FREE Guide

7 Steps To Deconstructing Shame Around Sex

Is shame getting in the way of you having the sex life you deserve? 74% of our audience said they’ve struggled with shame. In this guide, we give you our seven step process for creating a shame-free sex life. 

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!