Has your partner ever done or said something painful, leaving you wondering, “Can we come back from this?” Sometimes you need an outside party to either guide you and your partner through moving past the hurt, or to validate that the relationship can’t survive the blow.

Prepare yourself to hear some pretty spicy takes as we examine each situation and get real about when to talk it out, when to just plain walk, and how to know the difference. Because while we fully support communication and forgiveness, we also advocate for boundaries and respect.

Tune in to the episode, then meet us over on IG and let us know if you agree with our advice or have your own hot take!

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[7:13] “Honey, I miss my old life”

[10:28] “You ruined your vagina” (Go off, Vanessa!)

[15:33] “The Covid catfish double foul”

[21:40] “There’s a weight limit”

[33:10] “Your family can’t afford my love”

[38:16] “Is this insecurity or gaslighting?”

[42:26] “Finding the ex files”

[50:21] “Don’t say it if you don’t mean it”

[54:05] “For entertainment purposes only” (Run! GTFO!)

[55:32] “I wouldn’t say love so much as tolerate”

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