Out What Turns You On Sexually
GREATIST | Having Sex When You’re Tired AF, In 24 GIFs
HEALTH | Masturbation Relieves Anxiety, Helps You Sleep, And Boosts Your Sex Life. So Why Don’t More Women Do It?
BUSTLE | 7 Sex Toys That Will Teach You About Your Body And What You Want In Bed
BUSTLE | How Long Should Sex Last? However Long You Want It To Last
MEN’S HEALTH | How Often Should You Have Sex?
MEAWW | Here Is Another Perk To Being Single… You Could Have More Orgasms!


July 2017
LIFEHACKER | How To Schedule Sex And Still Enjoy It
LIFEHACKER | How To Talk to Older Kids About Sex
LIFEHACKER | The Effects Your Medications Are Having On Your Sex Life And What To Do About It
LIFEHACKER | The Adult’s Guide To Using Condoms
REFINERY29 | Yes, Lesbians Fake Orgasms, Too
HUFFINGTON POST | ‘Game Of Thrones’ Left Many Fans Wondering About Eunuchs
REDBOOK | Stop Making These 17 Excuses To Not Have Sex
BUSTLE | How To Improve Your Sex Life Through Masturbation
BUSTLE | 7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Getting Your First Sex Toy
BUSTLE | How Often Should Couples Have Sex? Having Less Sex Actually Improved My Sex Life
MEN’S FITNESS | I Get Seriously Nervous Having Sex With Someone New
MEN’S FITNESS | I’m Not That Sexually Experienced
MEN’S FITNESS | My Sex Drive Is Slowing Down


June 2017
REFINERY29 | Reminder: Pregnancy Sex Is Really Hot — & Yes, It’s Safe
REFINERY29 | How To Tell If You’re Having An Orgasm — Because It’s Not Always Obvious
LIFEHACKER | How Much Sex You “Should” Be Having
LIFEHACKER | What To Do If You’re A Guy Who Struggles To Orgasm
LIFEHACKER | How To Talk To Young Kids About Sex
LIFEHACKER | The Nice Person’s Introduction to Rough Sex
LIFEHACKER | Tough Love: How To Tell Your Loser Friend You Don’t Want To Hang Out Any More
ALLURE | 8 Things You Should Know Before Having Pregnancy Sex
SEXYFIT PODCAST | Episode #165: Sex, Lies, And Stereotypes With Vanessa Marin
WELL + GOOD | The Surprising Ways Sex Reduces Stress
BUSTLE | What To Do If Your Partner Can’t Come Because Of Their Medication
BUSTLE | What To Do If Your Partner Changes Their Mind About Period Sex
BUSTLE | If Your Partner Keeps Joking About A Fantasy, Does That Mean That They Want To Act On It?
BUSTLE | Have Trust Issues? Here’s How To Establish Healthy Trust With Your Partner
BUSTLE | Does Having A Crush Mean That You Should Break Up With Your Partner?
BUSTLE | Freaked Out That Your Partner Watches Porn? Here’s How To Handle It
BUSTLE | How Masturbation Is Keeping Me Sane During My Break From Sex & Dating
BUSTLE | The Number One Tip Sex Therapists Want You To Know
BUSTLE | I Only ‘Reciprocate’ Oral Sex When I Feel Like It, Not Because I Have To
BUSTLE | My Partner Doesn’t Want To Have Sex Anymore — What Should I Do?
MEN’S FITNESS | 9 Parts Of Her Body You Should Never Ignore


May 2017
REFINERY29 | Do You Need To Tell Your Partner When You’re Going To Orgasm?
TEEN VOGUE | Myths About Your Vagina You Should Not Believe
GLAMOUR | 4 Items That Make Anal Sex Way More Comfortable
COSMOPOLITAN | Why My Husband and I Went to Couples Therapy Before We Needed It — and You Should Too
POPSUGAR | I May Never Know if I Was Sexually Assaulted
FOX NEWS | How Achievable Is Simultaneous Orgasm, Really?
ROMPER | How To Sext With Your Partner To Get The Results You Want
BUSTLE | What Do Unusual Sexual Fantasies Mean?
BUSTLE | What Should You Do If Your Partner Can’t Orgasm & Blames You For It?
BUSTLE | Should You Be Worried If Your Partner Likes Rough Sex?
BUSTLE | Is Your Partner Uncomfortable With Receiving? Here’s How You Can Help Them Relax
BUSTLE | Should You Open Your Relationship If You Have A Crush On Someone Else?
BUSTLE | Worried That Your Partner Won’t Want To Try A Certain Sex Toy? Here’s How To Bring It Up With Them
BUSTLE | How To Figure Out How You Really Feel About Casual Sex
BUSTLE | 12 Millennial Women On The First Thing They Ever Masturbated With
BUSTLE | How To Avoid Being Ghosted
BUSTLE | When Your Partner Thinks It’s Casual, But You Want More, How Do You Walk Away?
BUSTLE | I Masturbated Before Work Every Day For Week & It Was A Gamechanger


April 2017
REDBOOK | 11 Tips To Get You In The Mood ASAP
ROMPER | What Is Anorgasmic? Not Enough People Are Talking About It
BUSTLE | How Long Should It Take To Orgasm?
BUSTLE | How To Use A Vibrator For The First Time
BUSTLE | Do You Get Distracted During Sex? Here’s How To Focus
BUSTLE | Is Crying After Sex Normal?
BUSTLE | How To Talk To A New Partner About Your Sexual Assault
BUSTLE | What To Do If Your Partner Orgasms Too Quickly
BUSTLE | 9 Questions Every Couple Should Answer Before They Get Married
BUSTLE | What Do Men Think About When They Masturbate? The Top Male Fantasies
BUSTLE | How To Manage Your Squirting
BUSTLE | How To Make It Clear You’re A Lesbian
BUSTLE | I Don’t Need To Be Engaged Right Now To Know I’ll Be With My Partner Forever, So Can Everyone Stop Pressuring Us?


March 2017
REFINERY29 | Why Some People Can’t Orgasm From Oral Sex
COSMOPOLITAN | 9 Must-Read Tips For First-Time Sex
GLAMOUR | How Achievable Is Simultaneous Orgasm, Really?
GLAMOUR | Yes, It’s Normal to Have Same-Sex Fantasies If You’re a Straight Woman – Here’s Why
REDBOOK | What It’s Really Like To Be A Sex Therapist
REDBOOK | The Dos and Don’ts Of Using Household Objects For Sex
UPROXX | A Therapist Explains How To *Really* Listen To Another Human Being
DAILY STAR | Most Women Fantasize About This During Sex – It Will Shock You
BUSTLE | 9 False Things We’ve Thought About Masturbation, Because Solo Sex Is A Completely Healthy Part Of Living
BUSTLE | 9 Questions To Ask Yourself When You Like Someone More Than They Like You
BUSTLE | How To Sext If Your Partner Is Way More Into It Than You Are
BUSTLE | How To Help Your Partner Feel Sexy Again
BUSTLE | Cowgirl Sex Tips For When Your Partner Is In A Wheelchair
BUSTLE | Unrealistic Sexual Expectations Women Have Of Men
BUSTLE | Signs You Have An Unhealthy Relationship With Love
BUSTLE | How To Sext If Your Partner Is Way More Into It Than You Are
BUSTLE | Guy Can’t Stay Hard With Condoms? Here’s What To Do
BUSTLE | Communicating With Your Third Before, During, & After A Threesome
BUSTLE | 9 Questions Every Couple Should Answer Before They Get Married
BUSTLE | Raven’s Orgasm Admission On ‘The Bachelor’ Was Groundbreaking — And I Should Know
DAILY STAR | This Is How To Give Her A Blended Orgasm – It Will Blow Her Mind
HUFFINGTON POST | Simultaneous Orgasms Are Happening More Than You Think, Says Survey


