Is It Hard For You To Ask For What You Want?

November 24,2018

If you’re like most people, asking for what you want in the bedroom is a big challenge for you. You might not even know what you want in the bedroom. You might not feel worthy of asking. You might be afraid of your partner’s reactions.

Inspired by those two emails I got, I decided to put together a special masterclass to teach you how to discover what you want, and how to ask for it with confidence.

Since it’s that time of the year, I’m offering it as a special Black Friday/Cyber Monday deal.

I know Black Friday through Cyber Monday is always a crazy weekend, and you’re probably getting tons of emails encouraging you to BUY. MORE. STUFF.

But let’s be real: what’s going to make you happier – a pair of discounted socks, or the chance to create more intimate, playful, satisfying experiences with the person you love the most in the world?

So here’s the opportunity I’d like to present to you…

If you purchase my brand new masterclass, How To Ask For What You Want In The Bedroom (And Even Know What You Want In The First Place!) for only $49, you’ll unlock a $100 discount that you can use on any of my online courses!

The masterclass costs just $49, so if you do purchase a course, you’re basically getting the live masterclass for free, plus $51 off the course!

This special deal is valid until 11:59pm PT on Monday the 26th. At midnight, you won’t be able to purchase the masterclass, and the $100 discount code will expire.

This masterclass is jam-packed with practical, actionable techniques for discovering what you want in the bedroom, and asking for it with confidence and ease. You’ll learn:

The six major blockages to knowing what you want, plus how to overcome each.
The five major blockages to asking for what you want, with strategies for plowing through each blockage.
An insanely helpful acronym that you can use to figure out what you need in the moment, even if you’re feeling stuck or lost.
18 bonus ideas for asking for what you want. (This is a super fun list!)

The masterclass will take place on Monday, December 3rd at 4pm PT/7pm ET. The class will be recorded, so you’ll still be able to access it if you can’t make it live.

During the masterclass, I’ll also be taking questions live, so you can get personal coaching! I’ll give you personalized feedback and suggestions to help you overcome your particular challenges.

My coaching sessions range from $450 to $550 for the first session, so this is a tremendous value.

A few important details about the masterclass:

It’s completely private and confidential, so no one will know your name or information.
If you can’t make it live, no problem! The masterclass will be recorded, and you’ll get access to it for life. Plus, you can submit your questions ahead of time.
You’ll also get a bonus workbook with even more tips, techniques, and strategies to take with you after the masterclass is over.

At the end of this masterclass, you’ll:

Understand what you need in the bedroom, and feel confident asking for it.
Know that you’re worthy of pleasure and attention.
Feel more present in the moment during sex, and more connected to yourself and your body. (No more thinking about your to-do list or staring at the cracks in the ceiling.)
Be able to recapture that spark that you and your partner had at the beginning of your relationship. Sex will feel more playful, more intimate, and more special.

And of course, you’ll have much better sex! Because the whole point of learning what you want and asking for it is so that you can have more fun in the bedroom!

I’m so excited for this masterclass, and I know you’re going to love it too! Especially since you’ll also unlock a $100 discount on any of my online courses.

There are a limited number of spots available in the masterclass, since I want to make sure I answer as many questions as possible (and since my software has participant limits!). So I highly recommend signing up as soon as possible in order to guarantee your spot!


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I'm Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom.

I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

If you’re interested in improving your sex life, you can work with me via my online courses or personal coaching sessions. I look forward to supporting you in creating the sex life you’ve always wanted!