We’ve all seen the articles from cheesy women’s magazines (and TikTok)…“10 foolproof ways to drive your man wild in bed!” But so many of the tips just sound weird. (Slipping a donut over his penis? Really?) There’s a never-ending supply of suggestions to supposedly turn up the heat in the bedroom, but do any of them actually work??

We asked our Instagram audience to share the sex tips they’ve always been curious about, and decided to be the guinea pigs for you!

Along with some hilarious sex mishaps and admitting which ones made us run screaming, you’re gonna get the scoop on which sex tips are worth a try and which ones were truly just doomed from the start. You’ll even get to hear our actual voice memos from our experiments. Gulp.

It was truly a wild ride, but since we’re doing this in the name of science, we also give you a cheat code or two on how to turn what sounds like a click-bait nightmare into a little trick to keep up your sleeve when you’re feeling like mixing it up.

Here’s a glance at this episode:

[1:00] A girl’s very first Cosmo

[6:39] Review Of The Week

[10:43] Why is it always about the dude?

[15:07] The Unceremonious Raspberry – An extreme hummer

[21:22] The Grapefruit Trick – Is one towel enough?

[29:13] Ice Cube Blowjobs – This just got real

[32:05] The tip that was immediately vetoed

[33:33] Fruit Rollup – A makeshift edible cock ring

[36:14] Poprocks vs Starbursts

[37:56] Should it be in her mouth?

[39:50] “And his penis was never the same…”

[40:50] Color Outside The Lines

[42:35] Gag Reduction With A Fist

[44:55] Fingers Crossed – For her pleasure

[48:15] Perpendicular Passion – Gotta hit them angles

[51:45] “I am not the hugest fan of___”

[54:37] Licking The Pit – Who knew?

[57:05] The Truth About Humming – Getting pitch perfect

[59:53] Gotta Request? Hit up the request line

Links & resources

Guide: The Foreplay Guides

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