FREE Guide

The Simple Daily Check-In Every Couple Needs To Be Doing Right Now

Feeling disconnected from your partner? In this guide, you’ll get a simple yet effective daily ritual designed to keep your relationship solid.

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!