FREE Guide

The Four Things
Women Really Want
In The Bedroom

In this guide, you’ll discover exactly what women are really looking for in a sexual partner, along with specific tips and strategies for improving your sexual performance.

hey there!

Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh and give you the courage to talk openly about intimacy, so you can have more fun in and out of the bedroom.

We're vanessa + xander marin!