February 2017
REFINERY29 | Why This Sex Therapist Is A Fan Of Raven’s Orgasm Confession
REFINERY29 | How Watching The Bachelor With My Partner Improved Our Sex Life
UPROXX | A Sex Therapist Explains Your Most Common Sexual Issues (And What To Do About Them)
BROADLY | Follow Your Nose: The Science Behind Love, Sex, And Scent
COSMOPOLITAN | The Bachelor‘s Raven Just Revealed She’s Never Had an Orgasm — Here’s Why That’s a Big Deal
POPSUGAR | 3 Simple Tips to Having an Orgasm Every Time
COSMOPOLITAN | How To Give Your Partner a Rusty Trombone the Right Way
GLAMOUR | 4 Small Purchases That Can Completely Transform Your Sex Life
SHAPE | How to Orgasm Every Time, According to Science
HUFFINGTON POST | Couples Candidly (And Hilariously) Talk About The First Time They Had Sex
WOMEN’S HEALTH | 16 Sex Tricks Every Woman Should Try Before Her 40th Birthday
MEN’S FITNESS | The Classy Man’s Guide To Dating An Older Woman
MEN’S FITNESS | So You Want To Start Sexting? Here’s How To Do It Without Offending A Woman, Letting Your Penis End Up On The Internet, Or Ruining Your Relationship
MEN’S FITNESS | 9 Ways To Be A Straight-Up Legend In The Sack
MEL MAGAZINE | My Afternoon With A Masturbation Coach
BUSTLE | 15 Tips For Making Masturbation More Fun
BUSTLE | 7 Orgasm-Sabotaging Thoughts — And How To Talk Back To Them
BUSTLE | The 11 Top Sex Tips For Men Who Want To Be Good Lovers To Women
BUSTLE | How To Repair Your Sex Life After A Big Fight
BUSTLE | Simple Ways To Make Your Partner Feel More Appreciated
BUSTLE | The 7 Best Lesbian Group Sex Positions
BUSTLE | Am I Too Jealous For Non-Monogamy? Whether An Open Relationship Is For You
BUSTLE | 9 Hygiene Mistakes You Might Be Making Before, During, Or After Intimacy
BUSTLE | How To Pull Off A Sex Marathon, Because Things Can Get Worn Out Real Fast
WOMEN’S HEALTH | 5 Things You Always Need To Do After Anal Sex


January 2017
COSMOPOLITAN | 7 Shower Sex Struggles And How To Fix Them For Good
UPROXX | ‘You Don’t Need To Get Weird’ — A Sex Therapist Explains How To Have Your Best Sex Ever In 2017
REDBOOK | Here’s How to Masturbate, Because You Should Be Pleasing Yourself Already
MEN’S FITNESS | 8 Ways To Have Amazing Sex In Your 40s
MEN’S FITNESS | What’s A ‘Blended Orgasm’ And How Do I Give Her One?
SHE KNOWS | 8 Ways To Get Off Without Actually Having Sex
THE CHIVE | Sex Therapist Imparts Sound Advice That We Could All Take To The Bedroom
BUSTLE | Harmful Sex Myths That Are Ruining Your Fun
BUSTLE | Uncomfortable With Blow Jobs? 7 Tips For Giving Oral (If That’s What You Want)
BUSTLE | The 8 Best Exhibitionist Sex Positions For An Exciting View
BUSTLE | The 8 Best Sex Positions For Nipple Play (You’re Welcome)
BUSTLE | The Best Exercise Sex Positions For A Workout That Beats The Gym Anytime
BUSTLE | 8 Dominant Sex Positions For Women, Because Cowgirls Don’t Always Get The Blues
BUSTLE | How To Explore Your Sexuality & Give Feedback In Bed
BUSTLE | The 8 Hottest Sex Positions To Try In Front Of The Mirror
BUSTLE | How To Try Squirting With Your Girlfriend (Without Being A Jerk)
BUSTLE | Do Lesbian Dreams & Fantasies Mean I Like Women? How To Decode What You Desire IRL
BUSTLE | Problematic Things Men Say To Women In Bed — And How To Respond
BUSTLE | Why Does Sex Make Me Feel Guilty? How To Combat Religious Shame About Sex
BUSTLE | What To Do If Your Partner Wants You To Pee On Them


December 2016
GLAMOUR | 9 Tips For Feeling Confident & Less Self-Conscious In The Bedroom
TEEN VOGUE | 10 Things To Know About Sexual Assault, According To A Survivor
THE TELEGRAPH | How Your Relationship With Your Mother Can Impact Your Sex Life
COSMOPOLITAN | 8 Fingering Struggles And How To Solve Them
GLAMOUR | 6 Expert-Approved Masturbation Techniques To Spice Things Up…With Yourself
LIFEHACKER | How to Survive a Breakup During the Holidays
VICE | The Safest Way to Have Sex When You’re Fighting the Flu
COSMOPOLITAN | 10 Cunnilingus Problems and How to Fix Them
HUFFINGTON POST | 12 Ways To Have A Successful Threesome
MEN’S JOURNAL | How To Help Your Partner Orgasm If She Has a Small Clitoris
BUSTLE | How To Supercharge Your Sex Life In 2017, Because It’s Time To Be Open About Your Fantasies
BUSTLE | My Boyfriend Thinks He’s Too Small — What Should I Do? Tips For An Insecure Guy
BUSTLE | Obsessed With Your Partner’s Ex? Here’s How To Get A Handle On That
BUSTLE | 7 Fingering Sex Tips To Help Your Partner Rub You The Right Way
BUSTLE | Can You Prepare For Sex With Women When You’re New To It?
BUSTLE | Why Aren’t We Having Sex Now? How To Stop Fighting About Sexual Frequency


November 2016
REFINERY29 | Here’s Another Perk To Being Single: It Could Mean You Have More Orgasms
REFINERY29 | Das Kannst Du Tun, Wenn Du Schwierigkeiten Hast, Einen Orgasmus Zu Bekommen
LIFEHACKER | How to Survive a Breakup During the Holidays
LIFEHACKER | Why I Stopped Ghosting
THRILLIST | I’m A Sex Therapist Who Still Used An App To Connect With My Husband
REDBOOK | 7 Things You Should Never Tell People About Your Relationship
COSMOPOLITAN | 15 Ways to Heal After Experiencing Sexual Assault, According to Professionals
COSMOPOLITAN | 10 Common Blow Job Problems and How to Fix Them
BUSTLE | Why Can’t I Orgasm? 5 Possible Reasons You’re Not Getting Off As Much As You’d Like
THE MIRROR | Sex Therapist Explains Why Some Women Like To Call Men ‘Daddy’ In The Bedroom
ELITE DAILY | Sex Therapist Explains Why Some Women Call Their Partners ‘Daddy’ In Bed
THE SUN | This Is The Real Reason Women Call Out ‘Daddy’ During Sex
DAILY STAR | Here’s Why Women Call Out ‘Daddy’ During Sex
UPROXX | We Finally Know Why Some Women Call Men ‘Daddy’ During Sex
MAXIM | Here’s Why Women Call Men “Daddy” In Bed


October 2016
COSMOPOLITAN | 7 Forgotten Places Where Your Partner Should Be Touching You
COSMOPOLITAN | 6 Things Not to Do When Your Partner Cheats
COSMOPOLITAN | 8 Sex Hacks For When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes
COSMOPOLITAN | I Haven’t Had Sex in Weeks. I Blame Donald Trump
REDBOOK | 15 Easy Ways to Have Hotter Sex — Tonight
REDBOOK | Here’s Exactly How to Have An Orgasm
REDBOOK | Sex Therapists Share Their Best Tips So You Can Have Better Sex — Every Time
MEN’S FITNESS | Non-Standard Ways To Last Longer During Sex
FHM | Here’s What Sex Therapists Suggest Doing To Have The Best Sex
BUSTLE | What To Say In Bed When You Want To Communicate But Don’t Know Where To Start
BUSTLE | 7 Misconceptions About Lesbian Relationships
BUSTLE | 9 Ways To Get More Out Of Cowgirl, The Sex Position That Puts You In Charge


