Am I Being Unreasonable?

October 27, 2022


You love your partner, for better or worse, but there’s just that THING that gets under your skin.

Maybe it’s something they say all the time, maybe it’s a bad habit that they refuse to address, or something bigger like house duties.

Whatever it is, you just can’t seem to “get over it” and you have found yourself wondering, “Am I being unreasonable?”

We reached out to our Instagram audience for their biggest pet peeves and frustrations, and damn did you guys have some good ones! In this episode, we’ll help you uncover possible missing perspectives, give advice on how to move forward, and even validate some the worries because spoiler alert: so many of these are not as unreasonable as you would think!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • True stories of what keeps us all up at night, worrying about our relationship
  • How to reasonably address the situation
  • Ways to get creative and find a feasible compromise

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[6:12] Do you know our zodiac signs?

[8:21] “He is easy-breezy, and I am annoyed.”

[16:46] “It’s getting a little wild…down there.”

[21:07] “He thinks I’m controlling because I’d like boundaries with his female friends.”

[26:25] “I need them to shower every day.”

[28:11] “I am an overwhelmed stay at home mom who feels guilty asking husband for help because he is the breadwinner.”

[37:10] “I have been on birth control for 13 years and now that we are done having kids I want him to get a vasectomy.”

[40:10] “He works until 5 and then does a 2 hour workout routine so we have no time together.”

[45:32] “He plays sports until 2 or 3 am despite us having young children at home.”

[48:17] “STOP FARTING”

Links & resources

Episode 46: The Hygiene Episode: What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t Taking Care Of Themselves

Mental Load Workbook

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