I’m really serious about the privacy of my clients, so I don’t usually talk about what goes on behind the scenes of my sex therapy and coaching business. But there’s something happening that is so fascinating I just can’t keep quiet any longer.

If you’ve been following me for a while, you probably know that I have two online courses that teach women how to have their first orgasms:

Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm, for women who have never had an orgasm.

Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner, for women who can orgasm on their own, but struggle to get there with a partner.

One of the most common things I hear from the women who sign up is, “I can’t believe a program like this exists. I feel like I’m the only woman who struggles with my orgasm.” That feeling of being alone is almost universal, and it’s so, so painful.

So here’s the cool thing – whenever a woman signs up for Finishing School, there’s almost always a second woman who signs up almost immediately afterwards. I almost never get a woman who signs up completely on her own.

These women don’t know each other. Most of the time they’re from entirely different countries. They’re not planning on signing up at the same time. But it’s striking that women inadvertently end up signing up in pairs.

It could just be completely random, but I can’t help but feel that there’s some sort of connection.

The women who are drawn to Finishing School appreciate the privacy of the program. They like that they can work their way through it in their own homes, without having to go to an office or risk being seen by someone they know.

But still, I know that so many of us ladies are looking for a feeling of connection, even of sisterhood, in our orgasmic journeys. We want to know that other women understand and share our frustrations. We want to know that other women get what we’re going through.

If you’ve been considering signing up for Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm or Finishing School: Orgasm With A Partner, think about the very likely possibility that there’s another woman out there hovering her finger over the checkout button at the exact same moment you are. Know that you are not alone!