September 2016
THRILLIST | What I’ve Learned From 15 Years Of Teaching Women How To Orgasm
COSMOPOLITAN | What Is Your Vibrator Really Doing to Your Body?
COSMOPOLITAN | 6 Ways to Tell if Your Summer Fling Should Survive the Fall
MENS FITNESS | How To Help A Woman Have Her First Orgasm
BUSTLE | Why Don’t We Kiss & Make Out Anymore? 9 Ways To Bring More Smooching To Your Relationship
BUSTLE | The 8 Best Sex Positions For When You’re Tired, Lazy, Or Just Plain Tipsy
BUSTLE | 13 Sexy Domination & Submission Games To Play
BUSTLE | 10 Sexy Power Play Game Ideas To Try Tonight
BUSTLE | 8 Tips For Talking To Your Partner About Your Crazy Family
BUSTLE | Is Slipping Out During Sex Normal? 10 Tips For Slippage
BUSTLE | How To Explore Cuckolding & Humiliation Fetishes


August 2016
GLAMOUR | “What I Learned From Taking a Class About Orgasms”
GLAMOUR | What Your Clitoris Is Trying To Tell You
GLAMOUR | What To Do When The Relationship Is Great But The Sex Isn’t
GLAMOUR | Here’s The 411 On Female Ejaculation
COSMOPOLITAN | Happy Hour Podcast – I’ve Never Had An Orgasm
COSMOPOLITAN | 12 Things You Need to Know if You Can’t Orgasm
REFINERY29 | Orgasm Tips To Add To Your Sex Life Now
THE HUFFINGTON POST | 9 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Partner
THE HUFFINGTON POST | Anal Sex Tips: 12 Ways Beginners Can Find Ultimate Pleasure
OZY | 50 Shade Of Color: Check Out The Newest Festival Toy
NOTHING OFF LIMITS | Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin Dishes On The Female Orgasm
BUSTLE | Is Slipping Out During Sex Normal? 10 Tips For Slippage
BUSTLE | Should I Remove Pubic Hair For My Partner? 7 Ways To Negotiate One Hairy Question
BUSTLE | 6 Tips For Sex In Water, Because Safety Can Be Slippery
BUSTLE | 10 Camping Sex Tips, Because There’s More Than One Way To Enjoy Roughing It
BUSTLE | 8 Best Sex Positions For Domination, Because With Great Submission Comes Great Responsibility
BUSTLE | 8 Sex Tips For Smaller Penises, Because It’s All About How You Both Use It
BUSTLE | Is My Partner Too Controlling? 13 Questions To Ask Yourself To Help Figure It Out
BUSTLE | 13 Ways To Make Sex About More Than Just Penetration
BUSTLE | 7 Sex Positions That Will Become Your Faves
BUSTLE | The Best Vibrator For Sex & 7 Orgasmic Positions To Use It In


July 2016
GLAMOUR | How to Stimulate Your G-Spot From the Outside
THE TIMES OF LONDON | Would A Baby Bring Our Old Spark Back?
THE TIMES OF LONDON | How To Break The Ice With Your Partner’s Family
THE TIMES OF LONDON | My Boyfriend Has Sown The Seeds Of Doubt
THE TIMES OF LONDON | I’m Asexual. Am I Doomed To A Lonely Life?
LELO | Mutual Masturbation: Another Tool for Your Sex Toy Toolbox
VOCATIV | What Porn On Phones Means For The World of Adult Video
MEN’S FITNESS | How To Have Sex
BUSTLE | 7 Tips For Redefining Your Orgasm (And What That Means In The First Place)
BUSTLE | How To Slow Sex Down & Bring Sensuality Back To A Longterm Relationship
BUSTLE | 7 Sex “Fears” You Never Realized Were Common
BUSTLE | 7 Tips For Talking To Your Partner About Their Appearance
BUSTLE | 9 Tips For Children Of Divorce In Relationships With People Who Aren’t
BUSTLE | 9 Sex Tips For Big Penises, Because Well-Endowed Fun Should Also Be Well-Educated
BUSTLE | 10 Reasons For Crying During Sex — And What It Might Mean
BUSTLE | How To Negotiate Porn Boundaries In A Relationship
BUSTLE | 7 Signs That You & Your Partner Are Ready For A Threesome
BUSTLE | 10 Rules For Initiating Sex Without Coercion
BUSTLE | Make Sex More Fun With 10 Sex Therapist Approved Things You Haven’t Tried Yet In The Bedroom


June 2016
GLAMOUR | How Many People Have Wedding Night Sex, Really?
REFINERY29 | What You Should Know About Dating Someone With A Mental Health Problem
THE HUFFINGTON POST | 12 Tips To Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Happy
LIFEHACKER | How To Flirt With Finesse
THE TIMES OF LONDON | Help! I Don’t Get Any Pleasure From Sex
THE TIMES OF LONDON | I Love My Boyfriend — But Fancy Other Men
THE TIMES OF LONDON | My Boyfriend Doesn’t Like My Friends
THE TIMES OF LONDON | My Boyfriend Won’t Move For Me
BUSTLE | Am I Repressing Memories Of Sexual Abuse? 7 Things To Know Before You Freak Out
BUSTLE | How To Talk About Your Relationship’s Future
BUSTLE | The 10 Most Common Things Couples Fight About, According To A Sex Therapist
BUSTLE | Why Can’t I Come For My Boyfriend? What To Do If Your Partner Is Guilt-Tripping You About Your Orgasm
BUSTLE | How Do I Lose My Virginity? 7 Tips For Overcoming Fear Around Sex, When You’re Ready
BUSTLE | Should I Try Casual Sex If I’d Rather Have A Long Term Relationship?
BUSTLE | Am I Selfish In My Relationship? 5 Ways To Make Sure You’re Loving Fairly


May 2016
GLAMOUR | What To Do When You Can Orgasm Alone (But Not With A Partner)
ALLURE | 4 Ways to Feel More Comfortable Being Naked
NEW YORK MAGAZINE | Does She Have To Orgasm Every Time?
REFINERY29 | What Nobody Tells You About Sexless Marriage
REFINERY29 | 7 Signs It Might Be Time To See A Sex Therapist
REFINERY29 | 7 Positions For Hot Pregnancy Sex
THE TIMES OF LONDON | I Cheated. And Now I’m Sick With Guilt
THE TIMES OF LONDON | I Caught My Boyfriend Sexting Someone Else
THE TIMES OF LONDON | I’ve Had Enough Of Her Bouncing Bedsprings
THE HUFFINGTON POST | 10 Ways To Put The Sex Back In Your Sex Life
VICE | Why Women Like to Call Men ‘Daddy’ During Sex
OZY | High-Tech Orgasm Training For The Masses
MEN’S JOURNAL | How To Have Great Sex In Water
MEN’S FITNESS | 10 Sex Positions She Wants You To Stop
BUSTLE | 11 Tips For Fighting Fairly & Productively In A Relationship
BUSTLE | How To Know If Marriage Is For You
BUSTLE | What If I Can’t Fall In Love? 9 Questions To Ask Yourself If You’re Worried
BUSTLE | 6 Ways To Confront A Fear Of Commitment
BUSTLE | Should I Have Kids? 7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Make Any Decisions
BUSTLE | 12 Signs You Need Couples Counseling
BUSTLE | What To Do If Your Boyfriend Wants To Experiment With Men
BUSTLE | 8 Signs Someone Is Toxic In Bed
BUSTLE | 7 Tips For Losing Your Virginity To A Woman When You’ve Only Slept With Men
BUSTLE | Do Women Have More Complicated Libidos? 8 Things To Know About Your Sex Drive


