Make 2023 The Year You Finally Feel Sexy

January 5, 2023


What makes a person sexy? We all want to be sexy, but most of us don’t feel that way very often (or at all). It can be hard to see yourself as sexy after long hours at work, taking care of kids, or watching your body change over the years. Even worse, we don’t know how to change that, because we don’t know what “sexy” even means! Google certainly isn’t helpful. What the heck are we supposed to do?

Listen to this episode, that’s what! We want you to feel sexy and confident on a regular basis. In this episode, we teach you how to identify and create your own definition of sexy, so you can make 2023 your sexiest year yet.

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[4:02] Hey Google, can you tell me how to be sexy?

[8:33] Rating ourselves on the sexy scale

[21:56] Personal inherent sexiness vs the feeling of being sexy in the moment

[22:28] Tapping into the sexy meter

[23:09] Step 1: Rethinking “sexy” as a definition

[26:07] How to self-identify what is truly sexy to you

[36:26] When your partner compliments you, BELIEVE THEM

[42:47] Step 2: Embodying “sexy”

[46:55] Allowing yourself to receive the pleasure you deserve

[51:59] If it feels good, it counts!

[53:52] Listener Letter #1 : “How can I feel sexy without needing validation from others?”

[54:40] Listener Letter #2: “How can you feel sexy as a mom?”

[58:31] Discussing the idea of 24/7 sexy and what lies in the details

[1:05:34] The many things that make a man truly sexy

Links & resources

Sex Talks

The Foreplay Guides

Next Level Intercourse

Episode 4: Mental Load: What It Is and How to Stop It from Destroying Your Relationship

Episode 12: How To Let Your Partner Love Your Body – Even If You Don’t

Episode 65: How To Overcome Sexual Shame With Our 7-Step Process

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