Are mismatched sex drives ruining your relationship?


When you hear the words “sex drive,” “libido,” or “desire,” you probably just think of one thing – being in the mood for sex.

But it’s a bit more complex than that. There are actually two completely different sex drive types. If you want to have an active and exciting sex life, it’s crucial that you each understand which type you are.

A lot of people on the internet call us “That Sex Couple.” Vanessa’s a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. (Which makes him very popular at parties!)

Our mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate.

We’re here to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk openly about sex and relationships so you can have more fun in the bedroom.

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