April 2016
CNN | How Much Sex Should You Be Having?
REAL SIMPLE | How to Bring the Passion Back Into Your Sex Life
REAL SIMPLE THE LABOR OF LOVE PODCAST | Long-Term Sexual Satisfaction
HUFFINGTON POST | How To Orgasm Alone Or With A Partner
LIFEHACKER | The Worst First Date Mistakes and How to Bounce Back
REFINERY29 | 10 Sexts To Send To Your Partner Now
THE TIMES OF LONDON | My Sugar Daddy Is Pressuring Me For Sex
THE TIMES OF LONDON | My Child Is Sending Sexy Photos To A Boy
THE TIMES OF LONDON | Why Is Baby-Making Such A Passion Killer?
VICE | Why Cum Leaks from Your Vagina After Sex
MEN’S FITNESS | 15 Sex Positions To Try In The Gym
MEN’S FITNESS | 10 Best Sex Positions for Shy Guys
MEN’S FITNESS | The Best Raunchy Sex Positions
MEN’S FITNESS | The Best Romantic Sex Positions
MEN’S FITNESS | The Best Sex Positions For Well-Endowed Guys
ASKMEN | The Best Sex Positions
BTR TODAY | Epidemic Week: The Crusade Against Porn
BUSTLE | Should I Move With My Boyfriend? 12 Questions To Ask Before Relocating With A Partner
BUSTLE | A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Toys
BUSTLE | 11 Ways To Stay Sexually Connected When You’re In A Long Term Relationship
BUSTLE | Is “Lesbian Bed Death” Real Or A Myth?
BUSTLE | How To Explore Non-Monogamy In Your Relationship
BUSTLE | 9 Underrated Relationship Qualities You Shouldn’t Overlook
BUSTLE | How To Introduce Your Same-Sex Partner To Conservative Parents
BUSTLE | Why Women Who Are Cheated On Are Better Off In The Long Run


March 2016
REFINERY 29 | How Lamenting The “Orgasm Gap” Is Missing The Point
REFINERY29 | Reminder: Your Vagina Is Not A Ziploc Bag
GLAMOUR | Does Waiting to Have Sex Make for Happier Couples?
ADEQUATE MAN | Her Orgasm Is Not About You
THE TIMES OF LONDON | My Girlfriend Is Letting Our Cat Ruin Our Sex Life
THE TIMES OF LONDON | My Wife Says She’s Too Exhausted To Have Sex
THE TIMES OF LONDON | Why Is My Girlfriend So Lazy In Bed?
THE TIMES OF LONDON | Are You Ready For Monogamy?
MEN’S FITNESS | 15 Sex Positions She Wants You To Do That’ll Get Her Off Every Time
MEN’S FITNESS | 9 Sex Positions You Should Never Try
MEN’S FITNESS | 10 Moves You Haven’t Tried in Bed Yet—But Should
ASKMEN | Steps To Prepare For Anal Sex
SCIENCE, SEX, AND THE LADIES | Top-Notch Hand Lady-bation Instruction By Vanessa Marin
HEALTH | 19 Reasons You Don’t Want to Have Sex Anymore
BUSTLE | 11 Blowjob Tips For Sensitive Gag Reflexes & Small Mouths
BUSTLE | 6 Quiet & Hot Sex Positions For Stealth Sex
BUSTLE | Playing With A Guy’s Balls, In 11 (Gentle!) Dos & Don’ts
BUSTLE | How To Stop Imitating Porn & Performing During Sex
BUSTLE | 18 Moves To Seduce Your Partner When They Least Expect It
BUSTLE | 11 Signs You’re Selfish In Bed — Because It Isn’t Just A Guy Thing
BUSTLE | Only Orgasming With Strong Vibrators? 8 Steps To Regaining Sensitivity
BUSTLE | How To Touch A Guy’s Taint & Bum When He’s Nervous About The Idea
BUSTLE | How To Have Group Sex 101
BUSTLE | Attending Your First Sex Party? 12 Tips To Keep In Mind
DAILY MAIL | 7 Sex Myths That Are Ruining Your Sex Life


February 2016
REAL SIMPLE | 5 Ways To Get Out Of A Sex Rut, According To Experts
REFINERY29 | Step AWAY From The Vibrator… Maybe
THE TIMES OF LONDON | I Don’t Fancy My Husband Anymore
THE TIMES OF LONDON | Is It OK To Fantasize During Sex?
THE TIMES OF LONDON | Is Maintenance Sex Ever OK?
THE HUFFINGTON POST | This Is Your Orgasm On Antidepressants
THE HUFFINGTON POST | The Exhausting Reality Of Dating With An STI
PREVENTION MAGAZINE | “I’m Taking A Class On How To Have An Orgasm”
DEADSPIN | Should You Always Tell Your Partner If You Cheated?
LIFEHACKER | The Red Flags to Look Out for When You Start Dating Someone
PRESS GAZETTE | The Redesigned Sunday Times Magazine
MEN’S FITNESS | Masturbation: You’re Doing It Wrong
MEN’S FITNESS | 16 Sex Positions To Try In 2016
MEN’S FITNESS | 6 Ways To Discover Her Favorite Sex Positions
MEN’S JOURNAL | So You Want to Experiment Sexually…
PARENT HERALD | Sex After Pregnancy Better For New Moms
PACIFIC STANDARD | How Do You Make a Living, Video Therapist?
BUSTLE | How To Make Lube Application Feel Sexy Instead Of Awkward
BUSTLE | 6 Tips For Healthy Pregnancy Sex When Your Partner Is Afraid Of Hurting The Baby
BUSTLE | Why Can’t I Commit? 5 Causes Of Commitment Phobia — And How To Know Whether It’s Legit
BUSTLE | Why “Half” Or Disappearing Orgasms Happen — And What You Can Do About Them
BUSTLE | How To Touch A Clit (Specifically, Your Own)
BUSTLE | Why Can’t I Get Wet During Sex? 5 Reasons Your Lube Might Be Lacking
BUSTLE | 8 Ways To Use Foreplay To Feel Like A Horny Teenager Again
BUSTLE | How To Have A Threesome When You’re Afraid You’ll Freak Out In The Middle


January 2016
REFINERY29 | Our 30-Day Masturbation Challenge Is About To Change Your Sex Life
MAXIM | Website Urges Women To Masturbate Every Day For A Month
VICE | Dealing With A 40-Year Age Gap: What It’s Like To Date Across The Generations
STYLECASTER | 9 Foolproof Ways To Increase Your Sex Drive
GREATIST | Can You Have A Threesome And Still Have A Healthy Relationship?
THE DAILY DOT | The Blewit!, A New Sex Toy For Men, Promotes ‘Mindful Masturbation’
PARENTS | Sex After Baby: 7 Ways to Make It Better
LIFEHACKER | Kegel Exercises: A Simple Technique for Improving Your Orgasms
LIFEHACKER | The Dos And Don’ts Of Texting Someone You Want To Date
LIFEHACKER | The Straight Guy’s Guide To Anal Play
LIFEHACKER | How to Take Your Butt Play to the Next Level with Prostate Massage
LIFEHACKER | How to Have Anal Sex for the First Time
LIFEHACKER | Physical Therapy for Your Genitals: How to Train for Better Sex and Better Health
BUSTLE | The 7 Biggest Lessons I’ve Learned As A Sex Therapist
BUSTLE | 5 Tips For Pleasing Uncircumcised Penises (And The People Attached To Them)
BUSTLE | How Much Sex Is Healthy? How To Figure Out What’s Right For You & Your Relationship
BUSTLE | Can’t Come With A Partner? 7 Steps To Deal
BUSTLE | 6 Best MMF Threesome Sex Positions, Because Two Men Are Better Than One
BUSTLE | How To Make Sex Feel Like The First Time — Or At Least, New Again
BUSTLE | How To Talk About Orgasm With Your Partner & Deal With 7 Possible Reactions
BUSTLE | Experimenting With Non-Monogamy In Relationships, For Beginners

