The Truth About Squirting (And Why Men Are Obsessed With It)

April 28,2022

Squirting: is it real? Where does it come from? IS IT PEE?!

In this episode, we are doing a deep dive on the mystery of squirting: specifically what it is, why it happens, and how we all became so obsessed with it.

Join us for a very educational episode and learn why this topic gets Vanessa so fired up!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[00:51] How did we go from “how to stop” to “how to squirt”?!

[04:53] What IS squirting? Is it pee?

[11:44] The fire hose myth

[13:52] Are all vulva-owners capable of squirting?

[16:20] The MOST important takeaway from this episode

[19:02] The uncomfortable truth about squirting

[20:20] Squirting and porn

[21:03] Why Vanessa gets fired up about this

[22:58] Our Instagram experiment (we both expected VERY different things)

[27:00] Are men fascinated with squirting? What’s the deal?

[30:40] How to approach squirting as the partner of a woman or vulva-owner

[35:37] Some tips for if you ARE someone who squirts

[37:22] What do you do if you want to learn to squirt (we almost didn’t include this)

Links & resources

NJoy Pure Wand

Finishing School

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I'm Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and writer specializing in helping you have more fun in the bedroom.

I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies. I’m also a licensed psychotherapist. I’ve been working in the sex therapy field since 2002 and have been featured by The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, and many more.

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