We’ve made our list and we’ve checked it twice… And there’s something for everyone whether you’re naughty or nice.
The V+X Holiday Gift Guide is HERE!
Our goal with our Holiday Gift Guide is to help you choose something that will bring you more joy, excitement, connection, and yes, PLEASURE this season.
Ready to Make This Holiday Sizzle?!
Ready to Make This Holiday Sizzle?!
Our therapist-created courses + guides are designed to teach you the secrets to deep love and hot sex! In a totally doable, approachable, step-by-step way. It’s the sex education you always wished you’d had!
After 20+ years, and working with tens of thousands of couples, we’ve developed a proven, five-step system to create intimacy that lasts! It’s the foundation of every single one of our products–and it WORKS!
Wherever you are in your relationship, we’re here to meet you.
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and don’t miss out on our LAST CHANCE items — this is your final opportunity to snag these gifts before they’re gone forever.
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No matter who you’re shopping for – or if you’re treating yourself – our guide is here to help you pick the perfect gift for deepening connection, sparking intimacy, and having unforgettable experiences.
We’ve even created some fun holiday personas to help you find exactly what you need this season…
The Best Gifts Are the Ones You Both Enjoy!
The Naughty Elf
Ready to spice things up this holiday season with playful surprises and sexy adventures? Check these out:
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Ultimate Foreplay Guides
The gift that keeps on giving (and receiving).
Master the art of hands-on pleasure with techniques that will leave your partner (and you!) saying, “I didn’t know it could be this good!”
With 40+ illustrated sex positions and step-by-step instructions, this guide ensures every night feels like a holiday!
Next Level Intercourse
The ultimate playbook for adventurous lovers.
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30 days of fun, easy, sensual prompts to bring the heat back into your relationship. Out of ideas or tired of the same old, same old? Let this challenge do the work for you! Because sometimes spice is TWICE as nice!
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The Sex Challenge
Ready to unwrap each other?
LAST CHANCE!
Get ready to bring some serious heat during sexy moments that will have your partner begging you to keep it coming (or render them totally speechless).
Dirty Talk 101
The hottest thing you can do with your mouth this season.
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This step-by-step guide will help you discover how immensely pleasurable and incredibly fun butt stuff can be!
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Butt Stuff
Explore something new under the tree.
Last Chance!
last chance!
The Stressed-Out Santa
Juggling work, life, and making the holidays magical for everyone else? These are for you (because even Santa deserves a break!):
Reignite the spark and keep it burning through this season and beyond! This masterclass is designed to rekindle the passion between you… because pleasure is the best kind of stress relief!
Bring Your Sex Life Back to Life
Turn holiday stress into sexy success.
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Detailed and organized task lists + strategies to go through together, to give you clarity and accountability on exactly who is doing what (and a new-found appreciation for each other!).
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Mental Load Workbook
Get back on the same team this holiday!
Last Chance!
Last Chance!
The Cozy Caroler
Thrives on heartfelt conversations, snuggles, and meaningful moments that warm the heart–and more.
7 days of fun and flirty activities, games, and conversation starters for you to feel closer, connect deeper, and have your best week ever.
Your Best Week Ever
Snuggle up for the best week of your life!
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This practical, playful, and wildly effective online course will help you and your partner finally understand what you both need to feel enthusiastic about intimacy.
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The Art of Initiation
Turn up the holiday heat!
fan favorite!
This course will help you prioritize your relationship, disrupt the belief that “this is just how it is with kids”, and reignite your bond.
Rediscovering Us
Because parents deserve playtime too!
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Last Chance!
If you’re craving more warmth, laughter, and endless conversation, these 30 days of intimacy prompts will get you exactly where you want to be in just 10 minutes a day.
The Connection Challenge
The perfect gift to reignite your spark!
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Last Chance!
The Mistletoe Mastermind
They’ve got a plan for everything–including where to hang the mistletoe!
Create a shared roadmap of your desires and check off those playful and passionate moments together. 2025, look out!
Sexual Bucket List
Plan for a year of exploration and excitement.
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We'll help you get out of your date-night rut with an entire year of creative date ideas curated for busy couples, parents, and even long-distance relationships.
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A Year of Creative Dates
Make this the year of unforgettable date nights.
Last Chance!
Last Chance!
The Curious Cupid
Ready to unlock your sensual side and discover pleasure like never before? These beginner-friendly options will have you spreading more than just cheer this year.
*Note: No need to use the holiday coupon on this Sweet + Spicy deal! We’ve already applied for the discount for you! Save more than 25% when you grab both challenges!
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Sweet or Spicy*
Choose your holiday adventure!
Our bestselling Connection + Sex Challenges are perfect for busy couples during the holiday hustle with daily, bite-sized activities delivered straight to your inbox! Whether you pick Sweet (The Connection Challenge) or Spicy (The Sex Challenge) or BOTH, get ready for cozy heartfelt moments and electrifying intimacy–in just 10 minutes a day!
Last Chance!
Stop avoiding intimacy and start having wildly pleasurable sex and orgasms. A step-by-step course for overcoming the physical and emotional blockages to orgasm.
Finishing School
Your guide to discovering your body’s full potential. For vulva-owners.
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This best-selling masterclass will give you step-by-step instructions with doable action items so you can finally embrace your sexiest self!
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Supercharge Your Confidence
Confidence is the ultimate holiday glow-up!
Last Chance!
Back and better than ever!
And if you REALLY want to stuff her stocking or knock his socks off... get it all with...
Better, Hotter, More
Unwrap confidence, connection, and unforgettable pleasure.
Ever wish your partner had a user manual? After this course, you’ll have one! Both you and your partner will explore new techniques that maximize pleasure, deepen your understanding of one another, and optimize orgasms.
AKA–you’re getting literally everything you need to build (or rebuild) intimacy and create lasting change in your relationship!
Learn from the privacy of your home, with self-paced videos, playful activities, and tools that fit even the busiest schedules.
Better, Hotter, More is our premier, all-in-one sex and relationship master program designed to totally transform your sex life.
Follow our proven 5-step Everyday Intimacy framework to deepen your connection, ignite desire, and rediscover pleasure.
Packed with fluff-free, actionable content that delivers real results—without taking up your whole evening.
Taught by a real-life couple—a licensed sex therapist and her husband—the course takes you through every aspect of intimacy, from initiation to orgasm.
Better, Hotter, More is your roadmap to the sex (and love) life you’ve always dreamed of—plus exclusive bonuses worth over $1,800.
FAQs
Not everything is applicable to everyone, so when certain dynamics or activities are geared more toward a specific subset (for example cisgender male & female couples), we aim to explicitly call that out.” and change the email address to info@vmtherapy.com
Make This Holiday Season Unforgettable
Here’s to deeper connection, more joy, and unforgettable pleasure. Let’s make this the season of giving—and receiving.
Happy Holidays from