December 2015
REFINERY29 | Introducing “Settl,” The Dating App For Women Who Just Want To Get Married
MARIE CLAIRE | The 6 Online Therapy Courses You Need To Know About
ADEQUATE MAN | How To Find Ethical Porn
MIC | What Is It Like to Date Someone Who Physically Can’t Have Sex?
TORONTO SUN | The One-Year Itch: 4 Ways To Keep The Love Alive
EVERYDAY FEMINISM | 12 Reasons Why There’s Orgasm Inequity (And No, It’s Not That Women Are ‘Harder to Please’)
LIFEHACKER | The Beginner’s Guide To Butt Play
LIFEHACKER | The Beginner’s Guide To Putting Toys Up Your Butt
LIFEHACKER | How To Visit Family Without Being Treated Like A Kid
LIFEHACKER | Give the Gift of Great Sex with These Toys
ASKMEN | How To Have A Quickie At Work
MIC | This Is What It’s Liked To Be Shamed For Having Vaginismus
THE SOUTH AFRICAN | 10 Mysteries Of The Female Orgasm Debunked
BUSTLE | How To Enjoy Receiving Oral When You’re Used To A Vibrator
BUSTLE | Why Does Sex Feel Weird Sometimes? 6 Ways To Think About Your Body’s Varying Preferences
BUSTLE | 13 Reasons Masturbation Is A Feminist Act
BUSTLE | When Acting Out Sexual Fantasies Ends Up Awkward IRL, What Should You Do?
BUSTLE | 50 Example Sexting Ideas You Can Use Right Now
BUSTLE | When Acting Out Sexual Fantasies Ends Up Awkward IRL, What Should You Do?
BUSTLE | 9 Signs Your Relationship With Sex Might Be Unhealthy
BUSTLE | 7 Best FFM Threesome Sex Positions, Because 3 Is A Hot Crowd
BUSTLE | 6 Tips For Bringing Someone Home For The Holidays


November 2015
ELLE | This New Orgasm Technique Is Driving The Internet Wild
GLAMOUR | How to Talk About Your Sexual Past: An Expert Tells Us What to Say, and What Not To
HUFFINGTON POST | Sex Headache: Dealing With Head Pain Before, During Or After Sex
BUSTLE | The ONE Thing You Should Do To Make Masturbation Better
BUSTLE | 8 Signs You Need Sex Therapy (Or Could At Least Benefit From It)
LIFEHACKER | How To Stop Getting So Damn Distracted During Sex
BUSTLE | Do We Need Sex Therapy? 11 Signs Your Relationship Could Benefit
BUSTLE | Boyfriend Scared Of Period Sex? Here Are 9 Ways To Help Him GTF Over It
LIFEHACKER | Do This Tonight, Same-Sex Couples: Play “The Comparison Game” For Better Sex
BUSTLE | 8 Ways To Be Submissive In Bed When You’re Just Starting To Experiment With Being Dominated
LIFEHACKER | What To Do If You Cheated On Your Partner, But Want To Stay Together
BUSTLE | 7 Things You Should Never Do In Bed Unless They Ask
BUSTLE | 13 Tips For Breaking Up With Someone Compassionately
CHEATSHEET | Sex Fasts: Is This New Trend Right for You?
BUSTLE | 7 Masturbation Mistakes You’re Making
BUSTLE | Girlfriend Afraid Of Period Sex? Here Are 7 Ways To Help Her Experience Its Joys
BUSTLE | 11 Tips For Masturbating When You Live With Roommates
BUSTLE | How To Be A Good Sexual Partner To Someone Who’s Been Abused
BUSTLE | 6 Ways To Apply Yoga Principles To Your Sex Life, Because Some Postures Are Meant For The Bedroom
BUSTLE | 6 Things You Should Never Say Or Do When You’re Naked


October 2015
REFINERY29 | Should You Go On A “Sex Fast”? A Therapist Weighs In
THRILLIST | So You’re In A Relationship And Thinking About Cheating…
BUSTLE I WANT IT THAT WAY PODCAST | Episode 12: Worst Sex Stories And How To Fix Bad Sex
BUSTLE | 11 Ways To Make Sex More Fun, Intense, And Intimate
LIFEHACKER | This Tiny Vibrator Gives Your Clit Hands-Free Lovin’ During Sex
INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS TIMES | Terry Crews Says 90-Day Sex Abstinence Fixed His Marriage
BUSTLE | How To Fix Bad Sex With Your Partner
BUSTLE | What Do Cheating Fantasies Mean? 6 Reasons You Might Be Thinking About Straying
LIFEHACKER | How To Stay Sane When Both You And Your Significant Other Work From Home
BUSTLE | 6 Tips For Girl On Top, AKA The Sex Position For Grown-Ass Women
BUSTLE | Sex Positions For The Female Orgasm
LIFEHACKER | All The Ways Birth Control Pills Can Affect Your Sex Life, For Better Or Worse
BUSTLE | 8 Sex Tips For Men Who Actually Want To Please A Woman
BUSTLE | The 6 Best G-Spot Sex Positions
LIFEHACKER | What To Do When You Find Out You’ve Been Cheated On
BUSTLE | Sexual Abuse & Rape Triggers Are Real, So Here Are 5 Ways To Deal In The Moment
LIFEHACKER | Why I Don’t Recommend Buying Sex Toys On Amazon
BUSTLE | 6 Sex Positions For Clitoral Stimulation, Because You Gotta Rub It The Right Way
BUSTLE | Can’t Orgasm During Sex? What To Do If You Can Only Come From Masturbation
BUSTLE | Enjoying Sex After Abuse Is Possible, So Here Are 5 Ways To Start Healing
BUSTLE | Why Doesn’t My Boyfriend Want Me? 7 Steps To Take When Your Partner’s Sex Drive Disappears


September 2015
HUFFINGTON POST | Sex Shops In Canada: 12 Reasons To Check Them Out This Fall
VICE | Get Ready For The Quantified Sex Competition
REFINERY29 | Should Your Summer Fling Last?
BOING BOING | Lifehacker Reviews The Womanizer – It Will “Give You One Of The Best Orgasms Of Your Life”
BUSTLE | 5 Best Sex Positions For Experts
LIFEHACKER | How to Prevent Masturbation from Ruining Your Relationship
BUSTLE | What’s Sex Therapy Really Like? 7 Things To Know Before You Book An Appointment
LIFEHACKER | The Tenga Flip Hole Will Change Your Mind About Male Masturbators
BUSTLE | When Should I Have Sex? 7 Dos & Don’ts For Honoring Your Own Desire
LIFEHACKER | This Ridiculous Toy Will Give You One of the Best Orgasms of Your Life
BUSTLE | Is Having Rough Sex OK? 7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Have Some Fun
BUSTLE | Sex Positions For Small Penises
LIFEHACKER | Bring Back Dry Humping
BUSTLE | Am I Lesbian Or Bi If I Have Fantasies About Women? 7 Ways To Better Understand Your Desire
LIFEHACKER | How To Make A Sex Tape That Doesn’t Suck
BUSTLE | 4 Ways To Orgasm No Matter What Size He Is
LIFEHACKER | How To Tell A Potential Partner You Have An STI
BUSTLE | What To Do If Your Partner Is Into Something You’re Not, Sexually-Speaking
LIFEHACKER | Ask These Two Questions to Stop Relationship Bickering in Its Tracks
BUSTLE | How To Come At The Same Time (Even Though Simultaneous Orgasms Are Overrated)
BUSTLE | Sex Positions to Make Him Last Longer
LIFEHACKER | How To Have Sex When One Of You Is Significantly Taller Than The Other
BUSTLE | What Counts As Cheating In A Relationship? 8 Questions To Help You Define The Boundaries
BUSTLE | The 7 Best Flexible Sex Positions For Strong & Limber Lovers
MEN’S JOURNAL | 15 Sex Tips To Avoid At All Costs
BUSTLE | Am I Good In Bed? 9 Signs You’re A Great Lay
BUSTLE | Why Can’t I Come? 6 Reasons Your Orgasm Can Get Blocked & What To Do About It


