Maybe it’s a gross habit that totally kills the mood…

Maybe it’s a bigger issue that leaves you feeling unseen or disconnected…

This week, we’re diving into a question we hear all the time: Should I be putting up with this in my relationship?

Whether it’s your partner’s lack of ambition, a dead bedroom, constant yelling, or socks in the couch cushions (yep, really) — we’re breaking down how to tell the difference between healthy compromise and straight-up self-betrayal.

We’re walking through real stories submitted by our audience and sharing tools to help you:

• Tune into your own boundaries.
• Get clear on what’s worth working through.
• Speak your truth without blowing things up.

• The difference between patience and people-pleasing.
• When to accept a quirk vs. when to draw a hard line.
• How to handle dead bedrooms, defensiveness, and money fights.
• What to do if your partner’s gross habits are killing your vibe.
• The truth about “sticking it out” vs. knowing when you’ve had enough.

Whether you’re questioning the little things (like nose-picking) or the big things (like being completely ignored emotionally or sexually), this episode is here to help you figure out your next move.

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