Welcome to our very first coaching episode!
Ever feel stuck in your sex life — like you know things could be better but have no idea how to fix them? That’s exactly where today’s couple is.
In this special, brand-new format, we’re coaching a real life couple, and diving deep into mismatched desire, stress, and the invisible walls keeping them from a more connected, fulfilling sex life.
We break down:
- When one partner feels standoffish about sex – What’s really behind the hesitation?
- Balancing work, kids & intimacy – Why stress kills desire (and what to do about it).
- Breaking out of a relationship rut – Feeling stuck? Here’s how to start making real changes.
- What happens when the woman has the higher sex drive – And how to navigate it without resentment.
- How to actually change your sex life – Small, doable steps that make a big difference.
If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner keep missing each other when it comes to intimacy — this episode is for you.
And stick around until the end because we have a special announcement you won’t want to miss!
Links & Resources
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