August 2015
REFINERY29 | Should You Have A Threesome? An Infograph
LIFEHACKER | The Shy Person’s Guide To Sharing Your Sexual Fantasies
BUSTLE | How Much Foreplay Is Normal? 6 Things To Remember About Your Right To Warm Up
LIFEHACKER | How To Ask Your Partner For Sex So They’ll Enthusiastically Say Yes
GQ | Les Mots Pour Le Dire : Parler Avant, Pendant, Apres L’Amour
ASKMEN | Tongue Tricks: 10 Things Every Guy Should Know How To Do With His Tongue
BUSTLE | 6 Sex Positions For Smaller Penises & More Sensation In General, Because It Really Is All About How You Use It
LIFEHACKER | Bacterial Vaginosis: A Very Common Infection You Should Know About
BUSTLE | Wedding Night Sex Doesn’t Have To Be Perfect, So Here Are 6 Ways To Deal With The Pressure
LIFEHACKER | How to Make Your Sexual Fantasies A Reality
BUSTLE | How To Touch A Woman & Finger Her Vagina, In 8 Beginner Steps
LIFEHACKER | How to Take Care of Your Foreskin: A Guide for Uncircumcised Men
BUSTLE | Pain During Sex & BDSM Can Be A Lot Of Fun — So Here Are 8 Sensation Play Ideas To Get You Started
LIFEHACKER | The Advanced Guide to Getting Rid of Your Pubic Hair
BUSTLE | Nipple Play Orgasms Are Possible, So Here’s How To Take Your Nip Game To The Next Level
LIFEHACKER | Orgasms Aren’t Everything: How to Be Good When Someone Doesn’t Get Off
BUSTLE | How To Kiss Someone Well, In 8 Tongue-Tying Steps
LIFEHACKER | The Sportsheets Restraint System Will Fulfill All Your Bondage Dreams
BUSTLE | 7 Sex Acts For A Better Orgasm, Because It’s Time To Take It To The Next Level
LIFEHACKER | What To Do When You Think A Friend Is Being Cheated On
BUSTLE | 5 Reasons Sex After Moving In Together Can Slow Down & What You Can Do About It
LIFEHACKER | How to Have a Super Intense Squirting Orgasm
BUSTLE | How To Move During Sex, Because Intercourse Should Feel Fun & Free
HER WORLD | How To Tell If You Are “Addicted To Love”
HER WORLD | Top 9 Signs He Wants To Be In A Relationship With You
HER WORLD | How To Change Your Man And 8 Tips On What To Say To Him


July 2015
THE NEW YORK TIMES | Why Did Bill Cosby Want To Have Sex With Comatose Women?
BUSTLE | Help! He Comes Too Quickly When We’re Having Sex — What Should I Do?
LIFEHACKER | Why The IUD Could Be Your Perfect Birth Control Method
BUSTLE | The Sex Is Bad But I Love Him — What Should I Do? 6 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Make A Decision
LIFEHACKER | How Masturbation Can Help You Orgasm With A Partner
BUSTLE | How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time — A 6 Step Guide
LIFEHACKER | How To Craft The Perfect Sex Playlist (Plus Some Song Recommendations)
BUSTLE | What Does An Orgasm Feel Like For A Woman? 6 Things To Know About Coming
LIFEHACKER | Everything You Need to Know to Give Earth-Shattering Blowjobs
BUSTLE | Having Sex At Home Without Your Parents Knowing, In 6 Privacy-Boosting Steps
MEN’S JOURNAL | The Best Lubricants for All-Natural Sex
BUSTLE | 8 Ways To Seduce Your Man Or Woman When You’re In A Longterm Relationship
LIFEHACKER | How To Have Sex On The Beach
BUSTLE | 8 Ways To Seduce Your Man Or Woman When You’re In A Longterm Relationship
BUSTLE | How To Make Him Come Faster, Because Sometimes You Just Need To Switch Positions Or Grab His Butt
BUSTLE | The 6 Best G-Spot Sex Positions For Hitting It So You Won’t Want To Quit It
LIFEHACKER | A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator
BUSTLE | Are We Sexually Compatible? 6 Signs You’ll Have Good Long-Term Chemistry With Someone
BUSTLE | What’s A Hooded Clitoris And How Do You Know You Have One? 4 Questions About ‘Embedded’ Clits, Answered
ASKMEN | Rules For A Successful One Night Stand (For You And Her)
LIFEHACKER | Do This Tonight: Play This Game To Be More Present During Sex
BUSTLE | 7 Signs You & Your Bae Should Take A Break, Because Humans Need Space Sometimes


June 2015
HUFFINGTON POST | Life Stressing You Out? Work Off That Energy In The Bedroom
BUZZFEED | 7 Things Sexually Active Women Should Know How To Say Out Loud
HUFFINGTON POST | 10 Tips For First-Time Sex
REFINERY 29 | This Is How Much Porn Women Your Age Really Watch
SHAPE | 5 Cool Ideas For Sensationally Hot Sex
LIFEHACKER | How to Become a Cunnilingus Master
BUZZFEED | 7 Ways To Instantly Up Your Sex Game
LIFEHACKER | A Woman’s Guide to Learning to Love Masturbation
BUSTLE | How To Stop Being Jealous In A New Relationship After You’ve Been Cheated On
HUFFINGTON POST | Sex Tips For Your Zodiac Sign
BUSTLE | Are We Sexually Compatible? 6 Signs You’ll Have Good Long-Term Chemistry With Someone
LIFEHACKER | No, Sex Shouldn’t Hurt: What to Do if You’re Experiencing Sexual Pain
ASKMEN | Life Stressing You Out? Work Off That Energy In The Bedroom
BUSTLE | 8 Ways To Get Turned On And Be More In The Moment During Sex — Without Forcing Anything
LIFEHACKER | Holding Your Own: How to Alter Your Masturbation Routine for Better Sex
BUSTLE | How To Ask To Dominate Someone, In 5 Empowering And Consenting Steps
LIFEHACKER | The World’s First Vibrator for Guys Isn’t just a Marketing Gimmick
BUSTLE | Having Stronger Female Orgasms, In 9 Toe-Curling Steps
LIFEHACKER | How To Have A Sex Life When You’re Dealing With Injuries And Illnesses
BUSTLE | Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety About Orgasming, In 6 Steps
LIFEHACKER | How Do You Get Feedback From Your Partners?
ASKMEN | Signs She’s Faking Her Orgasms
LIFEHACKER | The Adult’s Guide to Losing Your Virginity
SHEKNOWS | 7 Lousy Reasons Women Aren’t Achieving Orgasm


