Does She Have To Orgasm Every Time?

May 24, 2016

A few weeks ago, I was asked by New York Magazine to participate in a podcast discussion about female orgasm. After reading my piece, Her Orgasm Is Not About You, New York Magazine wanted my thoughts about the politics of female orgasm, including the orgasm gap that exists between men and women.

Here’s their description of the podcast:

It’s the ultimate sign of straight masculinity: the ability to get a woman off. So what happens when he fails? Dr. Ian Kerner, author of “She Comes First,” and Vanessa Marin, who wrote “Her Orgasm Is Not About You,” debate the relative importance of female orgasm in straight sex acts. How important is the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for fixing it? And are we supposed to be squirting now?! With Maureen O’Connor and David Wallace-Wells.

Check it out in full here!

Interested in learning more about female orgasm? Hop right on over here!

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