This week we’re answering all your questions about trying new positions, from how to introduce something new when you’ve been together forever, to why switching things up can kill the mood, to the pillow trick that changes everything, plus how many positions you actually need for great sex.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
- How to introduce new positions when you’ve been together forever
- The most underrated position, and no, it’s not missionary
- Why switching out of missionary sometimes kills the mood
- What to do when he goes soft during a transition
- The best pillow and furniture for better positions
- How long to give a position before deciding “nah, this isn’t it”
- How many positions you actually need in one session
Use this episode to talk with your partner about what you’d actually love to try next.
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