Ever wish you could get a straight answer about what’s actually going on in his head? 🧠
We’re back with Part 4 of our “What Do Men Really Think About…?” series — and this time we’re diving into everything from Heated Rivalry and seeing gay sex on screen… to mental load, breadwinning, and why it takes them so long to poop.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
- How men feel about watching gay sex on screen (including the Heated Rivalry phenomenon).
- Whether they actually believe mental load is real.
- What they think about baggy sweats and messy hair at home.
- How they feel when their partner earns more money than they do.
- The truth about submissiveness — and whether they want women to take more control.
- If they care about going down on you if you haven’t showered.
- And what they really notice about areolas.
Xander’s not holding back… and some answers may surprise you!
Links & Resources:
What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 1
What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 2
What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3
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