May 2015
HUFFINGTON POST | How To Orgasm Without Stress
BUZZFEED | 7 Ways To Instantly Up Your Sex Game
BUSTLE | What Are Open Relationship Rules Like? Negotiating Non-Monogamous Boundaries, In 8 Steps
BUZZFEED | Our Secret Sex Questions Get Answered By Someone Who Actually Knows
LIFEHACKER | How To Become Comfortable Talking About Sex When You Never Have Before
THE INDEPENDENT UK | A Sex Therapist Did An AMA. Here’s What She Had To Say
BUSTLE | How To Go Down On A Girl For The First Time, In 7 Sexy Steps
LIFEHACKER | How To Prevent Your Cell Phone From Ruining Your Relationship
ASKMEN | Anal Sex Dos & Don’ts
BUSTLE | Is Watching Porn Bad For Relationships? What To Do If Your Partner Has A Serious Habit
LIFEHACKER | How To Find The Perfect Lube For Any Kind of Sex
BUSTLE | 6 Ways To Make Sex More Interesting When You’re In A Longterm Relationship
LIFEHACKER | Do This Tonight: The Flipped Missionary (Or “Butts Up”)
BUSTLE | Buying Your First Vibrator, In 7 Easy Steps — Because Your Know That Purchase Is Not Refundable
SHEKNOWS | The Reason We Love Dirty Talk — Finally Explained
LIFEHACKER | What Are The Worst Porn Moves To Try In Real Life?
VULTURE | 6 Sexperts on Grey Worm and Missandei’s Future As a Couple
VOCATIV | Sex And The Valley: Tech Guys Seek Expert Love Advice From Therapists
LIFEHACKER | A Lady’s Guide to Getting to Know Your Genitals
MEN’S JOURNAL | Sex Positions For Athletes
KIIS 106.5 | These Five Sex Positions Will Ensure Female Orgasm


April 2015
BUSTLE | The 10 Best Hand Job Tips To Remember Next Time You Want To Take Him For A Ride
LIFEHACKER | How To Have A Healthy Relationship With Porn
CURVY GIRL HEALTH | Bringing Sexy Back with Vanessa Marin, Sex Therapist
LIFEHACKER | Why Your Partner Ignores Your Sexual Requests
BUSTLE | What Are My Sexual Fantasies, Anyway? How To Figure Out What Turns You On
LIFEHACKER | The Simplest Way To Orgasm If Penetration Isn’t Enough For You
BUSTLE | How To Have Sex Honestly, In 7 Authentic Steps
LIFEHACKER | What To Do If You Feel Too Bloated For Sex, But You’re Still Horny
BUSTLE | Is Having A Crush Cheating? 7 Questions To Ask Yourself When You Have Feelings For Someone Else
REDBOOK | Sex Mistakes Men Make
LIFEHACKER | What Do You Think Are The Most Underrated Sex Acts?
BUSTLE | Guys Not Giving Oral Sex But Expecting It In Return? 7 Ways To Deal When Men Avoid Cunnilingus
LIFEHACKER | Sex Toy Review: The Njoy Pure Wand Delivers Amazing G-Spot Orgasms
BUSTLE | The 7 Best Sex Positions For Well-Endowed Men, Because Bigger Certainly Isn’t Easier
LIFEHACKER | Do This Tonight: Finger Her, And Only Finger Her
ASKMEN | Using Sex To Fight Stress
LIFEHACKER | The Crave Flex Series: The Perfect Sex Toys For The Data-Driven Lady
LIFEHACKER | Fun Facts About the Female Orgasm, Explained with Science Projects


March 2015
HUFFINGTON POST | ‘It’s A Basic Human Need’: Indian Women Talk Openly About Masturbation
BUSTLE | Why Can’t Guys Come Sometimes? 7 Reasons For Delayed Orgasm In Men — And How To Talk About It
SALON | Are Smartphones Really Ruining Our Sex Lives?
GIZMODO | Why The Minna Life Limon Is The Best Sex Toy Around
BUSTLE | “6 Inventions That Changed The Way You Have Sex” BuzzFeed Video Proves We’ve Gotten Crafty About Our Sexy Time
BUSTLE | Am I Asexual? 7 Facts You Should Know About This Commonly Misunderstood Orientation
LIFEHACKER | Sex Toy Review: The Minna Life Limon Is My Favorite Vibrator Ever
BUSTLE | How Do I Relax During Oral Sex? 7 Ways Women Can Learn How To Receive Pleasure
LIFEHACKER | How to Confidently Buy Lingerie Your Girlfriend Will Want To Wear
BUZZFEED | How Do Women Orgasm?
LIFEHACKER | How to Identify Your Partner’s “Libido Type” and Get Better In Bed
BUSTLE | BuzzFeed’s “How Do Women Orgasm?” Video Demystifies The Female Orgasm
LIFEHACKER | How to Have Shower Sex Without Hurting Yourself
HUFFINGTON POST | Sex For Pregnancy: 11 Tips For Baby Making
LIFEHACKER | What Do You Think Are The Most Overrated Sex Acts?
BUSTLE | 6 Ways To Deal With A Sexless Relationship, Even Though It’s Not Your Fault
LIFEHACKER | How To Keep Your Sex Drive Up After A Long Day At Work
BUSTLE | Can You Have Casual Sex Without Feelings? 9 Ways To Keep It No-Strings When You Tend To Get Attached
LIFEHACKER | How To Prevent Your Pet From Ruining Your Sex Life
MEN’S JOURNAL | How To Prioritize Sex In Your Relationship
YAHOO | How To Prioritize Sex In Your Relationship
LIFEHACKER | Welcome Back to Lifehacker: After Hours. Let’s Get Sexy
BUSTLE | 7 Dos And Don’ts Of Communicating During Sex, Because We’re All Vulnerable In Bed
LIVE YOUR VIE | The 7 Sex Questions Every Couple Has To Answe
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February 2015
BUSTLE | How To Have Sex Like ‘Fifty Shades’ Ana & Christian, In 7 Simple Steps
REFINERY29 | Expert Life Hacks You Need But Haven’t Heard
SHE KNOWS | The Real-Life Answer To How Often Couples Should Have Sex
BUSTLE | 8 Reasons Talking Dirty In Bed Is Good For Your Relationship
REDBOOK | The Lazy (And Tired) Woman’s Guide To Sex
ASK MEN | Make-Up Sex: If You Need To Apologize For Something, Here’s How To Do It Right (In Bed)
BUSTLE | The 5 Best Sex Positions For Beginners (Or Anyone Who Can Appreciate Getting Back To Basics)
FIT PREGNANCY | 11 Ways to Feel Sexy in Your Post-Baby Body
BUSTLE | 11 Adventurous Sexy Things Anyone Should Try On Valentine’s Day, Because Spicing Things Up Doesn’t Have To Be Scary
JE JOUE | The Eyes Have It… The Key to Powerful Intimacy?
YOU BEAUTY | How To Have Anal Sex: 4 Ways to Make It Comfortable
BUSTLE | Wondering What Kind Of Vibrator Should You Buy? 5 Reasons A Crowdfunded Sex Toy Is Actually Your Best Bet
SHAPE | 7 Kinky Upgrades for Your Sex Life
PROGRESO WEEKLY | The Legacy Of Sexual Revolution And How It Affects The Society


January 2015
JEZEBEL | How To Have Maintenance Sex
BUSTLE | Can’t Orgasm During Sex? 7 Ways To Let Go And Let Your Partner Pleasure You
HUFFINGTON POST | Female Masturbation: 11 Ways To Turn Yourself On
REFINERY29 | I Don’t Think I Sleep With Too Many People, But My Friends Do
LIFEHACKER | Ask An Expert: All About Better Communication In The Bedroom
BUSTLE | 7 Ways To Feel Better Naked and Feel More Comfortable With Your Body in Bed, Because Life’s Too Short To Be Insecure
REFINERY29 | Your Year In Sex Resolutions: 12 Ways To Keep Things Fresh
BUSTLE | What To Do After He Cheats And You Can’t Stop Thinking About The Other Woman
ASK MEN | Having More Sex In 2015
BUSTLE | How To Have A Sex Life After Birth, Because Having a Baby Really Does Change Everything
FILTHY DIRTY | 12 New Years Resolutions You Will Be Happy To Keep
SHE KNOWS | 20 Quiet Sex Tips For When Your Kids Go To Sleep
YAHOO | Your Year In Sex
MSN HEALTH | Your Year In Sex Resolutions: 12 Ways To Keep Things Fresh
CURVY GIRL HEALTH | How Do You Know If You’re Sexually Compatible?

