Casual sex vs Relationship sex: Why performance anxiety can actually be higher in a long-term relationship – and how to overcome it

November 05,2020

Think back on some of your hottest, most passionate sexual encounters. The ones where you felt totally uninhibited, performed really well, and had a ton of fun. 

Who were those moments with?

I’m willing to bet that some of your hottest sexual memories are from more casual relationships than from your long-term relationship.

You would think you’d have less anxiety with a person you know really well and are in love with, but it often turns out that the opposite is true in the bedroom! 

Casual Sex Vs. Relationship Sex – Bring The Energy Of Casual Sex Into Your LTR

In this week’s video, I talk about why performance anxiety often strikes harder when you’re in a long-term relationship vs. a more casual fling. 

But don’t worry! 

I also tell you exactly how to harness that sexual energy and bring it into your long-term relationship.

If you’re ready to breathe new life into your sex life, this video is for you!

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I'm Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom.

I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

If you’re interested in improving your sex life, you can work with me via my online courses or personal coaching sessions. I look forward to supporting you in creating the sex life you’ve always wanted!