We were WRONG.
Well, Vanessa was. She thought there was no way our last Ask Us Anything episode would be popular, but it ended up being one of our most listened-to episodes!
So we decided to do a Part 2 with more of the most asked and most interesting personal questions we’ve gotten.
We’re talking about:
- What we fight about
- What we won’t do sexually
- Vanessa’s ultra-personal therapy update
- What our families think about us being in the sex therapy business
- What we keep private from our Instagram audience
And so much more!
Here’s a glance at this episode:
[07:03] “What do you fight about?”
[12:45] Screwin’ the shit out of the water bottle lid
[14:00] “What was Xander’s reaction to finding out about Vanessa’s interest in sex therapy?”
[15:55] “Is there anything you won’t do sexually?”
[17:00] “Favorite place in the house to have sex?”
[19:01] “How has the intensity of entrepreneurship affected your relationship? How do you manage that work/life balance?”
[20:20] The main thing we have to focus on as co-workers
[22:12] How me manage work/life balance
[25:26] “Did you ever struggle with your sexual compatibility in the beginning?”
[26:58] Xander recounts our compatibility timeline
[27:50] “Do you have a morning routine?”
[29:17] “How often is sex the topic when you’re hanging out with friends?”
[30:19] “Do either of you go to individual therapy?”
[31:00] Vanessa gets REALLY honest about therapy
[32:39] “Tell us about living in Berlin!”
[36:57] “How is your house hunt going?”
[38:10] “What do your families think of your profession?”
[40:26] “Is there anything that you keep from us?”
Links & resources
Podcast Episode: How To Have Amazing Sex with a Brand New Partner
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