December 2014
BUSTLE | How To Talk About Commitment With Someone You Just Started Dating (Before You Even Have Sex)
ASK MEN | Holiday Sex: Don’t Let Your Love Life Go Cold This Winter
SHAPE | Life Without Orgasm
BUSTLE | 42 Sexy Gift Ideas for Your Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Friends, and Even Yourself
YAHOO | 4 Things You Never Knew You Could Get Hooked On
BUSTLE | Does Stress Kill Your Libido? How To Protect Your Sex Drive During Difficult And Busy Times
REDBOOK | The Most Dangerous Words To Say In A Marriage
GOOD HOUSEKEEPING | The Most Dangerous Words To Say In A Marriage
BUSTLE | How To Have Video and Phone Sex in a Long Distance Relationship
SHEKNOWS | 8 Ways To Get Off Without Sex
BUSTLE | The 7 Best Sex Positions To Help Him Last Longer in Bed, Because Really, Can You Blame Him?


November 2014
PSYCHOLOGY TODAY | How To Save Your Sex Life From The Holiday Season
BUSTLE | 11 Ways You Know You’re Ready To Have Sex With Someone New
COINED LIFE | Ladies We Love: Vanessa Marin
THE STIR | 5 Things All Unhappily Married Couples Do
BUSTLE | The 7 Best Places To Have Sex Without (Hopefully) Ending Up In Jail
REFINERY29 | Life Without Orgasm: 3 Women Share Their Stories
XOJANE | What To Do When Sex Hurts
BUSTLE | 6 Tips For Having A Threesome Without Ruining Your Relationship In The Process
MIC | 8 Facts That Put The Biggest Myths About Sex Toys To Bed
HER WORLD MAGAZINE | Get A 50-50 Marriage
BUSTLE | Should I Have Sex, Or Am I Just Lonely? 9 Not-So-Good Reasons For Hooking Up
NEW YORK MAGAZINE | Expert Advice For A 28-Year Old Virgin


October 2014
BUSTLE | The Best Inexpensive Sex Toys
BUSTLE | 7 Steps To Preventing Pain So You Can Enjoy Yourself In The Sack
ABOUT.COM | How Often Should You Be Having Sex?
BUSTLE | Where To Find Porn For Women And Female-Friendly Erotica That Won’t Turn You Off
FILTHY DIRTY | SOS: Save Our Sex! A Sex Therapist’s Guide To Hot Hot Heat


September 2014
XOJANE | How To “Try Something New” In Bed Without Leaving Your House or Buying Any Special Equipment
FILTHY DIRTY | Vanessa Marin, Licensed Sex Therapist
NEWLYWEDS | How Often Should You Be Having Sex?
BUSTLE | How To Role-Play In Bed
NY MAG | Blood Hounds: They’re Obsessed With Period Sex
ASKMEN | 30 Skills All Men Should Master Before Age 30
BUSTLE | Is There Something Wrong With Me? How To Have A Healthier Relationship With Your Sexuality
VIDA Y ESTILO | Preguntas Sexuales Que Debes Hacerte Antes De Casarte
ELEPHANT JOURNAL | When She Wants It More: What To Do When A Woman Has A Higher Sex Drive Than Her Man
PSYCHOLOGY TODAY | 7 Sex Questions You Have To Ask Before You Get Married


August 2014
BUSTLE | How To Be Intimate With Someone: 11 Ways To Have More Intimacy And Less Boredom
BUSTLE | How Often Should I Have Sex? How To Deal When Sex Slows Down In A Relationship
XOJANE | 11 Easy Ways To Maintain A Healthy Relationship With Your Vibrator
BUSTLE | How To Deal With Embarrassing Sex Stuff
BUSTLE | How Long Should It Take A Woman To Come? How To Stop Worrying, And Start Orgasming
XOJANE | 8 Simple Techniques To Stop Hating Your Body During Sex
ALTERNET | 8 Simple Techniques To Stop Hating Your Body During Sex
BUSTLE | The 5 Best Sex Positions For Female Orgasm, Because There Is Nothing Wrong With You


July 2014
GLAMOUR | Sunday Sex Tip: Here’s Your Homework for Better Sex…
BUSTLE | How To Ask For What You Want In Bed: 5 Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Yourself
PSYCHOLOGY TODAY | 7 Tips For Fantastic Honeymoon Sex
HUFFINGTON POST | How Often Do Married Couples Hop In The Sack?
NEWLYWEDS | Best Marriage Advice From Couples Counselors
XOJANE | 7 Ways To Have A Sex Life When You’re Depressed (Or On Libido-Damaging Antidepressants)
BUSTLE | How To Give A Blow Job That Doesn’t Make You Gag: Because Who Says BJs Can’t Be Fun?
ALTERNET | 6 Ways To Get What You Want In Bed
BUSTLE | How Do You Know When You’re Ready To Lose Your Virginity? Ask Yourself These Questions
MINDBODYGREEN | The Connection Between Doing The Dishes And The Best Sex Of Your Life
BUSTLE | What Do You Do When Someone Cheats On You? 5 Ways To Figure Out Your Next Steps
REFINERY29 | What I Learned From No-Orgasm Sex
BUSTLE | How To Experiment With Another Girl: Tips For Exploring Bi-curiosity For The First Time


June 2014
XOJANE | 6 Reasons You’re Not Asking For What You Want In Bed And What To Do About Them
BUSTLE | How To Talk Dirty With Your Partner Without Feeling Like An Idiot
GLAMOUR | Sex Tips For Summer
SPAWEEKDAILY | 10 Health Benefits Of Sex
LIFEHACKER | How Do You Know If You’re Sexually Compatible With Your Partner?
XOJANE | How To Talk To Your Boyfriend Or Husband About His Porn And Masturbation Habits
THE GOOD MEN PROJECT | What To Do If Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex
THE O WORD RADIO SHOW | Bringing Sexy Back
BUSTLE | Should I Be In An Open Relationship? The Dos And Don’ts Of Non-Monogamy
XOJANE | Ask A Sex Therapist: 6 Surprising Reasons Your Sex Drive Might Be Tanking
ALTERNET | 6 Surprising Reasons Your Sex Drive Might Be Tanking
BUSTLE | How To Give Directions During Oral Sex: Because Everyone Needs A Little Help


May 2014
BOUDOIR BY LILY | Featured Guest – Vanessa Marin
XOJANE | How To Regain Control Of Your Sex Life After Sexual Abuse: A Sex Therapists Guide
BUSTLE | Are Vibrators Addictive Or Numbing? Our Sex Therapist Has Your Answer
PLAYBOY | Don’t Call It Mommy Porn
XOJANE | How To Be Supportive If Your Partner Has Penis Problems, From A Sex Therapist
LIFEHACKER | How to Give Your Partner Sexual Feedback Even if You’re Shy


April 2014
BUSTLE | How Do I Ask To Be Dominated
REDBOOK | 10 Things Men Love to Hear in Bed
YOUBEAUTY | What’s Your Orgasm Style
YOUBEAUTY | 5 Best Sex Positions To Practically Guarantee An Orgasm
THOUGHT CATALOG | I’m A Sex Therapist And Here Are My Top 5 Pieces Of Advice For Having A Sex Life That Doesn’t Suck
XOJANE | I’m A Sex Therapist And Here Are My Top 5 Pieces Of Advice For Having A Sex Life That Doesn’t Suck
LIFEHACKER | How to Maintain Your Sex Life During the Work Week


March 2014
LIFEHACKER | Ask an Expert: All About Sexuality
MINDBODYGREEN | 5 Tips To Increase Pleasure During Sex
LADY LUX | Kissing’s Big Role In Making Love Last


February 2014
JEZEBEL | The Truth About How Much A Happy Couple Should Have Sex

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