Over at my Bustle column, I got this question from a reader:

“Any tips for how to make foreplay more interesting? It seems like my partner and I do the exact same thing every time we have sex. Over the years, the amount of time we spend on foreplay has slowly dwindled down to almost nothing, and the things that we do still do are really boring. I miss being a teenager and making out and grinding for hours! How can we bring some passion and excitement like that back into our foreplay?”

Click through for eight of my suggestions!